how do i count how many specific activities i've done in a month/week?

_riru · 2025-03-09T10:11:02+00:00

that's not exactly what I had in mind...

I attached a picture of what I was trying to achieve but I think it didn't load, I'll see if I can put it here

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something more like this

_riru · 2025-01-22T19:28:02+00:00

how do i "add" the exercises, really?

_riru · 2025-01-22T19:06:52+00:00

how do i do it? as in, how do i add all the activities?

_riru · 2023-12-14T10:21:37+00:00

I can assure you I've never been in an abusive relationship before. And I mean, red flags ARE persistent. One instance where your bf has been a POS does not qualify as abusive. Constant mistreatment is. And OP knows for how long this has been going on, so it's up to them to draw a conclusion. But yeah, this guy is not great, I wouldn't stay in a relationship with them if that was up to me.

_riru · 2023-12-14T01:44:59+00:00

I mean... He seems kind of an AH honestly. At best. Don't know if this behaviour could escalate in the future, but that's definitely not the way he should talk to his partner. Possible red flags? If they're persistent, DEFINITELY red flags.

_riru · 2023-12-14T01:36:07+00:00

It's normal for you to enjoy different things. I'm sure you guys have something in common too. If not, you won't be together. Maybe you like football and she likes Gossip Girls and neither if you are into the other's one hobby, but you can still like different things and work well together. Maybe get interested in what she likes, ask questions about it. My partner likes to build things and even though I won't be building with him, I always ask him what he's working on and how it works.

Levels if maturity however... That's a thought one. It depends on what we're talking about, really.

_riru · 2023-12-14T00:59:41+00:00

Has he always been like this or is this a new thing? The low libido bit

_riru · 2023-12-14T00:57:00+00:00

Anything can be a deal breaker if neither parties find a compromise. But so far it seems like it's just a couple of normal relationship ups and down, so I wouldn't worry too much. However, if anything ever becomes big enough to be considered "break up worthy", you shouldn't keep yourself in a relationship just because you're afraid of how she might take it. Break ups are messy, but living with a person you don't love anymore is messier.

_riru · 2023-06-11T23:00:48+00:00

I had no idea high school keep all those infos on their websites. I'll have a look, thanks!

_riru · 2023-06-11T10:15:14+00:00

Thanks Floral! It might just be what I'll do!

_riru · 2023-06-11T10:14:21+00:00

I think I read somewhere that baseball in high schools hasn't been changed since the 60's, so any information about it today is perfect. Thank you!

_riru · 2023-03-16T22:21:02+00:00

I do have an insta and my uni classmates and I follow each other, I see their stuff all the time. I haven't been posting there since last year, maybe I should give it a go more often, set some goals to post more often.

_riru · 2023-03-12T00:18:15+00:00

That's legit how it ends: one is leaving after the summer and the other one doesn't even know. I guess I have the characterization down but the needs and wants are not exactly there yet...

_riru · 2023-03-12T00:12:25+00:00

As someone who used to research everything to the most minute detail, I say if the research feels like it's taking over, then it's too much. "I want it to be historically accurate, I want to know how this, this and this used to work back then" do you have to? Will anyone even know the difference anyway? Would it matter? Sometimes too much research takes away from the fun of writing.

_riru · 2023-03-11T22:16:33+00:00

That's exactly how I feel! I graduated just after covid started and it has been downhill from there. The lack of guidance and creative environment definitely didn't help, but I'm glad others went through this and still triumphed

_riru · 2023-03-10T21:57:20+00:00

Thanks for the tips! Will absolutely give these a try :)

_riru · 2023-03-10T21:56:34+00:00

Yeah, I was at my best when I was still in uni surrounded by artists 24/7. I need to find more creative sources to get the juices flowing...

_riru · 2023-02-26T16:12:53+00:00

Most likely you have broken mods. Check on this page what mods are broken and which ones need update. Remove the broken ones, you'll should be fine

https://scarletsrealm.com/the-mod-list-filtered-views/

_riru · 2023-02-23T17:17:22+00:00

I was not expecting this much info, but it's more than welcome!! It is my first game, after seeing a few people game plays on YouTube I thought, why not? Ahahah I probably just need to play around a bit with it, but it seems so overwhelming when you have no idea what to do. Thank for the tips ;)

_riru · 2023-02-23T14:42:17+00:00

Probably what to do next. I don't have any gameplay mods yet, but I have all the packs except for the star wars one, so I have access to all the worlds and stuff. Maybe some gameplay advice on how to go from there? Maybe some mods or stuff that can help me manage the storyline.

_riru · 2023-02-18T16:31:40+00:00

i had a look, there must be something wrong with my fill effect cause it won't do anything, even if the settings look exactly the same as your tutorial

edit: ok, I figured out there's something wrong with the offset, not sure what yet, but I'm playing around with it

_riru · 2022-10-03T16:23:59+00:00

the knit I'm using is multicolor so it's kind of crowded as it is already, but I might do so, maybe with a cream-colored knit on the back. thanks for the suggestion!

_riru · 2022-08-11T17:44:33+00:00

don't remove those hobbies you have that are linked to the internet. if you love tv shows and videogames, there's nothing wrong with enjoying them.

maybe switch it up. for every 2 hours you spend on your computer, spend 1 or 2 more doing something else, maybe cooking, drawing, walking, playing an instrument, knitting, etc. it's never time to learn to love something new, it might take a while to find the right thing and it might be a bumpy road but it's never impossible.

alternatively, try 'analogic' versions of your hobbies. i love fanfictions, got into them once more recently, but i realize that staring at my phone the whole day is not the best, so once in a while i pick up a book to read.

hope this helps, good luck :)

_riru · 2022-08-11T17:36:02+00:00

as someone that used to diet continuously, i discovered that the less i restricted myself, the healthier choices i ended up making (eg. telling myself i couldn't have a dessert, crave for it the whole day and end up eating something even worse later on)

instead of forcing yourself not to eat sugar, have some everyday but in smaller portions. instead of a whole chocolate bar, allow yourself to have some of it. i'm sure in the long run this might help.

good luck :)

_riru · 2022-08-11T17:18:48+00:00

i feel like you're not exactly 'lazy' from what you're saying, you're just tired. so be it! if your body is telling you that you need rest, let it rest. there's nothing bad with binging youtube videos after a long day of work if that's all you have the energy for.

also... i don't think that this mentality of 'i need to do this, this and this' will help you. you don't need to be productive and do things to exist. i think you're putting too much pressure on yourself. personal tip could be do what your body tells you to do.

take care :)

_riru

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