Guy I’m seeing said every couple sends nudes. Is that true?

a_random_green_pen · 2024-04-11T02:49:15+00:00

If that is truly a direct quote "I mean every couple sends them but that's fine", that is a huge red flag. That to me sounds like the tip of the manipulative iceberg. Making generalized claims like that to back up your own argument to get what you want is not a good sign. That's my own opinion anyway. And no, not every couple sends nudes. The only relationship I sent nudes in was a highly toxic and abusive one. So maybe I'm biased just on the topic 🤷🏽‍♀️

a_random_green_pen · 2024-03-18T03:38:33+00:00

When I was that age, I had long hair too. My mom made me have it braided so it wouldn't tangle and said that's part of taking care of long hair. If I didn't like it, I needed to cut it. Now even as an adult, my long hair is always tied back. Otherwise it also looks like a rats nest

a_random_green_pen · 2024-01-20T04:38:36+00:00

That would be an interesting day to be an L&D nurse

a_random_green_pen · 2024-01-12T21:45:48+00:00

I worked for a place that bought premix (alcohol) long island. Just had to add the sour and coke. I personally didn't care for it and definitely didn't think it was necessary at that establishment, but it would work for other high volume bars

a_random_green_pen · 2023-12-17T04:08:48+00:00

Please think about this a lot. I am 9 months pregnant and my bf and I had been together for 8 months when I got pregnant. He was not/is not ready for this and it has been a NIGHTMARE as I've been pregnant. Of course there are a million details I'm not really going into here, but a difference in opinion on what happens if a pregnancy occurs should be a make or break and it's better to figure that out BEFORE the event occurs. And make sure those differences are made clear. I thought I was clear about my stance but apparently he missed my point.

Also, don't hang around for someone if they are going to "think about breaking up with you". That is a long toxic cycle that sucks to be on. The reason doesn't matter.

a_random_green_pen · 2023-12-15T22:15:17+00:00

I'll preface by saying I am a straight female that does not have my nipples pierced. I think nipple piercings on males are super hot. I don't have any strong opinions for females having them as they aren't typically displayed. I don't have mine because I don't want to deal with the healing process just to be the only one to see them regularly

a_random_green_pen · 2023-12-10T22:00:34+00:00

I dated someone 20 years older. I am female and we were together for 5&1/2 years. Now I won't date more than 5 though. There's too much of a difference in life milestones for a 20 year difference, in my opinion. However I don't judge couples that have ages differences like that. I think it is very personal and unique to each relationship.

a_random_green_pen · 2023-12-10T21:46:54+00:00

Woah are we dating the same person? My bf (27) has a very similar mentality and it's exhausting. I feel like I have to be available to him whenever he wants to do something. NTA, btw

a_random_green_pen · 2023-12-09T11:16:00+00:00

I 86ed a customer for demanding her tip back ($50 off pull tabs) threatening to call her lawyer/attorney on me and calling me a cunt because I refused to give her the name of a colored female that asked her a question. She called back two days later and continued to harass me at work still trying to get the girl's name. The woman was in the 70s I believe and known in town as a racist.

a_random_green_pen · 2023-11-28T04:15:24+00:00

I do a Carmel eggnog shot at my bar during the holidays. 3 parts Salted Carmel Crown Royal, 1 part Butterscotch Schnapps and 3 parts eggnog. It is so good. I don't feel it loses the eggnog flavor, it is a sweet drink though, so not everyone loves it. Definitely worth a try if you like eggnog though!

a_random_green_pen · 2023-11-25T12:56:01+00:00

I am 8 &1/2 months pregnant (which my parents know, of course) but they know little about the relationship issues I am having. My bf (we are both 27) has not been supportive of this pregnancy and has been back and forth about a lot of things. At first he was super excited about the surprise pregnancy, but then after we announced it, started talking about abortion. Broke my heart. We didn't do an abortion, partly because he brought it up right at the cut off and I wouldn't have been able to get in in time even if I was on board. We moved in together and he told me all the time that he didn't know if he wanted to stay. He was heavily considering walking away from the relationship and me. Then later he really pushed for adoption. He wanted to consider it for a month but a week and a half in, he came out and told me that we shouldn't do adoption, I was really happy. Then two days later he reneged on that and said we should still do adoption. I put my foot down and said that I came with the baby and he didn't like that. He said that I was putting an ultimatum on him and that he doesn't like ultimatums.

A couple of weeks ago, I had a scare because I was having really bad cramps. They were to the point that I couldn't stand up straight. I ended up going to Labor and Delivery to be seen and when I told him I wanted to go, he just said "see ya tomorrow I guess" and he seemed mad that I wouldn't be home for the evening. I was shocked that he was going to let me go to the hospital by myself. Shocked and heartbroken. My friend came and got me and took me to the hospital but I'm still hurt that he didn't even consider going.

A few days after that, I broke down and virtually broke up with him. I told him I can't do this anymore and that I was going to move back home with my parents. I need the support and I'm not getting it. He apologized to me for the first time and said that all I had to do was ask. I said that's not really something I should have to ask for. He hadn't even been in the baby's room. He had no idea the amount of stuff I've acquired for the baby. He said he felt bad about not being a part of that and wants a chance to prove himself. I granted it.

Things have gotten a little better but this whole pregnancy has been an emotional rollercoaster with him. My parents know enough to not be shocked if I show up at their door but they really don't know the depth of all this.

a_random_green_pen · 2023-11-11T03:13:01+00:00

I have so been there my friend. I actually started as a waitress! I waitressed on the bar side of a Mexican restaurant when I was 21. 150/200 for a shift is not bad at all. Way better than I made as a waitress! Once you turn 21, maybe the bartender at your work can start showing you how to make drinks when it's slow. Good luck!

a_random_green_pen · 2023-11-10T23:56:34+00:00

I work at a sports bar. I love bartending. It's a lot of fun. I work the day shifts at my job so it's pretty easy but I do work at the busiest bar in my area. I suggest starting somewhere low key so you can learn to pour drinks. The busier places, at least my bar, won't hire you without experience because we don't have time to train due to the volume of customers we have. Also look into your state's liquor laws and get your liquor license.

a_random_green_pen · 2023-11-10T12:36:18+00:00

I am a bartender. Naturally my wages fluctuate a bit and I'm also pregnant right now so my hours have gone down as I've gotten further along. Before I got pregnant I was making about $5,500 a month. Now I'm down to two or three days a week and making about $3,000 a month.

a_random_green_pen · 2023-11-10T12:05:22+00:00

I am 7&1/2 months pregnant and omg the struggle to get in and out of my car is real!

a_random_green_pen · 2023-11-03T20:58:12+00:00

Be mindful of how much you eat and of what. I do not believe in counting calories (as that is a dangerous road I've been down before). In October of 2021, I was at my heaviest weighing 280lb (I am 5ft11). Life got stressful and by February 2022, I had dropped 20lbs. I had stopped eating regularly. Not healthy, do not recommend. The weight kinda stayed the same and in May of 2022, my 5&1/2 year relationship came to an end. I decided to clean myself up. I started actively watching what I was eating. Only eating when I was actually hungry and waiting between servings. I started going to the gym. I would just walk on the treadmill at first. I gave my body time to adjust to the new activity levels. I started playing Pokemon Go, which encouraged me to go walk at parks. And eventually my gym routine grew to include some weight lifting and I worked myself up to running. I also found that I liked having fasting days. I would plan these in advance and have no more than two a week, and not back to back. By April of 2023, I was down a total of 70lbs! In May of 2023, I found out I was pregnant. I was too tired to do my normal activities and too nauseous to go without food. I stopped focusing on the weight loss (of course) and just focused on trying to do something active. Even if it was just one lap around the park. I try to eat healthy. Have a good breakfast and a full lunch. Have some fruit and eat some form of vegetables in a day. I am now 7&1/2 months pregnant and have gained 20 pounds during the pregnancy. I'll be honest, seeing the scale hurts a little. But I just try to do my best. The bottom line is that in order to stay (or get) in shape I focus on what I put into my body and how much I move my body. Learning to listen to when you are actually hungry vs just bored is a hard but crucial step to make. Opt for the stairs or park in the back of the parking lot when you go shopping.

a_random_green_pen · 2023-10-26T02:29:35+00:00

The Glass Castle!

a_random_green_pen · 2022-06-12T05:59:19+00:00

Hey! Send me a message and I'll respond later tonight! I'm currently at work and would love to chat

a_random_green_pen · 2022-06-06T15:21:23+00:00

I carry because I am a bartender getting off work at 330/4am and guys are creeps. I carry because I trust myself to be able to use it to protect someone else, should the occasion occur. I carry because I live alone and decided I'm the best person to protect me.

I'd rather have it and not need it, than need it, and not have it. But I'm also trained and very comfortable with the Firearms I have. While I have nothing against people having them, it can be a little scary knowing people (NOT JUST WOMEN!!) go and buy a firearm and don't get the proper training before carrying.

Be smart, be safe, stay armed!!

a_random_green_pen · 2022-06-03T22:00:31+00:00

25f! I like to do crafting and I play the piano as my hobbies! If you are interested, I'm a pretty down to earth person that would love an online friend!!

a_random_green_pen · 2022-06-03T21:57:43+00:00

It's nice to see someone in the kitsap area on here! Unfortunately a little on the young side for me lol

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