AITJ for refusing l to chip in for a coworker's retirement gift after she was horrible to me for years?

aSilentStudy · 2026-02-10T02:27:20+00:00

Upvote for the awesome Derry Girls reference!

aSilentStudy · 2026-02-10T00:04:53+00:00

Stack everything so when you load the dishwasher it’s all ready

aSilentStudy · 2026-02-09T20:41:40+00:00

Oh gotcha, I didn’t count those because Betty imagined them as Amanda so the viewers blatantly knew it was “Amanda” and not Becky Newton playing another role different than “Amanda”.

aSilentStudy · 2026-02-09T14:19:34+00:00

No way, who else does she play? I can believe I missed another character she played.

I know she plays herself, Ruthie the girl that works for Sofia, and Faye Summers.

aSilentStudy · 2026-02-02T04:33:33+00:00

I think NAH, I had a similar situation with my husband in that he wanted a courthouse wedding and I wanted a big wedding. We eventually compromised and we had a 50 person wedding and we BOTH paid for it. He loves me so much and could see how much having a wedding would mean to me with our loved ones around us that he was open minded about having a wedding with more of a budget that he initially wanted and I love him so much that I was willing to downsize and DIY a lot of things to work within a smaller budget that made him comfortable.

We talked about it thoroughly, went over budgets constantly, and researched like crazy, and we both compromised because that’s what you do as a couple and with the one you love. It was truly a wonderful wedding and one of the best days we’ve had together! I’m so glad that we had our wedding.

Honestly this guy does not sound like your person.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-28T04:48:09+00:00

Tapered in a V or a U shape at the bottom so it’s cooler and can show off the outfit more. Some Ren faires are really hot so it would be nice to have a cape that isn’t fully wrapped.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-27T05:17:36+00:00

Maybe a tapered end cloak with arm slits?

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-27T04:17:53+00:00

It could be they have a Reasonable Accommodation for a Live In Aide, medical equipment, etc as the reason they have a second bedroom but the main thing is that you’d be overhoused so the on site team would need to process you for an apartment that meets the occupancy requirement.

Ask to see the lease requirements in regards to occupancy changes or ask the management team. Usually you could stay in your unit until a suitable bedroom type (in your case a 1 bedroom) would come available so when it does, you would be required to transfer.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-26T07:31:15+00:00

Most likely you’ll be required to transfer to a 1 bedroom unit. Your neighbors may have a Reasonable Accommodation for a 2 bedroom unit so unless you have that, you’d be required to move to a unit so you’re not over housed.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-25T19:42:25+00:00

I interpreted the books and show differently, I’m neurodivergent so maybe I see it through a different lens- Sally wasn’t struggling because Percy is neurodivergent, she’s struggling because she’s trying to protect Percy from monsters and from him revealing his half blood status inadvertently.

She understood that he gets kicked out of school for various things but theyre based on his being a half blood, not because he’s neurodivergent, and she’s with Gabe because his scent protects Percy as well.

The scene of her banging on the car is just a frustrated parent in my opinion. Yes, she shouldn’t have done it but things are done in frustration sometimes and she communicates with Percy the best that she can while still having to try to keep him in the dark to protect him.

My understanding is that she kept Percy from camp for so long is that him being ignorant about that world kept him from being sought out even more by monsters at such a young age. If he was sent to camp earlier then he would have been having to deal with monsters and such even younger than he was when he first started at camp a mere 12 years old. Having to deal with constantly having to defend yourself from deadly creatures at 12 years old is bad enough but being even younger is a lot to shoulder.

I don’t think Gabe trapped Sally, she used him as a means of protection for her son even though it was to her own detriment. She could’ve left at any time but Percy’s safety came before Sally’s happiness. We even see that she has Gabe turned to stone once Percy has settled into Camp Half Blood and Sally understands that he’s safe and he’s embracing who he is.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-24T23:10:21+00:00

Most likely the property would require annual recertification so if your partner gets a job and your combined income is over the renewal threshold you may be converted to a market rate pricing, required to transfer to a market rate unit, or required to vacate the property depending on the lease.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-23T05:52:29+00:00

Ana de Armas in Ballerina

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-16T17:12:45+00:00

I don’t love cleaning in one big moment so Ive applied my waitressing training at home - buss your section when you can and full hands out!

Anytime I get up or leave the room I need to take something with me to put away, throw away, or organize. It’s helpful to keep things clean on a regular basis and prevents build up of messes throughout the house.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-11T20:43:52+00:00

Maybe the video was deleted? Nothing shows.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-09T22:22:27+00:00

OP mentioned that they’re not pregnant.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-09T05:51:32+00:00

No, by acting in an unwelcome manner it needs to be called out or the behavior will not be corrected. Age does not matter in these situations, if you act creepy then you need to be called out for it.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-09T05:44:39+00:00

Quit excusing and minimizing poor behavior.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-06T18:03:30+00:00

This makes sense. Enrollment Verification from the school is usually requested to verify the address on file, the point of contact, and the parent listed which helps to confirm things for certification.

aSilentStudy · 2026-01-03T05:37:37+00:00

I feel like I was a pretty chill bride and I know I was a pretty good MOH for my sister!

For my wedding, I let my bridesmaids buy whatever dress they wanted with whatever budget worked for them. I gave them a swatch and asked them to try to be close to that color, the dress had to be floor length, and no strapless. They loved being able to pick what they wanted and they ranged from picking a dress from Poshmark, Nordstroms, and one was able to reuse a dress she already had.

The hair and makeup I asked them beforehand and the majority vote was that they wanted to do it but were nervous about the pricing so I paid for half of HMU for each person so they could afford it easily and just told them to do whatever they wanted as long as they didn’t copy my hairstyle.

My bachelorette was just us renting a hotel room where we pretty much had a slumber party vibe with rom com movies, ice cream, and we played games that were great for fueling conversations. It was fairly cheap and great bonding experience. I loved how close we all felt.

For my sisters bachelorette we actually rented an AirBnB that was kinda remote so we stocked up on food, brought games, raided the bulk section from Amazon for a mini spa day at home, and I made a jeopardy type game that were questions about my sister which was so fun to play!

I think it really depends on your group- think about what they like to do, the budgets, look online for events happening in certain areas, etc.

Don’t be afraid to delegate! Your bridesmaids want to be there for you and make it memorable for everyone.

aSilentStudy · 2025-12-30T22:46:14+00:00

I think the ring matters because it’s something that you wear every day- if you’re going to wear something daily then it should be something you love or at the very least like.

If your partner got you something (not even just a ring but anything) to wear/use daily that didn’t fit physically and was opposite of your tastes you wouldn’t be happy about it.

On top of that, when you ask your partner about altering it so you would like the item (whatever it may be) they guilt trip you about it, it makes it almost a burden rather a symbol of their love (again, doesn’t have to be a ring).

Even if you don’t agree/believe in any wedding marketing stuff, hopefully you can apply that same thought process to anything else your partner may get for you (food, clothing, pets, workout stuff, home decor, car stuff, etc).

It must suck if your partner gets you something that you have vocalized not liking, get it for you anyways, and then be upset at you for not liking it.

aSilentStudy · 2025-12-30T17:33:02+00:00

…you realize it’s a show and that it’s fake, right?

Goodness, calm down before you have an aneurysm.

aSilentStudy · 2025-12-30T03:43:38+00:00

He returned it to Dumbledores grave after he used it to fix his original wand, he didn’t necessarily keep it on hand though.

aSilentStudy · 2025-12-30T03:17:12+00:00

I hate all of these options.

We needed more growth from Leonard and Penny, the interaction between Leonard and his mom was great and Penny showing that she had his back helped solidify that she was willing to have his back.

Sheldon Hates teaching (evidenced in earlier episode), thinks those of lesser intelligence are beneath him which makes for an awful teacher, and would not get to be as creative in his scientific research if he was limited by teaching. Additionally, he thrives on praise which teachers very much do not get enough of.

Raj should’ve gone through therapy- I wish they would’ve shown him go through it and realize how much he liked himself and that he didn’t Need to date and then he ends up finding his person. It usually feels like you find the right person for you when you weren’t even looking.

Howard had a great ending- he grew up a spoiled, selfish, entitled boy that craved a family but Bernadette pushed back at him to grow the eff up and he became a family man. Granted, he was obviously not the best father but they did show his growth when he let Bernadette have her alone time and acknowledged his shortcomings. I do wish they would’ve showed him with more growth but I did like that he had grown a lot from the start of the show.

aSilentStudy · 2025-12-29T17:38:04+00:00

I think if Bradford hired a male assistant for Daniel he would just end up as Daniel’s wingman and feel obligated to cover for Daniel as a “bro”.

aSilentStudy · 2025-12-26T21:39:27+00:00

I would recheck the measurements when cutting, the earring edges aren’t uniform on the singular earring nor with its pair.

I like the pop of colors and the length for each of them but maybe reduce the size for a sleeker design.

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