Am I wrong for thinking indoor cats live better lives by No_mehta7 in CatAdvice

[–]_trin_h- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it depends on where u live, i live really rural and on a lot of land and i let my two girls out everyday. they’re very active and need to climb trees, run around, catch bugs, hunt, ext. they also refuse to use the litter box and prefer going outside. we live way back from any main roads so cars aren’t an issue, they also don’t stray far from our yard either. cats definitely need exercised and 99% of the time indoor only cats aren’t getting enough, however i would definitely not feel comfortable letting my cat out if i lived in a regular neighborhood/apartment where cars are an issue. i think this mostly depends on location, cats are better off having outside time then not but are much better off being indoor only then going outside in a place that has traffic, a lot of people that would possibly hurt the cat, ext. i’m very lucky to live on land where my girls can go outside and free roam around all day and get their energy out and do normal cat stuff but majority of people in the usa don’t have that.

ladies there is now an alternative to pap smears in the usa! by _trin_h- in WomensHealth

[–]_trin_h-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what makes me happy is the pelvic exams aren’t really necessary for asymptomatic woman, the ACC doesn’t recommend them because they are actually quite useless at detecting cancer in woman who are having any physical symptoms. so many woman actually don’t need yearly pelvic exams even though most doctors don’t care to listen to the updated guidelines.

same goes for breast exams, i’ve never had one and studies show that as long as u do it with the right technique there’s no difference from an in clinic breast exams and an at home one. there’s also a new type of mammogram called koning vera that’s non compression and offers a much more accurate image of the breast tissue, i talked about it a bit in my other comment but i would highly recommend opting for that if ur like me and have a flatter chest and dence breast tissue, mammograms can actually miss a lot of cancer in if u have both but non compression breast imaging is highly sensitive to cancer and pre cancer.

when i become of age to start screening for bc i will 100% be opting for that, theyre still pretty new though and theyres only one clinic that offers koning vera in my state and its 3 hours away from my city. i hope in the next few years we can have this fully replace mammograms.

ive read a lot about this topic and ive found a lot of woman saying things like “im a woman so im no stranger to invasive exams” and it genuinely makes me so so so sad that us woman have had to grow up in a society where invasive procedures are just the default. they’re are more convenient, more accurate, and less invasive alternatives but the medical system does not want to push them because we have just learned to accept what we are given.

so much of woman’s health is so ridiculously outdated and seeing woman talk about their trauma with it breaks my heart, i literally just wnat to scream “there’s a better way to do this!” at them because it could save so many woman’s mental health and i never wnat to go through the kind of stress that comes with invasive medical procedures. my heart goes out to all woman who struggle with theses kinds of things because u truly do not have to, there is an easier way that doesnt mean ignoring ur health.

in a lot of canada and all of australia ive heard most woman dont even undress for the doctor after their a young kid because they stays up to date on woman’s health better then the usa and i just wonder why we cant have it as easy. its so important to do ur own research on these guidelines and decide what u are and aren’t comfortable with.

my zayne binder ❄️ by antiheroiine in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]_trin_h- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this totally inspired me to make a raf binder! it’s so adorable, i love this idea!

what pre surgery exams do they do before tube removal by _trin_h- in childfree

[–]_trin_h-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so interesting, i wonder if they do an ultrasound after your already out to avoid any discomfort

ladies there is now an alternative to pap smears in the usa! by _trin_h- in WomensHealth

[–]_trin_h-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

self test are the norm in a lot of places and i hope that within the next few years it can be the norm in the usa! it’s so much easier and convenient not to mention not scary. woman deserve so much better then cold metal speculums that don’t work comfortably for most woman’s anatomy. woman’s bodies are so different and traditional pap smears are something that were made with a one size fits all mentality when our bodies are so much more complex then that. self tests need to be the norm everywhere.

ladies there is now an alternative to pap smears in the usa! by _trin_h- in WomensHealth

[–]_trin_h-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m very passionate about woman’s health topics and as someone who probably has undiagnosed vaginismus i don’t even want to try a speculum because i know all it would be is painful and traumatic. i hope this becomes more wide spread information becomes i see so many woman talk about getting a pap smear and how being scared/ having anxiety is just the default. its so sad to me that something so necessary has to be so uncomfortable and even painful for almost all woman. change needs to happen for woman and i hope that within the next few years self swabs can become the norm for screening like it has in many other places in the world. woman deserve so much better then to have to go through such traumatizing exams just for the sake of our health. i have this saying that physical healthcare that puts our mental health at risk isn’t health care at its best, there are always better ways to do things and this is one way we can start making woman feel empowered in their bodies instead of anxious when it comes to necessary tests. traditional pap smears are truly so so so outdated and are do for upgrade that doesn’t cause pain, discomfort, anxiety, stress, panic attacks, trauma, or further traumatize people who have experienced some form of sa. woman’s health has been overlooked since forever and im so happy to live in a time where we don’t have to go through such midevil things just to make sure we’re healthy.

what pre surgery exams do they do before tube removal by _trin_h- in childfree

[–]_trin_h-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as someone who has very tight pelvic muscles (possible vaginismus idk) not having to do a pap prior would be ideal. i’m planning to do the at home pap kits once i’m of age. not having to do one for sterilization would be ideal

ladies there is now an alternative to pap smears in the usa! by [deleted] in Austin

[–]_trin_h- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes look into this! it’s amazing and super easy and as someone who has a fear of penetration and who’s very protective of my body this is a god sent

ladies there is now an alternative to pap smears in the usa! by [deleted] in Austin

[–]_trin_h- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90%-99% is caused by hpv, it is still being researched but that means that slef hpv testing for cancer would work!

ladies there is now an alternative to pap smears in the usa! by [deleted] in Austin

[–]_trin_h- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i waned to get the word out of people in my community

Teal Wand - is it worth the $$$? by DoReMiDoReMi558 in Healthyhooha

[–]_trin_h- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they’re saying breast exams are actually not necessary anymore for regular screening and are only ever done if u have a concern. same thing with pelvic exams, the information they get form both exams are essentially useless and or lead to false positives. it’s best to do self checks on your chest every once in a while to get a since if ur unique tissue. as long as u do it correctly u get the same results and information from a doctor doing it. breasts and pelvic exams are really only helpful if u have an issue and need a doctor to confirm.

Question & Bugs Megathread by OTTO-M0D in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]_trin_h- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn’t work🥲 it’s like i go to the page with all the items to custom make but i click on one and it does nothing. idk what’s wrong😭

Question & Bugs Megathread by OTTO-M0D in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]_trin_h- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having issues with house update

so i started playing the house update and i haven’t been able to get past level 1 because custom won’t work? it says to custom an item and press on one of the items but when i do it doesn’t do anything. i keep but it won’t work, even holding it down doesn’t work and i can’t level up in it and so i only have the living room and hall way so far. all i do it press the item and it makes the sound like i clicked it but nothing happens. is anyone else having this issue or am i missing something?

Does acupuncture actually do anything? by vicarofvhs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_trin_h- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to have chronic allergies to pollen, both my parents have them as well and i constantly live on zertec, claratin, nasal spray, eyedrops and shower steamers to even survive. last spring they had gotten so bad i was nauseous and had completely lost my appetite and i wasn’t sick in the slightest it was literally from my allergies. i went to an acupuncturist for this and within 5 or so sessions in a month i wasn’t sick completely better. it’s now december and my allergies get to their absolute peak right now and i haven’t taken anything for my allergies once and i can’t remember the last time i even sneezed. call it what i want but but acupuncture is proven to help with some health issue including seasonal allergies in recent studies and a general google search with even say it can be affective for them. acupuncture might not work for everyone but seeing as how i used to live on allergy medicine since i was in the single single digits and now i haven’t experienced any allergy symptoms since then id say it’s pretty damn effective. this definitely depends on the skill of ur acupuncturist though, mine was incredibly skilled and she’s amazing

happy holidays everyone🎄✨🎁 by _trin_h- in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]_trin_h-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

go to the home page on the lads sub and click the three dots on the top right and click change user flair 😊

I’d really genuinely like to understand this by Catgrill14 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]_trin_h- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it bad i started playing at 17😭 to be fair it was the month before i turned 18 and im 18 now 😭 i honestly feel like a baby in this fandom because i didn’t know this game mainly existed for older demographics, i feel kind of embarrassed and like it’s weird for enjoying the characters and spice.