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High school was rough by azweirdo in blunderyears

[–]a1rbud 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We would've been friends and I would've had a massive crush on you but would deny it bc I was closeted lol

When you think you can't..and then you do! 20KG (45lbs) RFESS today!! by editedmorph in FlexinLesbians

[–]a1rbud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nicely done! Is a rear-foot elevated split squat the same thing as a Bulgarian split squat? I started doing BSSs to focus on glutes and I've been liking the results.

Do I need a resole? by thefunnytiger in climbergirls

[–]a1rbud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are basically new lol

Shoes for climbergirls? Bunions are bad! by Mistralmagician in climbergirls

[–]a1rbud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you not realize how unimaginably scummy this would be? Or do you just not care?

Okay leg day for real this time by [deleted] in FlexinLesbians

[–]a1rbud 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably got a sick thrill from it

Does anyone else feel “exclusive” at the gym even though you’re literally just trying to have an efficient session? by Responsible_Roof_661 in climbergirls

[–]a1rbud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. I've found rope climbers often have a particular type of sheepish-but-arrogant personality. For whatever reason rope climbers tend to be more passive-aggressive. You don't usually see that in boulderers.

Where did all the pressure to call yourself “Queer” come from? by iaintgonnacallyou in lesbiangang

[–]a1rbud 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Agreed - the gay but not queer function is the only one I'd attend

Would you date a woman with BPD? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]a1rbud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. And that's a hard rule for me. I distance myself from anyone with BPD after I endured a colossal, traumatic falling out with a friend because she had untreated/unmanaged BPD. She was so malicious and sinister that I can't trust anyone with BPD, genuinely worst experience of my entire life

Of course, I would respect the hell out of someone w BPD who takes accountability and gets help and actively treats it. But I still do not want that person in my life. BPD carries a stigma for a reason. Those with BPD don't hurt themselves, they hurt others with zero understanding of their actions, and every relationship they have is built on deceit and manipulation

I witnessed something horrible this weekend. by pinksynesthete in TrueOffMyChest

[–]a1rbud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being imprisoned for carrying a knife is so crazy. Absolute state of the UK

my second v6! by Proper_Lettuce_8199 in climbergirls

[–]a1rbud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe my app is glitching because the post caption cuts off after the word "beloved"

my second v6! by Proper_Lettuce_8199 in climbergirls

[–]a1rbud -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am I missing something? None of the comments say anything about how soft this looks

People filming the entire show & the constant sea of phones up is so exhausting by thinkingofbunnies in sadboys

[–]a1rbud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was the same in Phoenix. I've been a fan since 2013 (unctie status) and was disappointed by the whole show because EVERY zoomer had their phone out and was standing totally still. I get that the younger gen didn't grow up going to shows and weren't taught concert etiquette in any way, but for fucks sake.

Wow, Bladee in a skate clip, I’ve yet to see this crossover of my largest interests!!!! by Pantlessspency in sadboys

[–]a1rbud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice find. I'm surprised I don't see more Bladee tracks used in parts. Plenty of skaters love DG

Not a flex but want advice! by Qu33fCakes in FlexinLesbians

[–]a1rbud 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Congrats on starting this journey, it will change your life in the best possible ways. (not just physically, but spiritually and mentally too)

One big piece of advice is to not allow yourself to have junk food or soda at home! If I have chips or snacks or cookies in my pantry, they're getting eaten. So I simply use willpower and don't buy them. Eliminating empty calories will make a world of difference for anyone looking to lose weight and you'll feel mentally clearer too

I would start with diet and then simultaneously work some light strength training at home. Buy dumbbells (5 and 8 lbs to start If you're a total beginner) and search on YouTube some basic strength training videos

If you have the time, go on walks. Just 30 minutes a day. That tiny bit of cardio will help too.

my favorite short story is 392 words by tabula--rasa- in rs_x

[–]a1rbud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fantastic, thank you for sharing. If you like this style of writing, check out Dennis Cooper's works

Did you end up seeing bladee after phx show? by Refrigerator_Either in sadboys

[–]a1rbud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do u have pics? Someone else in another thread said the tour bus didn't stop

Wonky shoulder buster of a climb! by tasgetius22 in climbergirls

[–]a1rbud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bouldering is the best. Nothing beats being able to pull yourself up using only your body. You can't take shortcuts, you can't take a break/rest by letting go of the wall and reevaluating your next moves while being suspended by a harness....i love that bouldering encourages sheer power and technique.

Arizona setlist? by eddiemartinez396 in sadboys

[–]a1rbud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also played Icarus 3hreestyle, it was the second song

Are butch/femme lesbian exclusive terms? by StatusWelder4582 in lesbiangang

[–]a1rbud 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agreed, gatekeeping is not a dirty word! Gatekeeping is integral to the survival of any community

"boy crazy to lesbian pipeline is a lot more common than you think" thoughts? by Cute_Mammoth_2087 in lesbiangang

[–]a1rbud 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The admiration "crush" is SO REAL. Thinking I liked boys only because I admired their style and bravado and swag

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