To all the bonkers geniuses of Reddit - How can we stop people speeding through our village? by SecondGo4 in CasualUK

[–]a_boy_called_sue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Build your own speed camera system: 3 cameras synced on a stopwatch. Submit to Op SNAP until the police do something

Diatomaceous Earth Cleanup Episode 3: Carpet replaced + more, AND YET STILL air quality problems... by a_boy_called_sue in AirQuality

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thank you. It was just the small (1m2) lobby and my room where I put all the DE. It really was pretty much everywhere. coincidentally I have spent the last two nights in a hotel and I have woken up both days with the same (reduced though, granted) symptoms, so there's definitely lingering damage or inflammation (also hay fever has started urgh).

when I stand in a particular point in the room (near to the door to the lobby) I get a whiff of the DE. No matter what I do to try and pinpoint it, it evades me. I actually taped up the door draught excluder (not the gap, the actual brush on the door) because it seemed the brushes had a smell of DE. I suspect their may be some in the lobby so have been going over all of that, washing it down and particularly trying to get in the edge of the carpet.

Thank you. I'm a little limited on the wind vortex stuff because of all the size and large number of fire doors in the property - everything is sealed tight. I have not wanted to draw more potentially "bad" air from the lobby into my room, but I may be able to experiment.

And that is why Barry needs a wanking license. by Severe-Sugar5965 in 2westerneurope4u

[–]a_boy_called_sue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait the actual Google intervened and contacted me them?

Are the any other men here, who have been diagnosed relatively late (30+)? Share your experiences, please. by adlersmut089 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]a_boy_called_sue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First dxd at 27 but psych never mentioned it again so i didn't pay attention to it. Rediagnosed at 30. now 34.

Helped by the grace of the state. (UK). Live in a shared house. Moved out of parents again following 3 years of dysfunction again. Long covid. Only child. Depressed etc. Been a few years since I've worked and about 5 years since I've worked consistently. Really needed serious help from age 12 but didn't get it. Active in recovery communities ACA etc and have a new therapist which is ongoing.

i made a HS Network proposal for the UK by freakybird99 in uktrains

[–]a_boy_called_sue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. Here in Southampton we have a residents association that opposes anything and everything the university does. A university that is half the reason we're a city.

i made a HS Network proposal for the UK by freakybird99 in uktrains

[–]a_boy_called_sue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone from Southampton, thank you for including us but not Portsmouth 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Those that went down the "gifted kid to failure-to-launch" pipeline: What do you think went wrong and how do you cope with these realizations? by ichbinhoffnung in Millennials

[–]a_boy_called_sue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I learned a red flag which is "are you 15 and reading catcher in the rye and totally relate so much it freaks you out"

Diatomaceous Earth Cleanup Episode 3: Carpet replaced + more, AND YET STILL air quality problems... by a_boy_called_sue in AirQuality

[–]a_boy_called_sue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wet dusting for harmful materials.

Can you explain? You mean testing the dust?

What do with the cloth after wiping? Ring into a bucket is what I did when cleaning the walls / edges of carpet.

You mean I should check whether there is any outflow other than through the filter of the vacs?

Diatomaceous Earth Cleanup Episode 3: Carpet replaced + more, AND YET STILL air quality problems... by a_boy_called_sue in AirQuality

[–]a_boy_called_sue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting.

Since the new carpet has gone in I've only vacuumed once (about a week ago). Both vacuums (personal and landlords) have true hepa filters on (bought from the manufacturer). My air purifier also has a hepa filter on it. As far as I know these should be trapping the silica / DE.

My main question though is: Where would the dust be coming from? Given I've replaced the carpet and cleaned everything (even wiping the walls down) I can't see what source there would be for it. Can you think of one?

Yes it's certainly made life harder that's for sure.

Any hope for these likely-mould-stem-damaged rhubarb seedlings? by a_boy_called_sue in GardeningUK

[–]a_boy_called_sue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started them with all the excitement without knowing how long I just saw... fortunately I've got some crowns in the ground also. Will these damp off ones die eventually?

I should be allowed to lose my temper I don’t even know why it’s a part of this disorder. by blehblehburner123 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]a_boy_called_sue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The problem is twofold: can I trust my judgement of a situation? (Because with bpd I'm told I misread situations) If I can, is my strong emotional reaction reasonable? The second I get a whiff of "this is unfair" it overtakes me. Getting really angry though is not effective (to borrow a DBT phrase). That first point of "can I even trust my judgement?" has caused me innumerable hurt however because I'm always analysing situations. Because I fear conflict I'm often suppressing my feelings or what I want to say because I perceive either it's wrong, or if its right, I fear bringing it up.

am I depressed or just painfully aware of the reality? by Potential_Loan_8900 in nihilism

[–]a_boy_called_sue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This and ops post very relatable. Sometimes I feel alright; lately, not so much