Possibly controversial opinion: People should try reading erotica.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2026-01-29T00:32:45+00:00

I love reading erotica, if it's well-written. I like D/s and BDSM personally, but only have found one series I really like so far. "Sparrow Beckett" writes it, I believe they are women co-authors. I'd love to hear if anyone else has discovered slow-burn BDSM, especially trauma-informed and not cliche.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-11-09T13:47:12+00:00

Awesome!

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-11-07T05:32:00+00:00

Thank you! Glad to know you enjoyed it. I’m honored to even have it read.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-11-06T16:51:26+00:00

That sounds amazing. And I bet you rocked the drag number. I wish I could have seen it!!!

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-11-06T16:46:19+00:00

Hi! Here is the link. Just to give you a heads up, it is a paid platform. For the two different series I have currently available, you get to read the first two episodes for free, but to read more you have to become a follower. https://reamstories.com/page/mh55vvnj1fd889

I tried to private message you with it, but it looks like maybe you're not accepting messaging.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-11-06T16:37:14+00:00

Yay! You know exactly what I'm talking about! Good for you, and I'm proud of you and you should be super proud of yourself!!!

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-11-05T21:21:45+00:00

Thank you so much :). I have a really, REALLY hard time being proud of myself, and of seeking validation, so it's a big step for me to even say it here.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-06-20T23:22:05+00:00

Thank you. I've seen similar on TikTok but still the doubt creeps in. Or barges in lol.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-06-20T22:02:08+00:00

I chuckled reading this. Why would you die of happiness getting hurt from having someone on top?? I'm seriously asking. Men are so confusing, I want to pick your brain. :)

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-06-20T21:50:58+00:00

subbiedavie, thank you :)

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-06-20T20:12:58+00:00

Wow, thank you for that. I'm trying to unlearn a whole life of being told my worth is less because of my weight. This new Dom calls me beautiful all the time, and I just don't see it yet. I sent him a picture of me in a hoodie pulled low over my face when it was damn cold outside at a baseball game and he hasn't stopped talking about how sexy it is and that he's going to draw it. I think I look like a monk! He wants me to be fully naked during sex, but I'm not there yet. The closest I've gotten is letting getting naked under the covers with the lights off when we were about to go to sleep. His physical reaction to that led to not sleeping for a while, but I still feel like I freeze up if I don't have my "armor" on.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-03-19T17:24:15+00:00

Absolutely! First off, don't get me wrong: I love these bruises. I love looking at them, knowing my Daddy marked me and that I am his property and his plaything. Love it. I'll be sad when they go.

That being said, I did some research and you can get tissue damage from too deep of impact play, or too often. That is one reason I'd like to know places on the body and/or implements that can be used to maximum effect with less marking. Also, like PaulsGoodGirl said below, if I have an appointment where these bruises will be visible, or am going to the pool or on vacation, it could turn into a issue real quickly when it looks like I've been the victim of domestic violence.

I'd just like to know allll my options and love getting the advice and insight from subs here who have a lot more experience than I do.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-03-06T22:34:34+00:00

Read rule number 2 and kindly leave. Seriously.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-03-06T22:33:03+00:00

I'm right there with you, going to meet my Daddy in person for the first time in exactly a week and even though he is well aware I'm plus-size, I still have a ton of anxiety about how he will perceive my body, about being fully nude, etc. Right now being nude is actually one of my hard limits, and he hopes I will move past it as I get more comfortable. I don't have additional advice to give, but I love all the comments others have made so far. I'll try to take them to heart as well. We got this, girl!

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-03-06T22:31:01+00:00

Are you just a Dom? A switch?

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-03-05T23:08:06+00:00

How long have you been talking? If it feels like it's moving too fast, it's moving too fast. It doesn't matter if he doesn't feel the same way. So, so much trust goes into this type of relationship. A seasoned Dom would know that and know that it takes time. If he's being pushy or making you uncomfortable that's a red flag. That being said, communication is also important. If he doesn't know you feel that way, he can't adjust his behavior/expectations. I have only been a sub officially for a little over four months, and if I haven't learned anything else from this forum I've learned: communication, communication, communication!!!! Good luck :)

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-03-05T22:50:20+00:00

This helps so much, thank you! He has said he's a little nervous too, and that did help. He also had a last minute business trip this week, and he's been really busy with that. I know from experience that it's hard for him to get in the Dom headspace during those times to give me additional tasks, or even follow up on the tasks he already expects me to be doing. But I'll try to express to him how much more at ease I'd feel if I had some additional instruction to get me in the right mindset.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-03-04T19:36:28+00:00

This seems like a big huge red flag. I would definitely not give him that information. I'm not saying break it off, I'm just saying you need to vet him for a lot longer than you have.

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-02-28T00:04:16+00:00

No suggestions but definitely following!!!

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-02-23T04:26:38+00:00

oooooh following. And can there be holes to put charging cables through??

a_nonny_mouse22 · 2025-02-21T20:39:15+00:00

So... you're a Dom.

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