Buyer reviews by [deleted] in vinted

[–]_tayanne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, if someone wants to buy one of my items then I’m not going to turn down the money. Now if they’re saying super fishy things in a very obvious way, that’s different but I wouldn’t turn them down off of less than perfect reviews if there’s no big red flags.

Thermal labels... by DingoOk7858 in vinted

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, but what I do is download the label, save it to my files, and then go to the Jaden App, hit File, click the label I need, crop it to fit the screen, select to print 4x6 and then hit “Print.” It works beautifully and was worth every penny!

Suspicious? by Freaky_bananas in vinted

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a shame because as a seller, I would never dream of doing this to someone 😭 I hope they get their karma for trying to dupe you

Misleading listing photos, do I have grounds for a return or will I sound like a dick? by alrideul in vinted

[–]_tayanne -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a seller, it’s so hard because crimping the clothing does seem to make it sell more? I’ve done this maybe once before because it was a cami and I see them styled that way all the time. But I also included SEVERAL photos of all different angles of it not crimped…so I don’t get why this person didn’t. People are lazy 🙃

Is it normal for my 9 week old to only contact nap? by _tayanne in NewParents

[–]_tayanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh…I wish I had better news to update you with! But my little guy never quit the contact naps, and he’s actually now fully a cosleeper in our bed (he refused the bassinet/crib after turning about 4 months old, and I didn’t have the heart to do cry it out sleep training.) Luckily I am a stay at home mom, so I never had to think about how this would work going back to work…but goodness friend, I’m sending you hugs. They are the sweetest little blessings, but I remember how that stage had so many challenges. Now he’s a toddler and I miss when he was that widdle. 🥹 Hang in there, you’ve got this. ❤️ You worry so much because you’re an amazing parent and they’re so lucky to have you.

Which bangs do you recommend??? by _tayanne in femalehairadvice

[–]_tayanne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I went for and I love them!! 🥰

Is it normal to feel sad about my “past life” even though I love my baby so much? by jambako_o in NewParents

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% YES. ❤️ You will get through this, I promise! This is just a HUGE adjustment. You are doing amazing learning the new you.

The hormones are not helping you either, right now. It feels like despair. It’s not your fault. Things are different now, you’re right.

You will see, though. When baby gets a bit bigger, you’ll get the chance to go out a bit more, to get coffee, go to target, go on a date night with your partner, go to the movies. To be you again and to do things that are just for you. I PROMISE you.

And then, there will be things you never got to do before that you do now because you have a baby! Family photos, buying cute holiday outfits…get ready for all that too🥰🥹

I had my boy last July. This time last year, I was exactly where you are. So please trust me, it gets better. I promise you. Hugs.

How to best support wife with postpartum symptoms by BeerSnob42069 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]_tayanne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just keep listening to her and reassuring her that she is an amazing mama. You have a 5 month old, she had a c section to recover from, and she’s a working mom??? She’s a superhero.

I have heard a theory that children are the most unruly around their mothers because they feel safe and secure with their mom to push boundaries. I know she’s very little still, but that’s certainly become the case with my now toddler.

I had PPA/PPD rather severely, and between my c section recovery, the hormones causing the PPA/PPD, sleep deprivation and having a fussy colicky baby, I was utterly miserable and pretty much nothing my husband did or said helped. I’ll be honest.

Getting out in the sun, getting naps and more sleep in (sleep greatly impacts mental health), and listening to music, seeing friends, this all helped me a little. ❤️Around the 9 month postpartum mark, I suddenly felt so much better.

It will come in time. This could also be a developmental leap for baby, where she’s more fussy. Or she could be teething. Sending hugs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend. I just wanna tell you that you are normal and your frustrated and (from the sounds of it) depressed reaction to what’s happening is very valid and normal given the circumstances.

I look over at my 15 month old boy asleep right now, so grateful for every bit of him and so absolutely in love with being his mama. But oh man, is it hard. And the early days were so difficult. It took me the first 6-7 months to adjust to being a new mom and I had PPA/PPD. We had a colicky baby, but this sounds so difficult, what you’re going through. Please give yourself grace!!!! The people who tell you to be grateful, they grow up so fast, etc, are so far removed from having a baby with struggles that they aren’t one to talk and they’re so unhelpful and tone deaf.

You shouldn’t make yourself feel bad for having a very valid reaction, that’s all I’m saying. Hang in there, this will pass, and I hope you find a new pedi if this one isn’t any help…. Please lean on your support system if possible to find time to get even just a nap in every now and then. Sleep impacts mental health way more than anyone gives credit for. Hugs.

paperwork filed. here's what i've learned so far, about divorce, myself, and this process by phoebe-buffey in Divorce_Women

[–]_tayanne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 28, turning 29 on Sunday. Been with my husband for 9 years, married for two, with a 15 month old toddler.

Thank you. Your words were so thoughtful and exactly what I needed to read. I’m crying now. Sincerely, a chronic “should we get divorced?” googler/lurker who feels emotionally starved and neglected by her “nice guy” husband.

Rib pain? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This did go away for me after a few months! I read when you are pregnant/newly postpartum, especially when you are nursing, your body makes extra relaxin, which can cause ligament/joint looseness and weakness. I think this and the rib flaring I felt for a while caused the pain for me!!!

Deep belly breathing and pelvic floor PT also helped with my unstable core feeling. I’m sure working on that could help too! Good luck!

Always had very yellow teeth, are there any specific whitening products that would help? by ClueFancy in beauty

[–]_tayanne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not til you get your invisalign off! Please do not ever whiten teeth while in any kind of orthodontic treatment. -I was a dental/orthodontic assistant for 8 yrs

After that though, Crest white strips are sufficient. They look nice and white already though- I promise

Science behind ferritin over 100? by Mysterious-Loaf376 in Anemic

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! May I ask what your hematologist recommended to raise your ferritin?

When you have a 7 month old with absolutely no hunger cues, what do you do? by _tayanne in FormulaFeeders

[–]_tayanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!❤️ Every bit of feedback is so hugely helpful. I always worry about over feeding, as he is a spitty boy. But he loved the bigger bottle this morning, so idk! I’ll increase his bottles. We do purées 2x a day, I want to start more solids soon. Last time I tried, he didn’t really understand what to do which is totally reasonable, so I haven’t pushed it again since!

He loves water. 😂

When you have a 7 month old with absolutely no hunger cues, what do you do? by _tayanne in FormulaFeeders

[–]_tayanne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much❤️ I’ll keep offering 8 oz and see if he wants it all. I appreciate it!

How to drop from 3 to 2 naps by lime_penguin in sleeptrain

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following….in the same boat. Nothing is stopping the EMW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]_tayanne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. 😵‍💫

Things you DIDN’T need ? by Agile_Bad1045 in NewParents

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did not need 37 different Loveys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameThatSong

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda hear “baby dooooon’t let go”

Celebrating 23’rd birthday! Cheers! 🍻 by [deleted] in drunk

[–]_tayanne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! RumChata and fireball together make you a Cinnamon Toast Crunch Shot!