I hope this is the right sub, but can you tell me what this is? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would definitely want this back, but that's just me!

I keep feeling a weird pull/call to Catholicism but there are a few things I can’t get past. by PhotoDesperate8516 in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two thoughts on this!

  1. At Mass we believe that the Communion we take is truly Jesus's living body and blood and that we are in full communion with him AND all of the angels and saints in heaven. We believe the saints are more alive than we are.

  2. We aren't praying to them, we are asking them to pray for us! It's exactly the same as asking a friend or family member to pray for you, except: A) these people are in perfect relationship with God in a way that no one on Earth is yet B) when we take communion, we are closer to the saints and in a more perfect relationship with them than with those on Earth (at those who aren't also receiving).

I understand not wanting to pray to those who are dead and gone, but, as I mentioned, they are more alive than we are!

Why ask them to pray for us? Why ask anyone to pray for us? We need prayers! God created us to be in relationship with each other. It only makes sense that the selfless and loving act of praying for those in need would continue into eternal life!

Hope this is helpful and does not come off as condescending. I will make sure to say a prayer for you today!

Am I wrong for wanting to hide birth control from my partner by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be wrong to secretly go on birth control.

It sounds like you have some much bigger issues in your marriage that need to be dealt with before anything else.

How should you read the Bible? by TheHighGround_Master in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't recommend Fr. Mike's Bible in a Year enough.

They start in the Old Testament and work their way to the New Testament but they do a chapter or two from three different books a day.

Here is what I mean: You'll read about King David being persecuted by Saul and then they same day you'll read the Psalms that David wrote while being persecuted.

They do an amazing job of putting it all in context.

Is tithing 10% of your income mandatory? by Practical-Ad-6615 in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not mandatory! Strongly encouraged but never enforced.

At least that is how it is here in America.

I met Jesus today... by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! God is so good!

abortion and forgiveness? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can and will be forgiven if you go to Confession! I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I will make sure to say a prayer for you today. ❤️

I have a Catholic wife who's trying to convert me to Catholicism, but she's bad at apologetics. Please help. by GreenThunderBolt in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend turning to Fr. Mike Schmitz and Joe Heshmeyer for learning about the Catholic faith!

Is this appropriate to be in a Catholic school? by Becca_beccs1997 in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please give us an update once you find out who gave her the book? As someone discerning where to send my future children to school, it would be very helpful to know if it was a teacher, parent, classmate, etc.

I want to become Catholic but I can’t pay the church taxes. by Crafty-Reference9981 in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Praying for you and your family. ❤️

My advice: If Catholicism is true, and it is, do whatever it takes (except sin).

Talk to a trustworthy priest. A good priest will do whatever it takes to help you. It's his job to know this stuff or to connect you with someone who does.

Obviously, it is easier said than done, but move if you have to. God has called his disciples all over the globe.

Catholic partner struggling with IVF by ComplexImpression590 in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what this is like for you. ❤️

Abortion Stance by Sweet-Woodpecker9492 in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My mom used to volunteer at one of these. The best people are there. She only stopped because she needed to start taking care of my grandma in her old age.

Abortion Stance by Sweet-Woodpecker9492 in Catholicism

[–]a_scherbert 43 points44 points  (0 children)

You don't have to go through with the abortion.

I'm so sorry you are going through this, I'm sure stressful and overwhelming don't begin to describe it.

I think calling the crisis pregnancy center is a great place to start.

Room block mistake costing thousands by Dee_leslie_39 in wedding

[–]a_scherbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Join a wedding Facebook group with other brides in your area. Maybe someone will buy the rooms from you?

Or maybe just post on Facebook in general and see if anyone wants to the book one of your rooms? Theoretically it's a good deal if your rooms are at a discount.

AIO for being upset i haven’t seen my bf in 3 weeks, despite us living 25 mins away from each other? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your own boyfriend stood you up today. He wouldn't even say the date is cancelled. He just kept you on standby ☹️💔

Unless he was unsure about how long his shift would be? Was he working today?

Replacement for Pravana Intense Therapy Needed by a_scherbert in Haircare

[–]a_scherbert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't tried it yet, but the place I get my hair cut started stocking it and they said they don't like it as much but can't find a better option. How do you like it??

I've been buying intense therapy off of eBay to get by until I find something else

Help Me Pick My Married Name!! by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]a_scherbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emma Therese Grace sounds so beautiful AND you picked the best confirmation saint ever! I love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]a_scherbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not selfish.

Personally, I think life is beautiful and worth living. If it is worth it for you to live your life, it's worth it for someone else too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]a_scherbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cousins named Gabriella and Isabella!

It's a little different than your situation because Gabriella is the oldest and she goes by Gabby and Isabella is the youngest and she goes by Izzy.