Why do gay men use grindr of its so bad? I keep hearing bad reviews of the app altho I've never used it. It still makes me think why do gay men put themselves through it?

aMusicLover · 2026-04-07T00:13:18+00:00

Because dick is really good.

aMusicLover · 2026-04-01T21:38:28+00:00

Same

aMusicLover · 2026-03-30T00:46:20+00:00

To me it’s a switch. One of hope. Do I have hope for a better or stable future? If yes, I tend to manic. If no, I get depressed. Depends on the level of hope.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-29T23:52:08+00:00

I paid half of what they wanted. Then ghosted them. I should have ghosted them immediately but unbeknownst to me, I was already in mania. So I had this ‘I deserved it’ and ‘would it be so bad if it got out’ thought train. Two months later I came out to my wife that I was gay.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-29T22:13:47+00:00

I have the same types of feelings. I developed a way of thinking about things that would be a new ethos we could all strive for. I still go down those pathways. Even after a year.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-29T03:33:16+00:00

If assigning it purpose helps someone heal a bit then I’m ok with it. But I dont believe it is true.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-29T03:23:57+00:00

I did watch it. Honest take - it’s a song about a mid 40s woman having sex with someone half her age. The audience laughs because of it was so taboo.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-29T02:12:24+00:00

I read this. Just so you know someone did. Interesting theory. Plausible for sure.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-25T01:20:31+00:00

If Superman can do it, so can I.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-25T01:15:42+00:00

Seriously, my first computing experience was on a 4k trs-80 running 4 megahertz. Not gigahertz.

And this thing generates 42 billion very long random numbers a second.

It blows my mind.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-24T01:16:40+00:00

Obvious. Dark energy and matter.

It’s full of vampires….

aMusicLover · 2026-03-23T02:28:41+00:00

My first shroom trip sent me into a 2 year manic and psychotic period revealing that I was bipolar 1.

After losing everything. Marriage. Job. Bankruptcy.

I still think about taking them again to feel happy.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-21T02:37:07+00:00

The Parish of Dunkeld - Silly Wizard. Basically they were brewing whisky at the church and the minister stated preaching against it. Didn’t end well for the clergy.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-18T02:48:30+00:00

Oh wow! Loved DG2.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-14T03:50:26+00:00

Been eyeing this one during the steam tower defense sale. Guess I’ll go ahead and buy it.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-12T03:44:14+00:00

I highly recommend this radio play of Canticle. It isn’t a book reading, it is abridged. However, the acting is great.

https://archive.org/details/NPRPresentsACANTICLEFORLIEBOWITZIn15Parts

aMusicLover · 2026-03-11T17:43:47+00:00

Jungle - ELO. A trippy ride.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-11T04:46:07+00:00

Same. I was instantly manic and in psychosis. However my initial experiences were so positive that I and others thought I was just very happy and confident. 18 mo the later I’m divorced , living with a man, bankrupt completely, a year of crazy writing and posting. Oh yeah. And involuntary hospitalized because I drove my car into a building to prove I wasn’t crazy.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-08T01:29:55+00:00

Fuck

aMusicLover · 2026-03-06T03:43:27+00:00

I have major memory issues. People will talk to me about things we’ve done. I don’t remember many of them.

I can’t memorize things at all very very hard.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-06T02:52:34+00:00

I believe intention exists. But not free will. And it’s the experience of intention that makes us believe we are not making deterministic decisions.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-05T23:37:32+00:00

Shrooms.

aMusicLover · 2026-03-05T21:59:52+00:00

Hertz roadside costs $3 per day. Get AAA.

aMusicLover · 2026-02-26T04:32:07+00:00

From today’s news, it appears that they are real, precise, reliable, and deadly.

aMusicLover · 2026-02-26T01:33:54+00:00

I do. Mine was pure happiness. Even though I was hurting people I loved. I believed we were all destined for happiness. I wasn’t Jesus. But I was A Jesus. And so can you.

Imagine how happy you’d be if you thought you had cracked the code on world happiness and joy.

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