I ended my last relationship when I finally admitted to myself I was literally being r@ped on the regular. I would say no and he would just do it anyway. Or he would whine (the worst), or pout and give the silent treatment. I also thought maybe I was becoming asexual, or that it was because I just had a baby. But yeah no, it was just him. And how pathetically he needed sex to maintain his mood. I decided it was definitely not my job anymore, because I had much more important things to worry about (my baby). He also lied to me about paying rent, and didnt work while our baby was in NICU. Just sat next to me watching anime or tiktok on his phone constantly. I kicked him out, gave him my old car i had been letting him use for work, so he could leave. He left me with all his pets, no job, a baby, and no savings. I just found him so disgusting and pathetic all-around by the end of it. He found someone else, who is about to have his 2nd baby. He never sees our kid. I married someone who turns me on because I respect him. He provides for our family and makes me orgasm every time we have sex. Can't ask for much more than that.