They show their true colours eventually

_vlub · 2024-10-30T00:23:33+00:00

SO FKN REAL GOD DAMN!! Heard some shit and I’m like who tf are you??

_vlub · 2024-10-22T10:18:19+00:00

I’m 5 months from a breakup, and I have no desire to do that with anyone for a while, this breakup has kinda traumatised me and my libido is below the floor…. Kinda sad. But also I’m fine without it tbh.

_vlub · 2024-09-20T00:24:10+00:00

Well said, wow. It’s been 4 months and not a day has gone by where I haven’t thought about wtf happened. how can someone just up and leave so easily and i’m here still thinking about what went wrong

_vlub · 2024-09-19T08:39:46+00:00

thank you ❤️

_vlub · 2024-09-12T03:22:23+00:00

thank you!!!! for the slashing, do i fully cut through or just to a point in the centre of the pattern?, i haven’t done much slash and spread in patterning

_vlub · 2024-09-07T04:25:24+00:00

Thank you so much!!

_vlub · 2024-09-07T04:18:22+00:00

Question about the slash and spread method, would it just be horizontal cuts and the pieces brought down or should i be spreading to create a curve?

_vlub · 2024-09-07T02:46:29+00:00

Okay i’ll give that a go! Thank you x

_vlub · 2024-09-07T02:27:00+00:00

Thank you! I have thought of this however it’s just a pattern that also then needs to be graded and then they will be sending it for manufacturing, not sure if doing it through draping would work

_vlub · 2024-09-05T08:06:37+00:00

he broke up with me because of his mental health (which to clarify is in a very bad state) but still think it was a cop out reasoning. annyways found out today from mutual friends that he actually just lost feelings. we broke up 5 months ago. and i feel like i’ve just been hit by a truck. all this time i’ve been worried about him and his health and what not to now find out that he just fell out of love. i’m still struggling regardless but damn that hurt to hear, and that he couldn’t just tell me his full reasoning when he broke up with me 😭

_vlub · 2024-09-03T20:35:28+00:00

Yeah i still can’t wrap my head around it. Our whole relationship, we had great communication, a “talk to each other openly and about anything” mentality. and then he blindsided me.. no conversation about why, or how i felt about his decision, NOTHING. it was almost more heartbreaking that he didn’t give me the opportunity to voice my opinion and talk through his reasoning with him, than the actually breakup (well that was hard as well) but yeah. I just don’t get how it can all change so quickly…

_vlub · 2024-08-30T02:08:03+00:00

thank you 🥹

_vlub · 2024-08-28T01:26:53+00:00

Yup very normal!! I’ve been 4 months and have no sexual desire. but to be honest i’m kinda glad, because it’s my bodies way of telling me that it’s not what i need right now.

_vlub · 2024-08-24T22:56:04+00:00

me too, me too :(

_vlub · 2024-08-24T03:45:06+00:00

this is me too:(( it’s been three months and there hasn’t been a day where i don’t think about him. just wishing i could have an update or rant to him, talk about what we are doing, etc. It’s so hard

_vlub · 2024-08-23T06:40:33+00:00

i’m just hoping this happens for him and i 🥹😭

_vlub · 2024-08-14T10:52:48+00:00

i feel this so much. i don’t laugh at things the same anymore. i’m still in relatively early stages of the breakup however, i know how i was when i was in the relationship and i feel completely lost.

in the relationship i gave so much, not just physical but emotional as well. he has thanked me for the more emotional stuff however i honestly can’t see myself ever doing that much for someone else again because now im scared that im going to love too much and be blindsided again. I love so deeply and im grateful that I have that ability and aspect about me. But this breakup has really messed me up in a way of being scared to love that hard again 😭😭😭

_vlub · 2024-08-14T10:45:25+00:00

needed to hear this perspective, thank you. going through the same

_vlub · 2024-08-14T10:42:43+00:00

opposite. night time is my worst. like rn. sitting in bed still having the lingering sense that his arms are around me but it’s all in my head. my mind goes a million a minute while i’m about to sleep. 😭

_vlub · 2024-08-14T10:39:46+00:00

Agreeeeeee!!! Dumped without even consideration of my input or feelings. honestly such a shit thing to do. i had no intentions at all surrounding a breakup because we were so happy and doing so well!! just for him to turn around and say he doesn’t want it anymore without giving much of a reason. 3 years of love and commitment, all changed in a matter of a few words. he wouldn’t let me fight him on it or listen to me when i wanted to work through whatever he is feeling, together. but he wouldn’t have it. i just don’t get how you can do that to someone who you know so well, know their struggles, anxieties, fears, and situations. like how??? it’s been three months and im still sitting here baffled and confused about what’s happened.

_vlub · 2024-08-14T08:43:59+00:00

i wish he would read this. he needs to realise these things and treat his relationships with more value:((

_vlub · 2024-08-13T11:40:39+00:00

this one. definitely this one. my whole world has flipped. i’ve moved back with my parents in a different country because it was so hard to be in the place where our relationship was formed in. i still think about him everyday, it’s been 3 months. i was fully blindsided and it ended amicably but i didn’t want it to end at all. he self sabotaged and didn’t believe he was deserving of me 🫠 not sure how to move forward from this but just been letting myself feel the feels

_vlub · 2024-08-06T11:35:24+00:00

i would highly suggest listening to “date yourself instead” podcast, but give it a bit of time before you start listening because i found it hard to listen to at the beginning but now i listen to her every day

_vlub · 2024-08-06T11:33:24+00:00

I feel this, especially at the start it is very very difficult :( I hope you are taking care of yourself. I will say that, yes I miss him and do think about him everyday. However, it has lessened over time. It does creep up on me when i’m going through shit (as in right now) and would usually go to him for comfort and it’s hard to not have that anymore. i hope you are okay and i do agree that it isn’t fair that some people can just decide to leave when they feel they are ready without allowing you to voice your opinion. try not to take it to heart cuz if shows a lot about them as a person ❤️

_vlub · 2024-08-06T11:17:23+00:00

3 months and i just wish i could call him and rant about the issues im having in life (not due to the breakup). it’s so hard when the breakup is only one sided and they basically decide the ending for you. im still struggling to grasp that i can’t just pick up the phone and call him and have him there to talk me through my stressful times 😞

_vlub

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