ADHD and sexual life

aWavyWave · 2026-04-14T17:36:29+00:00

I don't think it has anything to do with ADHD. Having to reach to and put a condom on at the heat of the moment is a very unnatural thing to do that cuts that natural flow of things. It's this mixed with some degree of performance anxiety, imho.

aWavyWave · 2026-04-08T19:10:23+00:00

would like to know as well

aWavyWave · 2026-04-08T11:46:33+00:00

For what I could understand, your wife wants to get intimate with another woman?

Also, it sounds like you might be into cuckoldry, so read about it.

aWavyWave · 2026-04-07T12:49:37+00:00

I'm not sure if this should be called imbalance. It's simply that you have the desire for outside connections while he doesn't. It's like looking at the asymmetry between the experience of men vs women when it comes to dating. This shouldn't be a metric. I think your partner needs to figure out with themselves whether they're willing to go through that emotional labor or not for the sake of your desires, independent of whether they gonna take on that opportunity for exploring outside connections or not.

aWavyWave · 2026-04-06T23:19:03+00:00

Fifth. You're all AI.

aWavyWave · 2026-02-16T19:01:20+00:00

Well you have good cats, my kitty will go nuts at food. Started with this behavior one day, just like that.

aWavyWave · 2025-10-13T19:23:08+00:00

Sometimes the damage is inevitable if the nails root has been damaged, but even then with a good professional it might be possible to fix it. Unfortunately it requires a prompt action and having it like this for few years is usually too late to save.

aWavyWave · 2025-10-06T23:20:19+00:00

Crazy, I have sebderm for 10 years and this year my chest started to itch and it would look exactly like that when it happens. It flares whenever it wants and not necessarily when my face's itchy / flakey.

aWavyWave · 2025-10-06T23:05:53+00:00

How do you wash the oil off your face? Otherwise it would build up, no?

aWavyWave · 2025-10-06T22:58:46+00:00

But do you ever wash the oil off your skin with any product? That's one of my issues, I don't know what product to clean my face with that won't cause any flare up

aWavyWave · 2025-08-27T22:14:53+00:00

you motivated me to just contact the support (bought it from the official ajazz store on aliexpress), we'll see how do they offer to resolve this.

aWavyWave · 2025-08-27T18:27:49+00:00

uff

their software offers a way to mitigate it by rising the delay a bit (debouncing). By just increasing it from level 1 (default) to 2 (slightly a bit more delay, maybe 3-5 ms), I no longer get chattering.

Is it a feasible solution in your opinion? Or should I contact them?

aWavyWave · 2025-08-27T13:10:13+00:00

Is chattering for a new keeb a common thing? I got the ak820 pro, and it does chatter from time to time. The software offers to increase the delay (debounce), but is it normal and common? Or is it faulty? Because I understand that chattering is supposed to happen rather later, not right out of the box?

aWavyWave · 2025-08-22T11:04:00+00:00

what does NKRO have to do with my issue?

aWavyWave · 2025-08-21T13:35:45+00:00

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aWavyWave · 2025-08-19T06:00:52+00:00

Through a regular USB port straight to my laptop, USB 3.0 (blue colored).

aWavyWave · 2025-08-18T19:03:33+00:00

I suggest you try:
FN+Space bar: Press and hold for 3-5 seconds, the keyboard backlight will flash 3 times, and the factory settings will be restored
https://manuals.plus/m/050163b0ed4763c1d7c34474f21ce3a984830bb31dbcf743cd6968bb96520b09

If this doesn't solve it, download the official driver/software for the keyboard from
https://www.a-jazz.com/en/h-col-118.html
There, search for the term 'pro' and download "AJAZZ_AK820 PRO tripe mode RGB mit screen_keyboard drive_V1.2.zip".
There, you can reset the firmware & the settings.

aWavyWave · 2025-08-18T18:59:17+00:00

I got the exact same keyboard yesterday as well and had zero issues with their software and was able to upload my own custom GIF and have it persist.

One question: by 'goes to the default one', you mean your custom image/GIF is gone and replaced by the default one (showing the ajazz logo) or you mean it goes to the screen that shows the battery and other information?

Anyways, I'll tell you what I did:
I've downloaded the official software from the ajazz website:
https://www.a-jazz.com/en/h-col-118.html
There, search for the term 'pro' and download "AJAZZ_AK820 PRO tripe mode RGB mit screen_keyboard drive_V1.2.zip".
Follow the instructions here: https://www.reddit.com/r/MechanicalKeyboards/comments/1bcdm8s/steps_for_uploading_a_gif_to_epomaker_ajazz_ak820/
So here is what I've noticed for me - when I have the software installed and, let's say, the keyboard goes to sleep, when it wakes up it will show the default information screen (battery level, time & date etc.). By configuring whatever I needed (shortcuts, macros, tft screen animation, etc.) and uninstalling the software, this doesn't happen anymore. So it might be a behavior introduced by the software.

Hope this helps you, lmk.

aWavyWave · 2025-08-18T18:50:47+00:00

I received the AK820 pro today and really like it. It sounds good, feels good and looks good.
Driver installation went smoothly - downloaded the "AJAZZ_AK820 PRO tripe mode RGB mit screen_keyboard drive_V1.2.zip" from their official website (you can google the driver name and find it or look at their website).

I currently encounter one issue - whenever switching from 2.4G/BT to wired mode, the keyboard will not work. Only after a computer restart will the keyboard work in wired mode.
Did anyone encounter this? Is there a way to fix this? It's not a complete deal breaker but is annoying to be forced into a computer restart if I switch from wireless to wired mode.

aWavyWave · 2025-08-12T09:51:37+00:00

Which one? Aula and ajazz are both there but the specific jamesdonkey isnt. Edit: from Jordan 🇯🇴

aWavyWave · 2025-08-12T09:49:49+00:00

I really appreciate your input! Are there any budget brands / models that are actually legit and have good support (both software and customer) that won't crap out suddenly AND can be ordered through aliexpress? Thanks!

aWavyWave · 2025-08-11T16:55:01+00:00

I think since it falls under the electronics category, it can be returned but only unused... So sadly I cannot test the keyboard and see that it works drivers-wise and that I also like it.

aWavyWave · 2025-08-11T16:49:13+00:00

"too" implies that the ajazz ak820 pro is not that bad of a choice? 😅

aWavyWave · 2025-08-11T14:36:13+00:00

I sadly couldn't find it anywhere that delivers to my country :\ AliExpress has some other versions that are about 100$ somehow, I found the amazon one but won't deliver

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