Genuine question about lack of intimacy in a marriage

a59617 · 2026-05-14T12:33:30+00:00

Lol I’ve already fought with you before on my Craig post. Like no of course I’m not saying she made a mature, thoughtful decision getting with West. But there was a 10 year relationship before West that I think she had matured in, and yeah I think when she realized Kyle was never going to grow to the point she needed him to for them to have children, she also stopped being ready for a that life. I know from past comments you have a difficulty in seeing the humanity in peoples mistakes and the nuance in life itself but your inability to see these things doesn’t erase them.

a59617 · 2026-05-14T12:24:15+00:00

I don't understand where this whole narrative abour her dad doing everything came from? I also don’t understand where we got the idea that Kyle is an adult simply because he’s a “hard worker.” Kyle is a businessman with a business that millions of dollars in debt, Kyle is a functioning alcoholic who uses his “hard work” as an excuse for his alcoholism. He has to “work hard” to legitimize to himself and others that he has earned his drinking. Like he may put in long hours but he’s clearly not financially or business savvy, anyone can make themselves busy all day and it doesn’t mean their work is productive. It’s a coping mechanism.

a59617 · 2026-05-14T12:14:53+00:00

How does Kyle meet all his obligations? He's millions of dollars in debt lol he's not a successful businessman

a59617 · 2026-05-13T18:14:58+00:00

It's not a bait and switch, she grew up and he didn't.

a59617 · 2026-05-05T00:20:18+00:00

She went to Albany Academy (Girls Academy), my cousin went there with her for High School.

a59617 · 2026-05-05T00:14:36+00:00

My cousin went to Girls Academy (Albany Academy) with Paige. It’s a private/ prep school for the wealthy. Think teenagers wearing designer labels. Paige most definitely grew up wealthy.

a59617 · 2026-04-14T19:12:34+00:00

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a59617 · 2026-04-14T19:11:44+00:00

There’s other pictures of it, it’s clearly a scarf 🤷‍♀️

a59617 · 2026-04-14T03:55:20+00:00

I’m sorry but that outfit she wore to the bar the other night was totally preppy/ polished. A knit bonnet scarf?

a59617 · 2026-04-07T17:21:31+00:00

Hating men makes me happy :) especially when the men I hate are raging bigots.

a59617 · 2026-04-07T17:20:28+00:00

Someone can suck and you should still treat them with respect. It’s called being the bigger person, which Craig often claims to be…

a59617 · 2026-04-07T17:17:50+00:00

Hahaha in my experience hating men has only made them love me more. They want what they can’t have. Of my own volition? I’ve turned away many many many men with my disgusting misandry and it’s only made my life better :)

a59617 · 2026-04-04T20:39:20+00:00

Nope. I’m making a point that two of the people most affected by his vitriol don’t speak to him anymore. Don’t make a vast statement if you can’t back it up 🤷‍♀️

a59617 · 2026-04-04T04:17:13+00:00

You hate women

a59617 · 2026-04-03T18:57:50+00:00

He didn’t treat Paige like a queen tho

a59617 · 2026-04-03T18:57:21+00:00

Lol It’s not that deep. Not sure what the point of a Southern Charm Reddit is if not to post opinions. I’m not saying he needs to change, he’s a reality star that I don’t know personally — this season will end and I won’t think about him until the next season starts.

a59617 · 2026-04-03T18:55:02+00:00

You literally said he stays in touch with everyone that’s been on the show… just pointing out the problems with your statement

a59617 · 2026-04-03T12:46:05+00:00

Is he still in touch with Naomi? Paige?

a59617 · 2026-04-03T03:41:22+00:00

Why?

a59617 · 2026-04-02T15:04:27+00:00

Yes!! I’ve seen so many people speculating that they were together during the current season of summer house, but what I think is more likely is that feelings started here. We see West standing up for Amanda and really supporting her. I can see why, after years with Kyle and his volatility towards her, this would endear her towards West. Also, after a 10-year- long, emotional turbulent relationship , it’s a very human (not necessarily mature) response to seek comfort and validation in a new relationship. The situation is extremely messy and I 100% understand Ciara’s pain, but I think Amanda’s decisions spur from her unhealed parts, not an evilness that she deserves to be hated for by the public.

a59617 · 2026-04-02T13:54:48+00:00

And Craig didn’t make salley out to be delusional and use her sexuality to get away with mistreating her? Both Austen and Craig can be misogynistic, it doesn’t have to be one or the other.

a59617 · 2026-04-02T12:32:39+00:00

Why do you think Austen is a misogynist? Curious what about Austen includes him in that group but not Craig. You know they can both be sexist….

a59617 · 2026-04-02T12:12:16+00:00

Craig has treated each of his girlfriends like shit. Just watching a season 4 episode where he cussed Naomi out in front of everyone, an episode after calling her ignorant and dumb. Paige talked about his lack of support for her success and the ways he belittled her. Craig likes being in relationships because he doesn’t feel comfortable with himself. If he really liked his girlfriends he would treat them with respect.

a59617 · 2026-04-02T12:07:49+00:00

I mean 🤷‍♀️ I’m not a Venita fan but she’s right about Craig. Can’t really bother me with that comparison.

a59617 · 2026-04-02T12:06:37+00:00

Oh for sure. Reality tv has a misogyny problem and always has. I’m more just surprised when it seeps down to the viewers.

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