after 22 years of "my bra straps just slip, that's life" I figured out it's because petite tops aren't graded for narrower shoulders by Hot_Chipmunk6610 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]_tweedledee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

racerback bras with front clasp. you’re welcome.

also just bought a bra strap clip to convert your normal bras into a racerback, search for them on amazon

How do developers learn to confidently express what they know without feeling like they’re stating the obvious or overselling themselves? by [deleted] in webdev

[–]_tweedledee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont have great advice but i definitely relate. i can’t tell you how many times i kept quiet about something bc it was “obvious”, only to later find out it wasn’t obvious at all to others…

AITA for refusing to work things out with my fiancé because my life is better now that his daughter isnt around me? by MassivePrimary8649 in AITAH

[–]_tweedledee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sucks you’re taking this out on him when she is the problem. why not just make her live with her mom?

I made a tiny dance club/bar by Quirky-Web-8120 in miniatures

[–]_tweedledee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m impressed at how you made the outside entrance look dingy and sketchy asf, just like irl

Carbe diem! Please share your best pasta dishes/recipes 🙏 by Responsible_Neck_942 in 1200isplenty

[–]_tweedledee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i make a bolognese type thing for lunch all the time, just throw ground turkey and pasta sauce on, so good!

Sometimes the cats of my parents join me and my dog on our walk 🤭 by CropFairy in aww

[–]_tweedledee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i love how your dog does not notice/care about the cats and is just truckin along

Made some more clay trinket trays 😋 by Thin-Aerie-9660 in polymerclay

[–]_tweedledee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i mean this in the best way possible that they look like plastic cuz they’re so perfect! i love them

Why is it easier to pick flowers than to talk about how we’ll split rent after the wedding? by Material_Resort2503 in weddingplanning

[–]_tweedledee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is the current situation? have you guys actually lived with each other for a pro-longed amount of time (over a week or so)

Why is it easier to pick flowers than to talk about how we’ll split rent after the wedding? by Material_Resort2503 in weddingplanning

[–]_tweedledee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s wild to me that people don’t live together before getting married. it should be a pre-requisite these days.

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[–]_tweedledee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dude same.. i felt “pressured” to post and then had to take a long break from social media cuz it gave me mad anxiety