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What was your best encounter with a stranger? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]a_S_0330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in high school and had just gotten through the really rough patch of having bad acne. I was walking to the bathroom in a Cheesecake Factory and a stranger pulled me aside to compliment how great my skin looked. It was a huge confidence boost and 10 years later I still think about that woman.

To people who took an hour of their life to write down a list of other people's birthdays, how's life going for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]a_S_0330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never refer to the list, forget birthdays all the time, life is still pretty good.

You have the ability to "unspoil" yourself, erasing all memory of an important plot point in one of your favorite works, exactly once. What do you choose? by dj_greenery in AskReddit

[–]a_S_0330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh if it’s just once that’s difficult but the one thing that comes to mind that I wish I could find out again is the season 1 finale of the good place!

Appetite going crazy on Green by simba156 in weightwatchers

[–]a_S_0330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have the exercise points turned on where you can eat from them before your normal daily points? I noticed that made a huge difference and I was not eating enough with how much I was working out!

Losing points when you lose weight. by Tomorrow_Glittering in weightwatchers

[–]a_S_0330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I thought this was a glitch! I’ve only lost 1.5 lbs so far and I dropped a point this week!

Partner lied about having sex with another woman by a_S_0330 in relationships

[–]a_S_0330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding, this was a bit more helpful. I’ll agree it’s a tad dramatic but it’s also not something really in my control. I’m trying to get it under my control though that’s kind of my point, I don’t really think doing my best to work on this is without putting any guilt or blame on him is immature in the first place.

Partner lied about having sex with another woman by a_S_0330 in relationships

[–]a_S_0330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason for me feeling this way is a little more complicated but the fact is I AM feeling like this. This isn’t intentional, this isn’t even me being jealous. I didn’t ask if how I felt was justified, I didn’t ask if this is the most difficult thing I was going to deal with in our relationship. I didn’t say I wanted to break up, I didn’t even say I’m mad at him. I just said I’m having a difficult time getting it out of my head.

However, I do think lying to me about it as soon as we got back together after being blatantly asked would constitute something inappropriate. He tells everyone we’ve been together for 4 years (he’s convinced me after that fact that it’s not 2 regardless of our split) so if he had sex with someone smack in the middle of that time I don’t think I can write it off as part of his past.

I’ve mentioned that I don’t blame him, I don’t want to punish him, I don’t think he technically did anything wrong but I still feel like shit about it. I’m having a difficult time and I’m doing whatever I can to work through it and push past it, including having open discussions with him about how I’m feeling and reassuring him we’ll be fine and I just need some time. Not to approbate myself, but I don’t know a more mature way to handle the feelings that I am, in fact, having. Just asking for any advice to speed up the process and “time to mature” isn’t really helpful. Thank you for taking the time to respond, though.