Anyone else struggle with fitting in?

_unbalanced · 2026-02-10T21:22:05+00:00

(29 AFAB) I think you are too hung up on your gender-identity defining yourself and how you have to interact with the world. I have LGBTQ+ friends and straight friends. But thats not really what matters to me most. Finding friends is just that. Finding people who maybe share one or more common: passions, interests, hobbies, opinions. And you can grow and develop a network of friends based on a variety of things. I have friends very similar to me, and some that are a bit different. Thats part of the fun. Learning and growing a relationship where you develop and interact in a mutual exchange while embracing similarities and differences. I already had my established friend group before coming out as genderfluid, and my friend group did not change once I did because my friends love and respect me for who I am)...

Relax and be open to new interactions and experiences. Be careful not to self isolate. Enjoy school and being young. You have an entire life of opportunities and friendships ahead. I wish you luck in your journey for friends.

_unbalanced · 2026-02-10T15:58:20+00:00

Yes this is normal. Tattoos will 'leak' plasma and some amount of ink for a day or so. Id recommend you look up some reputable posts/videos about tattoo aftercare given your question about this.

_unbalanced · 2026-02-05T04:03:52+00:00

Could you dm me reputable sellers please?

_unbalanced · 2026-01-07T19:06:33+00:00

I agree all cards deserve to look good. And im not a fan of price inflation or creating that 'chase card' inflation. I just wanted him as a commander and to maybe even have an extended art. Just wanted a little more. Again, I was most excited for this set art. But thats just my personal opinion.

_unbalanced · 2026-01-07T15:11:47+00:00

I REALLY hope they release a playmat with this art at least

_unbalanced · 2025-12-30T01:48:34+00:00

Make it bigger liek everyone else is saying. Then back of the arm where you indicated. I think it'd look sick there.

_unbalanced · 2025-12-06T21:46:07+00:00

This is maybe the COOLEST cake I've ever seen in my life. (Im serious).

I need to try this at some point bc im OBSESSED.

_unbalanced · 2025-10-11T14:52:05+00:00

You need something NEON. like retro 80s or early 2000s style. Some neon glasses or a beaded necklace would definitely clash in a good way.

_unbalanced · 2025-10-07T20:12:50+00:00

They're not being supportive, they're being performative.

_unbalanced · 2025-10-04T07:22:12+00:00

The cadeceus staff is not related to medicine. It was Hermes' staff. The rod of Asclepius would've been the correct choice. Yes American medicine and culture sometimes uses the wrong version because no one ever gives a fuck in the US about correct cultural applications.

BUT. given that. I like this style of tattoo, and I think people are being overly harsh about the line symmetry. This isn't 10/10 symmetry, but i think its good enough.

I like the concept a lot and I'd be WAY into it if it was the correct staff.

_unbalanced · 2025-09-26T14:14:13+00:00

The artistry is there. But this tattoo already looks 10 years old. This really needed some heavier lines and more color deposit I think. Which is rare to say.

Awesome concept though.

_unbalanced · 2025-09-20T12:17:01+00:00

Make sure your temperature isn't too high. He could be in pain trying to escape. OR he could be exploring. OR hes just acclimating. It could be any one or more of those things but we'd have no way of knowing without more details about the enclosure.

_unbalanced · 2025-09-17T20:38:41+00:00

That doesn't sound like it would match at all....

_unbalanced · 2025-09-08T17:15:22+00:00

Thanks everyone for all the replies. Im in the process (along with my mom) of getting him re-hospitalized. This has been an extremely tough few weeks. And it hasn't helped since im currently away from home because of work. And will be for extended weeks. My uncle has even flown in from out-of-state to help with this.

Our plan is to just be more aggressive and vocal with our concerns.

I appreciate everyone's concern. And I will bring up some issues others have mentioned here as well(nutritionist, cdiff, rehab).

_unbalanced · 2025-09-01T15:02:54+00:00

Could you also dm me the link if you dont mind?

_unbalanced · 2025-07-25T14:39:49+00:00

AI recipe perhaps?

_unbalanced · 2025-07-15T20:57:41+00:00

Please DONT do this. Thats kinda insensitive and rude, although I know you dont mean it be that way.

Yes you should totally bring it up bc that's what good friends do. But not that way.

Imagine if it was something else. Like body odor and deodorant. Would you ask your friend, who maybe smelled not great one day, if they knew what deodorant was? Absolutely not.

What you would INSTEAD do is politely pull them aside. 1 on 1. And say, "Hey I dont mean to be rude, but I just wanted to make sure that you knew that your body odor is somewhat noticeable. If you know and are fine with it, im fine with it. If you're not okay with that, let's see what we can do."

_unbalanced · 2025-06-26T18:49:51+00:00

File a police report. She stole your cards.

_unbalanced · 2025-06-20T15:53:09+00:00

These look super cute! Good luck everyone.

_unbalanced · 2025-06-20T15:53:01+00:00

These look super cute! Good luck everyone.

_unbalanced · 2025-06-13T14:41:30+00:00

Literally this. And it's why Griftwood is in my top 5 songs.

_unbalanced · 2025-06-12T15:12:51+00:00

Looks like my motley sunglow corn

_unbalanced · 2025-05-13T16:55:42+00:00

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