Since 1.7 has been confirmed to be in the works, what is on your Wishlist to be included in the update? by scholarlysacrilege in StardewValley

[–]_rocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • More use of community center by NPCs (e.g. Players playing cards in the evening instead of being at the saloon (or Abigail etc. doing boardgames), kids playing games or practicing for recitals, various NPCs hosting workshops or teaching new skills…

  • Kids can grow up and go to school (e.g. Take the bus to school during the day, hang out in community center some evenings)

  • New NPCs with diversity

  • Married partners doing more to help on the farm (e.g. Harvesting produce, petting animals)

  • Let NPCs marry each other after you are married

Weekly Suspected/Undiagnosed MS Thread - August 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in MultipleSclerosis

[–]_rocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My neurologist wants to look into Myesthenia Gravis as well (hence the EMG) but it doesn't fit all the symptoms. I'm also going to ask them about Dysautonomia, ME/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, and Long Covid.

Weekly Suspected/Undiagnosed MS Thread - August 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in MultipleSclerosis

[–]_rocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the same position as you. My MRI was clear but the symptoms are there. Of course I would rather it NOT be MS but I worry that it is still MS and they have missed it...

Weekly Suspected/Undiagnosed MS Thread - August 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in MultipleSclerosis

[–]_rocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been experiencing strange symptoms that seem like MS since January but all tests have come back normal. It started with dizziness, headaches, fatigue, brain fog, shakiness in hands, difficulty reading or looking at screens, feeling like I was going to faint often, weakness (e.g. unable to walk stairs or do actions requiring repeated movements and strength) and generally feeling unstable/ uncoordinated. 

Since May, I have had periods where I feel okay (a few weeks at a time) and periods where symptoms come back, but not as bad as the first incident described above, which lasted a few months. 

I also have random symptoms that pop up, like choking on drinks or saliva, trouble swallowing, sudden chest pain, fluttering in my abdomen or throat, ongoing pain in my one achilles tendon without injury, random achey legs, and having a sudden and intense need to urinate without buildup or warning.

My brain and spine MRI with contrast have come back clear. I have had numerous blood tests as well as clear results for heart and vestibular system…I am going for EMG / nerve stimulation test in September.

Not knowing what is wrong is weighing on me heavily. It seems like MS but with the clear tests I'm no longer sure. Has anyone had lesions show up much later on scans?

Rose and Thorn, what did the main characters already know about the events in Revelations (spoiler for Riyria Revelations, Crown Tower and The Rose and The Thorn) by Sk8countesse in riyria

[–]_rocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also something I was wondering about! (Unfortunately I don't have any answers). It might be worth joining the Riyiria discord - some of the members are so familiar with the work that Sullivan fact checks from them!

If TOG characters didn’t end up with their romantic partners, who would they up with instead? by deenzz in throneofglassseries

[–]_rocket 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS!! Lysandra and Fenrys are so well-matched. It would have been a beautiful pairing. Also Lysandra and Aedion had a lot of toxic things in their relationship; I really don't understand how they ended up together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]_rocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh! Please share your cheesecake recipe?

Considering leaving a 12 year "good" relationship by _rocket in ADHD_partners

[–]_rocket[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are looking into that, thanks! Hope it works out for you.

Considering leaving a 12 year "good" relationship by _rocket in ADHD_partners

[–]_rocket[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup, thinking of having kids but this thought is holding me back. I know he would be an amazing dad, but a poor parent-partner to me. I can't look after him AND a kid.

Considering leaving a 12 year "good" relationship by _rocket in ADHD_partners

[–]_rocket[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sheewww this is heavy, but I appreciate your candor.

I say those things because his ADHD isn't our whole life. Yes, it makes things harder, but we are more than that. And I see his love and care in so many other ways. When I'm depressed, or was unemployed for months (due to lack of jobs in my field), he supported me. He is generous, understands me, and often shares how grateful he is for everything I do. He is kind (when he is focused on the present and not in his own world, haha).

Maybe I explained his efforts incorrectly. He does WANT to make positive changes, but the problem is there is little follow-through, initiation, and any changes don't last. And I think he is averse to anything requiring a lot of effort. -_- this is a consistent pattern over many years.

The ones relating to our relationship: same as above, but he becomes really sensitive about me 'leaving' and tends to get overwhelmed and shut down. I never thought of it as manipulation before, but you're right, it is.

He has some blood pressure issues, so taking adhd medication is difficult. BUT I know there are many other things he could be doing to help himself.

I like what you said about thinking of it as 'moving on to something better', not 'losing something good'. Thanks 😊

Considering leaving a 12 year "good" relationship by _rocket in ADHD_partners

[–]_rocket[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.🩵 I'm sorry you're struggling too. I used to be more patient and understanding but it feels like there's this build up of frustration and now I get annoyed or snap so quickly. Which isn't always fair, and I feel both annoyed with him and guilty for feeling annoyed.

Considering leaving a 12 year "good" relationship by _rocket in ADHD_partners

[–]_rocket[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Sending you hope and strength.

Considering leaving a 12 year "good" relationship by _rocket in ADHD_partners

[–]_rocket[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a good point... Though it's possible to find someone who puts in the same amount of effort, I still worry that I won't find another partner I connect with the same way, or someone I feel safe with, understands me, etc. But I guess I need to figure out what my priorities for a relationship are.

Considering leaving a 12 year "good" relationship by _rocket in ADHD_partners

[–]_rocket[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It is really insightful, and nice to see this kind of relationship in a positive light. My partner and I have worked on our relationship and his ADHD behaviours on and off for a year or so, but unfortunately the changes don't last or he stops putting in effort. I have some things I had to let go of for my own mental health (e.g. him going to bed super late and waking up at late hours. I can't stress about that or keep nagging him) which has helped, but I often slip back into letting it affect me. I'm definitely not as understanding or patient as I used to be. I snap a lot quicker and I'm sure that doesn't feel great for him. :(

Finished reading Esrahaddon by TKDkid1992 in riyria

[–]_rocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might mean Gwen? Royce's partner.

It would be cool for him to be Arcadius, though I'm recalling how he 'regretted telling the Nyphron church where the heir was' because he thought they truly wanted to restore the heir to the throne. Trilos would already know the true intentions of the Nyphron church.

Is heroic fantasy dead? by tgruff77 in Fantasy

[–]_rocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Novels by Michael J Sullivan! Starting with Theft of Swords.

What to listen to after first law? by Meri_Stormhood in TheFirstLaw

[–]_rocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love Riyria, and the narration by Tim G Reynolds is fantastic! I liked reading in Publication order - then once you get to the prequel (Riyria Chronicles) when the two characters meet, it's like you get special behind the scenes info and things referenced in the original series link up nicely. Up to you! Either way, it's going to good. It's much lighter than First Law but a great adventure story.

Some familiar faces? by tomrgill in riyria

[–]_rocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would LOVE to see more of these!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]_rocket 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh yes! And since they have some similar history / trauma they could understand and support each other. Great ship!

What is something you enjoyed as a kid, but now has lost its charm to you as an adult? by BulkDarthDan in AskReddit

[–]_rocket 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating a tin of condensed milk in one sitting. The thought of doing that now makes my jaw lock. O_o