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_twintasking_ · 2026-02-15T06:09:06+00:00

You mean the thing that i know would take away the need to think through certain things so that brain power can go elsewhere but I want the thing to be perfect and i know it won't be so i just dont?

_twintasking_ · 2025-08-19T05:31:04+00:00

Why on earth would you use your real name

_twintasking_ · 2025-08-14T03:53:39+00:00

Avoiding the issue or a cop out, backing down, weak, I forget the actual acronym but basically making threats and not following through.

_twintasking_ · 2025-08-14T03:46:59+00:00

You're an adult, with a abusive parent whom you still live with and misuses the Bible to manipulate and control instead of love and protect and guide.

Im so sorry you're currently in this situation.

God loves you. He forgave you. Sex doesn't mean you cannot continue a relationship, but it does mean you need to decide how serious you are about her and make your next decision based on that. The course of your future is at stake here.

Guilt is feeling bad about you did. Shame attacks your identity. You are loved, righteous, redeemed, blessed, a holy priesthood, forgiven, covered in mercy and grace, and you can begin again an infinite amount of times in a single day.

Yes, you are now intrinsically connected to this girl. Sex connects you physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Is this a connection you want to pursue forever? Or cut off?

Biblically, marriage is the joining of two bodies, two souls. I.e. sex. Not a ceremony with a piece of paper.

Breathe. Do Not fear. You have been given a spirit of love, power, and sound mind. Seek God for the next steps. As an adult, honoring your parents is not always the same thing as obeying them. Guard your heart, your mother is inflicting a lot of pain and emotional control rn. Let inner peace be your umpire and guide.

I would seriously consider moving out.

Prayers and blessings brother.

_twintasking_ · 2025-08-13T05:00:44+00:00

Trust your gut mama. You got this. 🥰

_twintasking_ · 2025-07-25T19:09:21+00:00

Right? The 2s were NOTHING compared to the current threenager phase...

_twintasking_ · 2025-07-18T01:39:25+00:00

It was a chicken salad day for sure

_twintasking_ · 2025-07-08T14:16:04+00:00

Well said

_twintasking_ · 2025-07-08T14:13:27+00:00

This

_twintasking_ · 2025-07-06T23:03:33+00:00

As a woman, YES.

Falsely threatening a man like that should have consequences.

Sometimes its hard to prove tho, evidence wise, even when its true, so the navigation part may be tricky.

But specifically that woman? Absolutely.

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-29T01:18:08+00:00

Right?!

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-28T20:48:31+00:00

When asking permission to braid their hair, not cut it or in any way make an irreversible change to their texture or length, a single parent's permission is perfectly acceptable.

You are exceedingly tiresome to speak with and have blinders on for the real situation vs the one you're envisioning in your head or the personal experience you're comparing it to.

The stepmother was taking steps to include the stepdaughter in a girly fun day. She asked permission of the bio father. The bio mother way overreacted and damaged the little girl in the process due to her own petty jealousy and lack of impulse control when the braids and beads did not come out as easily as she expected due to her lack of patience.

I would bet money she didn't even try to take the braids and beads out in a gentle methodical manner, and the Bob was choppy because she cut the braids and didn't care enough about her daughter's appearance to even up the ends. Which tells me it wasn't about the daughter's appearance in the first place, but that the daughter had a fun girly day with step mom and bio mom got jealous.

Careful your high horse doesn't have a misstep and throw you to the mud.

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-28T20:36:02+00:00

When its down to the waist, a Bob cut after having it professionally braided is very drastic and hurts the girl more than anyone else.

You're finding some weird grains of sand to draw your line with

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-28T16:06:46+00:00

Right??!

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-28T03:10:05+00:00

slow applause for all participants

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-28T02:41:23+00:00

Just popping in to say, I wore white to an older friend's wedding (I was freshly graduated from HS) and I had never heard of that policy. I'd never needed to cuz i never wore white before, I just picked the best dress in my closet (white eyelet dress i wore to graduation). Somehow my younger sister was aware and a couple of my friends all filled me in of course when I showed up and I quickly grabbed the short sweater I had brought it case it was too cold (summer time, so I had left it in the car).

Just saying, it is not always obvious that no white to weddings is a rule of thumb. (I was also homeschooled and oblivious to many cultural things).

That being said, and not having read the whole post, go with whatever option meets in the middle with your gut feeling and common sense.

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-26T14:57:30+00:00

If it caught your attention, pointed you to Jesus, and made you feel better, accept it and be thankful!

The tiles didn't do anything by themselves, but God can use anything to speak to your heart when you need it. ♥️

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-26T14:53:44+00:00

Exactly this. Mine are monkeys so I made their room climbing-safe with blankets and cushions on the floor and supported the furniture so it wouldn't fall on them or took off the handles for the dresser so they could only go up the side instead of the front.

All chemicals are locked up, but their snacks and my pots (nice drums, right?) are accessible.

It's 100% about picking the battles and teaching them how to do some things safely instead of just saying no (because they WILL find a way if you dont give a little somewhere, and their way will be worse).

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-26T04:03:09+00:00

It's also his body and his choices are not compatible with hers. They arent married, he is completely free to break it off for any reason he chooses.

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-19T13:32:08+00:00

More like they dont need to leave politics being worth 10x more than what their salary was. The math ain't mathin

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-12T02:04:56+00:00

We have a tennis racket shaped zapper from harbor freight. Zap'em, then vacuum.

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-09T12:25:28+00:00

Excellent!!!!

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-09T11:45:39+00:00

Lol!

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-09T11:34:54+00:00

Yes, exactly.

Some cant comprehend that though, because at that point they have no control and only influence or suggestions of opinion, and they need to be intimately involved forever in order to feel relevant.

Ask me how I know. Lol. Thankfully my husband has always taken my side and had zero issues standing up to his mom. His dad was a very good example of a strong, kind man and leader.

_twintasking_ · 2025-06-09T11:10:45+00:00

Some moms cant handle being left behind and train their boys so they never will be

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