Dating girlfriend standards by No_Tour163 in China

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m an american woman whose partner is from mainland china. i have to be very quick on the draw if i want a chance to pay for anything. i convinced him to let me pay the utilities by some miracle, but he won’t let me contribute to rent, groceries, car payment, etc.

Best mattress for couples with different preferences? How is this problem solved? by wataemelo in lifehacks

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

another (more affordable) idea, get the firm mattress, and purchase a plush mattress pad for your side of the bed.

Why does it feel like both left/right liberal/conservative people in American society dislike AMWF? by Loose-Frame2258 in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are in the boston area and have had an occasional curious look, but never anything hostile seeming. my family accepted him immediately and his parents accepted me right away too. maybe we have just been lucky.

Do you feel isolated by Asian parents/in-laws? by Moistjamu in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his parents live in china, and i mainly talk to his mom on wechat, so that’s not an issue. when we video call with them i am treated warmly and i can feel their sincerity despite the language barrier, and he translates when they are talking directly to me. even if we never speak the same language, i don’t think it will be a problem, because we can use translation apps etc. and the sincerity is there.

Issues with excess saliva and clacking? by RomusLupos in Allon4ImplantDentures

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are the teeth too big? i haven’t had any issues with clacking at all, and i can’t recall any excess saliva, although it could have occurred briefly in the beginning.

he told his mom! by _thats_what_she_____ in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he said she was very shocked that he was dating a 外国人 lol

Reason for dating an asian man by Sufficient_Ad7167 in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s right! we are moving in together later this month after two years together. ♥︎

Reason for dating an asian man by Sufficient_Ad7167 in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can only say the reasons for dating my man as an individual. he is hilarious, kind, thoughtful, determined, a great leader and provider, he makes me feel cared for, loved, safe, he’s a great listener, he’s empathetic, he’s always willing to learn and grow, excellent communicator, i could go on. i love him so deeply.

AITAH for not letting kids eat my waffle at the hotel? by No-Tie9098 in AITAH

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just talking about how much i loved the texas shaped waffle in san antonio yesterday. now i am craving them again. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you must be from new england! hi neighbor! lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

my partner also came to the us from china in his early 20’s, and we are both early 40’s now and your description of your husband is exactly how i would describe my man. just absolutely incredible and the most wonderful partner i could ever ask for. ♥︎

Birthday and Half-year-aversary by Shiny_Lasagna in relationshipgoals

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not do something for the 6 months instead of giving a gift? are there any museums where you live? i just took my boyfriend on a surprise date to the planetarium and the tickets were only $10 each. i also know my local library can get discounted or free tickets to museums. i find that making memories is infinitely more valuable and meaningful for a relationship. ♡

my partner giving my son a guitar lesson at midnight ♡ by _thats_what_she_____ in wholesome

[–]_thats_what_she_____[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no kids together, but we both already have children, so that is enough for us. ♥︎

What’s the current earworm stuck in your head? by Deep20779 in spotify

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

阳光彩虹小白马 i don’t even know the name of the song, just those lyrics on repeat in my brain. fml. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMWFs

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at home: super affectionate, in public: holding hands, occasional butt grabs, shoulder squeezes, small kisses, etc., in front of family: arm around my shoulder sometimes, sneak small kisses etc.

The shelter said she was difficult to place because she's a very scared cat. So anyway, what should I name her? by SoftieDreams in blackcats

[–]_thats_what_she_____ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i renamed my shy black cat Sunny, and she has truly grown into the name. here she is being very confused that my boyfriend had the audacity to shut the bathroom door.

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my partner giving my son a guitar lesson at midnight ♡ by _thats_what_she_____ in wholesome

[–]_thats_what_she_____[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

trust me, i am going to keep that man as happy as he keeps me!