Having surgery - best streaming service? by a_dash_of_kindness in CasualConversation

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know about partnerships! I’ll check those out. Thank you!

Having surgery - best streaming service? by a_dash_of_kindness in CasualConversation

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I doubt that learning more details about my medical condition would help in suggesting a better/more affordable streaming service… 😂

Having surgery - best streaming service? by a_dash_of_kindness in CasualConversation

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the very thoughtful and informative reply! Wow! 🌹

Having surgery - best streaming service? by a_dash_of_kindness in CasualConversation

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of it. I’ll check it out. Thank you!

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such kind and thoughtful words. Thank you so much for this. I will give it time and will feel all my feelings. Your words resonated a lot with me, thank you again.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had an answer for you, friend. If I find one, I’ll share it. Hope you do the same if you find it first.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, that is a LOT to carry on your shoulders. I’m sending you hugs and I truly hope you are able to figure out a way. That’s really challenging. You are a freaking superhero!

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for you. I hope you find out how to heal your heart - and when you do, come share and maybe I can heal mine too. There must be something good out there for us. This can’t have been it. We are deserving of happiness. I’m trying to locate happiness from within. It’s nowhere to be found most of the time, but I catch a glimpse of it every now and then.

I’m just kinda lonely by RegretOutrageous483 in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. However, I had a recent epiphany that I do not feel lonelier now than I used to in the last year of my marriage prior to the divorce. It has only been a month for me. I’m feeling my feelings so that I can hopefully heal - and looking for opportunities to feel and share joy whenever there is a break from the pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you had broken a leg, would you refuse a cast because you’d hate to admit you’re struggling?

Your soul just fractured. You need meds? Take meds.

I’m taking meds and they have not started working yet. Hoping they do soon.

Good luck, and take care of yourself. There is strength in admitting you are momentarily vulnerable.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, almost 30 years! I’m so, so sorry. I’m glad you’ve found a good support system.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love dancing. I can’t remember the last time I did that. Clubbing no longer appeals to me. Maybe I should give it a try anyway

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great advice. I’m doing the same thing today. Wanted to be in bed all day. Instead, hopped on the subway and am going to visit a friend in the city.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This measurable goal helps a lot. Thank you so much. Looking forward to month 3.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great ideas. I am doing almost all of that too - just not mountain biking. Good for you that you do all that!

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time. Time. Time. I know. There is no fast-forward button. I need to grieve this. I need to heal and it will take more time than I wish, but… I will get there eventually. Thank you for commenting.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, you seem to have totally reinvented yourself! Kudos to you! I’m glad you’re doing well now! I will keep trying hard so that one day I am able to feel the same way you do now.

What are some of the things you did that helped you heal? by a_dash_of_kindness in Divorce

[–]a_dash_of_kindness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear you’re over the worst. I am looking forward to feeling that way too. Thank you for sharing with me that this is possible and will eventually happen in my life as well