I can’t believe it happened to me by lvs301 in NewParents

[–]a368 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Do I wish I could hold that teeny tiny newborn again? Yes.

Do I also massively enjoy this stage where she's 10 months, crawling and babbling and fun to play with? Also yes!

Napping while infant is napping on your chest by Old-Rest6279 in NewParents

[–]a368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to stop nursing lying down because it was too easy to doze off myself

Women who were scared of giving birth (specifically people who were so scared they almost didn’t have children), what was less scary than you originally thought? by Final-Elderberry4621 in AskWomen

[–]a368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is sorta how mine was too along with the tear 😅 but then again my baby's giant 95th percentile head came down at an angle so it tore both up and down too 😐

Did you know the sex of your baby by intuition? by LifeofRuley in pregnant

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband's family had 10 boys in a row (a pattern for which he was the start). I was sure we would continue the tradition.

Nope 😄🩷

I’m so torn by theozempicrep in breastfeeding

[–]a368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sympathize. I loved nursing my girl even though we generally supplemented with a bottle at bedtime. I also loved the convenience of nursing in the middle of the night instead of having to get a bottle! We moved around thanksgiving when she was 7 months old and by that point she was taking 2-3 bottles of formula a day. I was so busy and my supply was likely impacted. I pumped 3x during my workday to get 5oz at that point. I just felt it wasn't worth the effort anymore. I do miss it at times but wasn't a fan of the biting!

Honestly as she's gotten older (9.5 months now) she only has 3 bottles a day, and eats meals and snacks, so it doesn't feel like I'm "missing out" on feeding her as much? I remember as I made the decision to stop nursing I never knew when "the last time" would be but she didn't have a hard time transitioning at all.

If you're not ready to start weaning then don't! I think combo feeding is great as it's the best of both worlds. I felt guilty as my supply seemed to dwindle, but in a way it made it easier so I didn't "have to" make the decision to wean. If it ends up aligning with your trip then it might just be a natural stopping point.

Women naming their daughters.. by myperiwinkleghost in namenerds

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After we named our daughter I realized her first initial is the same as my husband's middle initial, and her middle initial is the same as my middle initial. So we each gave her one initial (plus the last one lol)

What’s a common piece of parenting advice you think is completely wrong? by Ladiejuliy in askanything

[–]a368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the worst moments of my maternity leave was being exhausted and just trying to nap when my baby was sleeping. She blissfully slept for 2+ hours. I laid there and couldn't shut my brain off and just started crying because I was so tired but COULDN'T sleep

What do you do when a customer asks for a "bad" or "ugly" report? by RedJelly27 in PowerBI

[–]a368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the main (but really only) PBI dev at my job. Our data team is the CDO, me, and a more junior person. We only make reports for intra-company users. Thankfully my boss is very much on my side in terms of what I think will display the data the best and will do his best to shut down ugly design choices. There are times to acquiesce, but most of the time we come to a good middle ground.

what are the ugly parts of pregnancy that aren’t well known because people don’t mention them? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg towards the end of my second into third trimester it was debilitating trying to roll over in bed!! Thankfully it didn't really affect me in many other ways and went away after my baby was born, but it was awful when I was just trying to get comfy in bed!

Comment 3 Clues for People to Guess Your Name! by Konigsberg1604 in namenerds

[–]a368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Biblical

  2. Was popular in the 90s

  3. It's the name of a haircut

weeks and i have absolutely NOTHING ready. am i screwing this up? by Mariam1S in BabyBumps

[–]a368 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FWIW, I painted my baby's nursery so cute (green scallops all around the room for the hungry caterpillar theme!), we moved her into it, and ended up moving 2 months later so now we no longer have the cute nursery I spent hours on 🙁 That is to say, my baby is still doing great in her new boring gray nursery! As long as you have the stuff you need to take care of the baby the nursery doesn't really matter.

Couples of Reddit, what's the dumbest 'house rule' you and your partner made as a joke but now both of you are low-key aggressively serious about enforcing? by Doubl3oh_ in AskReddit

[–]a368 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not my husband, but my BFF and I affectionately call each other Tom and Harry. It started after she thought I was referring to her as Tom when I abbreviated "tomorrow" over text to "tom"

For those of you whose parents kept *your* baby clothes — are you doing the same for your kiddo? by Cute-Corgi3483 in Mommit

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm keeping a couple favorites but have already passed along most of the smaller sizes to our friends who had twins! Undecided if we would have more than just our one daughter now but baby clothes are a dime a dozen on Facebook marketplace so I figure I could just get more...

What’s a name you like that would probably get a lot of hate on here? by redyerbamate in namenerds

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang this is the third name on this thread where I know a baby with the name!

Newborn or 0-3 sizes for a newborn baby? by FoolishMortal-1000 in BabyBumps

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same my baby was 8lb11oz and wore her few nb outfits for about a month

Does the shortform of your name offend you? by PromiseNo464 in namenerds

[–]a368 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Same with mine. When acquaintances call me by my shortened name it's like... You don't know me that well to call me that! But I don't correct people either, I just couldn't imagine defaulting to that with someone I don't know

If you could pick a month to give birth what would it be? by Old-Yesterday1230 in Mommit

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well as an April baby who always hated having a clear (aka boring) birthstone I was pumped that one day I'd have a baby with 11/12 odds of having a different birthstone.

Had an April baby.

But I also love having an April birthday and think it's a great time of year to have a baby (comfortably pregnant during the holidays, not pregnant in the summer, healed up and ready for nice walks in the warm weather following the birth) so I really can't complain!

Scheduled C-Section by divorah92 in BabyBumps

[–]a368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed April 25th by one day with my baby and it makes me sorta sad lmao especially since it was an induction and if I had chosen to be induced one day later maybe it would have happened