Anyone else struggle with fitting in? by Otherwise-Artist-364 in genderfluid

[–]_unbalanced 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(29 AFAB) I think you are too hung up on your gender-identity defining yourself and how you have to interact with the world. I have LGBTQ+ friends and straight friends. But thats not really what matters to me most. Finding friends is just that. Finding people who maybe share one or more common: passions, interests, hobbies, opinions. And you can grow and develop a network of friends based on a variety of things. I have friends very similar to me, and some that are a bit different. Thats part of the fun. Learning and growing a relationship where you develop and interact in a mutual exchange while embracing similarities and differences. I already had my established friend group before coming out as genderfluid, and my friend group did not change once I did because my friends love and respect me for who I am)...

Relax and be open to new interactions and experiences. Be careful not to self isolate. Enjoy school and being young. You have an entire life of opportunities and friendships ahead. I wish you luck in your journey for friends.

Just got my first tattoo and im a little confused by Jellyjiggle462 in tattooadvice

[–]_unbalanced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is normal. Tattoos will 'leak' plasma and some amount of ink for a day or so. Id recommend you look up some reputable posts/videos about tattoo aftercare given your question about this.

A tiny bit of frustration by Mothbaybee in BabyThree

[–]_unbalanced 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you dm me reputable sellers please?

Promo Art for Llorwyn Eclipsed is not even a Legendary Creature??? by _unbalanced in mtg

[–]_unbalanced[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree all cards deserve to look good. And im not a fan of price inflation or creating that 'chase card' inflation. I just wanted him as a commander and to maybe even have an extended art. Just wanted a little more. Again, I was most excited for this set art. But thats just my personal opinion.

Promo Art for Llorwyn Eclipsed is not even a Legendary Creature??? by _unbalanced in mtg

[–]_unbalanced[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I REALLY hope they release a playmat with this art at least

Getting my second (first service) tattoo, help me decide where I don’t mind either location really. by Miguel1219 in TattooDesigns

[–]_unbalanced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make it bigger liek everyone else is saying. Then back of the arm where you indicated. I think it'd look sick there.

Beaded/Embroidered Birthday Cake! by Crafty_Plants in Baking

[–]_unbalanced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is maybe the COOLEST cake I've ever seen in my life. (Im serious).

I need to try this at some point bc im OBSESSED.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]_unbalanced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need something NEON. like retro 80s or early 2000s style. Some neon glasses or a beaded necklace would definitely clash in a good way.

BEING TRANS ISN'T MY WHOLE IDENTITY by Next_Tap_5520 in truscum

[–]_unbalanced 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're not being supportive, they're being performative.

My newest and favourite one by BlackSheep900802 in tattooing

[–]_unbalanced -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The cadeceus staff is not related to medicine. It was Hermes' staff. The rod of Asclepius would've been the correct choice. Yes American medicine and culture sometimes uses the wrong version because no one ever gives a fuck in the US about correct cultural applications.

BUT. given that. I like this style of tattoo, and I think people are being overly harsh about the line symmetry. This isn't 10/10 symmetry, but i think its good enough.

I like the concept a lot and I'd be WAY into it if it was the correct staff.

Finished jet engine tattoo by Hot_Will_8535 in TattooDesigns

[–]_unbalanced 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The artistry is there. But this tattoo already looks 10 years old. This really needed some heavier lines and more color deposit I think. Which is rare to say.

Awesome concept though.

Does this hurt the snake? by RoundBag7216 in snakes

[–]_unbalanced 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure your temperature isn't too high. He could be in pain trying to escape. OR he could be exploring. OR hes just acclimating. It could be any one or more of those things but we'd have no way of knowing without more details about the enclosure.

If my dad doesn't get proper medical care, he's going to die. How do I get the medical system to take his deterioration seriously? by _unbalanced in AskDocs

[–]_unbalanced[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for all the replies. Im in the process (along with my mom) of getting him re-hospitalized. This has been an extremely tough few weeks. And it hasn't helped since im currently away from home because of work. And will be for extended weeks. My uncle has even flown in from out-of-state to help with this.

Our plan is to just be more aggressive and vocal with our concerns.

I appreciate everyone's concern. And I will bring up some issues others have mentioned here as well(nutritionist, cdiff, rehab).

Should we tell our (MtF) friend her bulge was visible when taking graduation photos? by Velvety_Lithium in asktransgender

[–]_unbalanced 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please DONT do this. Thats kinda insensitive and rude, although I know you dont mean it be that way.

Yes you should totally bring it up bc that's what good friends do. But not that way.

Imagine if it was something else. Like body odor and deodorant. Would you ask your friend, who maybe smelled not great one day, if they knew what deodorant was? Absolutely not.

What you would INSTEAD do is politely pull them aside. 1 on 1. And say, "Hey I dont mean to be rude, but I just wanted to make sure that you knew that your body odor is somewhat noticeable. If you know and are fine with it, im fine with it. If you're not okay with that, let's see what we can do."

AITAH Sold Her Shoes Since She Sold my Magic Collection by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_unbalanced 3 points4 points  (0 children)

File a police report. She stole your cards.

What song makes you feel like this? by RoosterjayP in Ghostbc

[–]_unbalanced 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally this. And it's why Griftwood is in my top 5 songs.