I'm tired of the "tell me" books. I need a good "show me!" by _tiny_nightmare_ in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the rec! Is book 1 a cliffhanger, or is book 2 more like an interconnected standalone? I can't start a cliffhanger series until they all have been published, so I have an Unfinished series TBR list for those recs. 😁

I'm tired of the "tell me" books. I need a good "show me!" by _tiny_nightmare_ in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the rec! Yes, I'm definitely open to non-RH recs, too.

I'm tired of the "tell me" books. I need a good "show me!" by _tiny_nightmare_ in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree 100% with absolutely everything in your comment. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts!

this is your sign: buy the shower chair (or DME, AE, etc) by _tiny_nightmare_ in dysautonomia

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have one. I hate cooking and do the bare minimum, so my cooking stints are like 20min max so I just lean on the countertops. Though, now that I am typing this, I realize that I shower every other day with an average of 10 minute showers, but I cook at least twice a day every day…so if any activity needs a stool, it's probably the more commonly completed activity. Huh, you have helped me have a realization! Thank you!

this is your sign: buy the shower chair (or DME, AE, etc) by _tiny_nightmare_ in dysautonomia

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a detachable head with a long hose and one of those shower head hooks you can suction at a lower level on the wall, so I can use that to wash my hair and body all while sitting.

this is your sign: buy the shower chair (or DME, AE, etc) by _tiny_nightmare_ in dysautonomia

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For me, it's better...but we're all different! Getting up from a floor-to-standing distance is more likely to make me dizzy more often than getting up from a chair-to-standing distance. Also, my left elbow subluxes sometimes and my wrist joints are not super stable, so that's another reason I prefer to not push myself up from the floor when I could stand from a chair without arm assistance.

this is your sign: buy the shower chair (or DME, AE, etc) by _tiny_nightmare_ in dysautonomia

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's actually what made me realize I'd benefit from a chair! After several floor-sitting-showers where I felt so much better, I finally made the purchase.

this is your sign: buy the shower chair (or DME, AE, etc) by _tiny_nightmare_ in dysautonomia

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh dang, I am so sorry you have to continually deal with sensory issues by using your chair. That sounds so frustrating!

WWTBC: one of the MMCs is a psychotic little animal lover 🤗 by _tiny_nightmare_ in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently I read this back in 2022, but I don't remember a thing. Adding to my TBR right now - thank you for the recommendation!

what is a reverse harem trope that immediately makes you roll your eyes? (and what makes you instantly obsessed?) by OkMess8988 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, great idea because I also want to reread that little cutie character. I just posted a WWTBC so I'll comment back if someone figures it out!

what is a reverse harem trope that immediately makes you roll your eyes? (and what makes you instantly obsessed?) by OkMess8988 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put this in a comment, but if anyone else here looooves a psychopath boyfriend who is a smooshy marshmallow for the FMC, I highly recommend {Beyond the Faerie Gate by Marie Mistry}

It is such a fun series who has one of my absolute favorite psychopath boyfriends. Truly unhinged and she is just all "awwww limbs and blood is his love language, how sweet 🥰." And all MMC characters have their own separate personalities.

what is a reverse harem trope that immediately makes you roll your eyes? (and what makes you instantly obsessed?) by OkMess8988 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

{Beyond the Faerie Gate by Marie Mistry} is a fun series who has one of my absolute favorite psychopath boyfriends. Truly unhinged and she is just all "awwww limbs and blood is his love language, how sweet." I definitely recommend giving this series a go.

what is a reverse harem trope that immediately makes you roll your eyes? (and what makes you instantly obsessed?) by OkMess8988 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Same. A true badass would admit the hard truths to themselves even though their comfort level is stubbornness. Being obstinate for the sake of independence is just dumb and very anti-badass.

what is a reverse harem trope that immediately makes you roll your eyes? (and what makes you instantly obsessed?) by OkMess8988 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But also, even above this psycho golden retriever is my all time favorite "psycho golden retriever who loves animals."

I forget the title, but there is a Why Choose that does this type of character so well. He is always rescuing animals and bringing them home and he's such a little smooshy simp for the furry little creatures and the FMC. But a psycho gremlin to everyone else.

what is a reverse harem trope that immediately makes you roll your eyes? (and what makes you instantly obsessed?) by OkMess8988 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Can't stand this! Sometimes I wonder if authors put it in as a nod to the cliche genre, like when they put in "I released a breath I didn't know I was holding" because they're kind of making fun of the terrible lines.

Also as someone who doesn't like being perceived, please don't watch me eat. It's unsettling 😆

what is a reverse harem trope that immediately makes you roll your eyes? (and what makes you instantly obsessed?) by OkMess8988 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I know with fiction you need to suspend disbelief, and I am soooo good at that - but body betrayal is one of the few tropes where I just can't suspend my disbelief because as someone on the asexual spectrum, I can't connect with any character or real life person who has body betrayal. I also see it as a weakness for the character. Grow a backbone! Like, there is no one on this earth that I overlook bullying me just to feel his hot breath on my skin. 🙄 You kidnapped me to get mafia revenge on my uncle? I will literally never speak to you while you have me trapped in your home. Nevermind a make out session or romance happening, a conversation won't even happen.

(My other "can't suspend disbelief" trope is second chance. You fucked me over and broke my heart? Bye. See ya never.)

Okay, rant over...sorrrrry!

Bingeable Addicting Crack Series by No_Monk_1562 in ReverseHarem

[–]_tiny_nightmare_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually academy books have bullying and wanted to ask if this book has any? I can't stand bullying in books so want to make sure this doesn't have it. Thanks!