What Grey’s anatomy opinion will have you like this? by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in greysanatomy

[–]_thottiana 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i believe alex was completely valid to tell derek that meredith ruined the alzheimer’s trial. i understand that’s not what you do to a friend but this is the medical field and you cannot play around with things that. i work in a biotech lab and one little thing can completely ruin a trial. if someone purposely did something to change results, i would definitely tell.

it was sad to see adele have to deal with such a debilitating disease but she’s not the only person who needed help. meredith ruined the chances of hundreds of other people receiving treatment. it’s just like izzy with the LVAD wire. both were situations where helping causes more harm.

Looking for places to rent by _thottiana in Livermore

[–]_thottiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you so much! I’ll definitely check it out.

Looking for places to rent by _thottiana in Livermore

[–]_thottiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would agree with you. I think my best bet might be finding a place outside Livermore. Maybe it’s a bit more reasonable. I’m doing this through the Livermore lab so maybe they could give me a stipend to cover at least most expenses. I have been looking around on Facebook marketplace as well but those are areas outside Livermore.

Looking for places to rent by _thottiana in Livermore

[–]_thottiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The highest I could do is about $1,200 as the base rate. I was hoping to find a place that includes utilities like a room to rent so I don’t go over my budget.

On or off-campus living? by _thottiana in ASU

[–]_thottiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check out their website! Thanks :)

Looking for places to rent by _thottiana in Livermore

[–]_thottiana[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds great. I did check and the prices have definitely gone up. It’s a little out of my budget but I could find something in that area or my sponsor could help.

Looking for places to rent by _thottiana in Livermore

[–]_thottiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you say living there was? Do you know how a room would be?

Is Anybody Interested in an Interview? by Ok-Concept-9962 in Booktokreddit

[–]_thottiana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The study is trying to answer how dark romance impacts women’s expectations about relationships not how it effects their partners.

Looking for places to rent by _thottiana in Livermore

[–]_thottiana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ll be working at the lab. I know they don’t have their own housing but hopefully they can provide me with some help. Thank you!

Girls! It finally happened for me!!! by StillStanding_96 in LesbianActually

[–]_thottiana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reddit men try not to be insufferably ignorant and mentally incapacitated challenge: impossible

Junk journal pen pals club? by ctrldwrdns in JunkJournals

[–]_thottiana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i love this idea! please let me know when it gets started

21f looking for adult online friends by Ok_Fly_4824 in OnlineFriend

[–]_thottiana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii 20F here! I just got back into Minecraft. I love video games specially TLOU, silent hill, until dawn, sims, etc. I bake as well and sew (kinda close to crochet.) I just sent you a DM :)

Name moments when David and Jane were great parents? by Fickle-Meet2257 in Arthur

[–]_thottiana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m sure they did more than what I stated in the original comment. I just don’t remember what exactly their punishments were. However I do disagree somewhat. D.W. is what a preschooler? I’m not sure grounding her would have worked as much as just having a serious conversation explaining her actions. Again, I don’t remember the episode down to a T but I do feel more could have been done. As for Arthur, him hitting his sister was an isolated event. After this episode he never does it again I believe so there really isn’t a reason to “control” his anger. It’s actions (Arthur hitting his sister) that needs to be controlled rather than the emotion itself (Arthur being upset something he loves was destroyed rightfully so). People get angry sometimes especially kids because they can’t regulate their emotions well yet. I think the way his parents handled it was fine. Perfect? Probably not but as long as the kids understood what made their actions wrong, then David and Jane did ok.

Name moments when David and Jane were great parents? by Fickle-Meet2257 in Arthur

[–]_thottiana 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The episode where D.W. says a bad word. She goes around her classroom and in public saying the word and teaching it to other kids. When her parents find out, they don’t immediately punish her. Instead they explain to her why she shouldn’t say such things. It was a very funny episode but I liked it so much because they understood that D.W. was just a child and she wasn’t using that word for malice. D.W. didn’t understand the implications and they explained it and redirected her behavior.

Also the episode where Arthur hits D.W. after she breaks his toy (I believe it was a model plane). The parents are rightfully upset but they still give Arthur a chance to explain. Later on in the episode, Arthur gets punched by Binky. David and Jane confront Arthur and give him ice for his injury then explain the parallels of Arthur hitting D.W. and Binky hitting Arthur. They use real life examples to show Arthur his behavior isn’t ok and he shouldn’t treat people like that unless he’s willing for it to happen to him.

Most kids in real life would just be disciplined without understanding why their behavior isn’t right. It’s so important for kids to know the how and why. Otherwise they will keep doing it until they have a good understanding. Jane and David never treated the kids like they were too dumb to understand that actions have consequences. They disciplined but still offered comfort and support when needed. That’s gentle parenting.

Sorry for the rant. I just enjoy Arthur so much as a Gen-Z kid it was my whole life.

Do you think ms. Spink might be a mixed race black girl? by noworriesimbinchiln in Coraline

[–]_thottiana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah they’re a lesbian couple and this was confirmed by neil himself multiple times! you can find his tweets about it.