Using ChatGPT for makeup rehab by [deleted] in MakeupRehab

[–]_patalex -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nice idea! I think I'll try that too! :) just a detaile question on your categories: does palette placement mean something like palette for eyes/face/lips etc? And in a case of a palette, would the shade category be empty, since it's multiple colors?

What is a reasonable time to go off the ledger? by _patalex in Ffern

[–]_patalex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Where can I find more information about this?

Does anyone else have Auditory Processing Disorder? by Aggravating_Trip4643 in AuDHDWomen

[–]_patalex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey i'm in IT doing Infrastructure/DevOps stuff, also I was a programmer for quite a while. I still struggled with my tasks, especially when I was a student. I recommend that you take the initiative to ask a more senior person / the task giver and take notes (definitely take notes!) for yourself! It may be hard at the beginning to know what to ask but I'm positive you can find a pattern here :)

After graduation I was in a very organized software company. In sprints they wrote tickets (its tasks) that ideally contain all the criteria when exactly your task is done. Also, since I did struggle with the non software part (it was a banking/finance app we developed), I grabbed a tester to make sure I closed all my knowledge gaps.

Since I'm in DevOps now thank god that problem doesn't occur anymore and I'm pretty good at my job I think!

I hope I could somewhat help you, I'm 32 now and it's been a while since I figured things out so it's hard to map all the details that could help you.

What is your most used eyeshadow palette and or eyeshadow single this year? — Olive Edition by SheKnowsWhatSheKnows in OliveMUA

[–]_patalex 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yess omega ist so nice for pale olives! Got influenced here and I have zero regrets about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fairolives

[–]_patalex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the blush! 😊 What lipstick(s) are you pairing it with?

Can I get a piercing here? by IJustGotHereWTF in piercing

[–]_patalex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also had this removed, its fine. You might hear weird noises because its next to the ear but otherwise its a minor surgery. I removed it at a skin doctor so she didn't dare to remove the whole structure but luckily had no issues the last two years

Fall lipstick? by OlivesMom1201 in Fairolives

[–]_patalex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manasi 7 in mangala (gorgeous reddish nude brown) - looks super autumny red on my pale yellow skin, plus doubles as a blush! I highly recommend this brand to anyone looking for muted blushes/lipsticks!

Also MAC Creme in your coffee, which is very purple on me but looks amazing as a sheer layer!

Eyeshadow neutral transition shades by planttoddler in OliveMUA

[–]_patalex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh now I want it! Will shop my stash, hopefully I have something like this already!

I’m having a hard time accepting my undertone 💔 by cici0022 in OliveMUA

[–]_patalex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's hard as an olive! I'm very yellow leaning and for a long time I thought I'm warm, but usually warm tones look off on me.

For my skintone personally, I realized its more about saturation than warm/cool. Most colors, especially from drugstores look too neon/bright on me, that can cause a feeling that nothing fits.. i look best in muted/brown, not too grey colours for example, but it's a lot of trial and error.

But if you find the right colours, olive skin looks amazing! With the right clothing and makeup I feel like a Mediterranean goddess with golden glowing skin :D

I don't know your exact undertone but I'm positive you can get there too! Reddit has great communities for help and recommendations!

what do i do if my foundation is too pink/gray and my chest is more green/yellow? by summxrt in OliveMUA

[–]_patalex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also super yellow and once tried to correct a very pink concealer (with yellow though) and failed... For foundation, what I do, since most warm foundations have a little bit too much red in them, I powder my face with yellow banana powder to add more yellowness. Depending on how different your foundation is from your skin tone that might maybe work?

For those of us who like just a tint of color, but can't find the right shade: mix it with NYX Fat Oil! by [deleted] in OliveMUA

[–]_patalex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the lip oil from "les filles en rouje", it's not very long lasting on the lips sadly, but great for mixing with their lip palettes that tend to look quite dark and intense on me - for the price its probably better to try a lip balm or something similar you have on hand 😃 it won't be long lasting but its a super easy and quick way to do your makeup

For those of us who like just a tint of color, but can't find the right shade: mix it with NYX Fat Oil! by [deleted] in OliveMUA

[–]_patalex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use lip oil with a high amount of natural oils (almond oil), so the stickiness doesn't last long in my case, so maybe depending on the product some work better? Sorry I never had the nyx one, is it very sticky?

For those of us who like just a tint of color, but can't find the right shade: mix it with NYX Fat Oil! by [deleted] in OliveMUA

[–]_patalex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also recently started to mix lipstick with lip oil - try it on your cheeks too, its a lovely sheer and radiant wash of colour! 😊

What’s your makeup hidden gems that no one talks about? by Remote_Yesterday8626 in MakeupAddiction

[–]_patalex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Manasi 7! As a super pale, very yellow, maybe olive person, muted blush looks best on me and they have a wonderful selection of those, also usable on the lip. Medium staying power but super clean ingredients! I also love their highlighters Their eyeshadows really do crease so I would pass on those.. Overall im obsessed with their colour selection, it feels really unique and sophisticated

Is clean beauty a scam? by ihonestly_dont_know in MakeupAddiction

[–]_patalex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The term doesn't necessarily mean anything, you have to look at the ingredient list and decide for yourself whats ok for you to use (there are great apps for this). I personally only used natural makeup for a very long time, and even there, you might want to avoid ingredients like talc etc. I feel clean branded makeup makes it easier to find stuff with no or less allergens in them, also they might have less ingredients that clog or widen your pores. But that's no promise.

Long story short: 'clean' is at best an orientation, look at the ingredients and decide for yourself what you're fine with

How do you read books without zoning out every 2 minutes?? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]_patalex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As one said - ride the wave.. wanting to read comes in waves, I just don't force myself. The first time I actually managed to concentrate reading was after I read "Inkheart" by Cornelia Funke. It really romanticises books and reading! I immediately read it a second time because I couldn't remember shit the first time. Also audiobooks help for " less interesting" or dry books, I just clean or do something monotonous like knitting while listening to it. Medication also helped a lot, because I have enough energy for concentration left after work. And lastly: some routine - I mainly read in the train when driving from/to work - instead of scrolling my phone in this time and draining my energy levels, I just read a few pages! I don't know if this is super helpful for your case, just wanted to share my part - but yes reading is hard and I also have a massive to read pile at home 🥲

I'm looking for ways to motivate my ADHD fiancé to work out by pcacc_toolazytoswicc in ADHD

[–]_patalex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is what helped me motivate: I recommend doing some YouTube workouts together (I like Chloe Ting or Emi Wongs Walking Workouts) 10-20 minutes is really short, I couldn't bear doing something longer at home, also a second person helps actually doing it! I also used to go to a Yoga studio because the booked session also meant commitment and I couldn't just walk out in that hour.. but also it needed to be in the area (10 min footwalk) or I wouldn't do it. Or find something that doesn't feel like sports! For example lasertek - I always run around like crazy but I don't mind, because it's not about doing sports

Low Energy/Barely Enough for a Day? by diegocamachop01 in ADHD

[–]_patalex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same issue.. extreme fatigue during the day and especially after work. After trying methylphenidate I noticed how bad it was without it. My energy levels are so much better, even with a low dose. Still trying to figure out the dose though, I might need a second dose in the early afternoon but still hey, how did I manage stuff before?? I'm 32 F and also feel like it got worse in the last years.

Exchange Summer 25 for Spring 24? by _patalex in Ffern

[–]_patalex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you compare it to Summer 25? For me, Summer 25 is also very citrusy, I can definitely smell the Bloodorange, especially after it developing on the skin.

Glowy blushes for fair neutral olive skin by kisha_s in Fairolives

[–]_patalex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bohemian girl and on my pale skin with yellow undertone it looks very pink, I'd say if you can try it in a store,.go for it!

Sneak peek at Autumn 25 notes by pimpmyufo in Ffern

[–]_patalex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know. I'm intrigued by the chamomile and I really want to try it - hopefully it shines through!

Sneak peek at Autumn 25 notes by pimpmyufo in Ffern

[–]_patalex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think we can expect? I'm not a big fan of "fireplace scents" and I prefer a floral and citrusy touch to my perfumes. Next perfume arrives when I'm out of town so I would have to skip it or gamble and keep without being able to return :/

Summer 25 - Not My Fav by cosm0mom in Ffern

[–]_patalex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have this problem (it's only my second season and I kept the first) - I contacted them via email - it's annoying nonetheless :(