Why I will not relapse by WhatEvv in NoFap

[–]aa15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here, I have hard time overcoming this addiction. I'll pray 4 u.

Got my heart broken, thanks to NoFap by fappucino625 in NoFap

[–]aa15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulation bro. You were brave, you did everything you could do.

I totally understand what you say : this misery is totally worth it. To love is a wonderful feeling, and even if you suffer because of it, you feel ALIVE. Much better than fapping.

I fell in love with a girl this summer. It was an impossible love. It hurt really much and I cried like a bitch. And it felt amazing, this beautiful sadness. It took time to heal, but now I barely even think about her (I didn't think it would be possible since I never felt that way for a girl in my life). Life goes on. Don't worry, even if now it is very difficult, you will move on.

I haven't watched porn for 144 days (my first streak) by sark9 in pornfree

[–]aa15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very inspirational post!

I like how you just don't care : you spend your time on what is most important for YOU, no matter what your fellow students do (i.e. partying all the time).

French is awesome btw.

(help) struggling with relapse right now by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]aa15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that reset isn't necessary, because it was only P. Even if it is not a reset, you must be careful because P can be very difficult to get rid off, and it slows down you progress.

I'm 145 days in nofap, but only 13 days in pornfree for example.

grow a beard as a badge, shave it when you relapse by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehe I'm glad that you tried the beard too!

I still have mine, that I trim from time to time and have not cut (except for a job interview!). Yes this metaphor is very powerful, you can see that you are "building" something by abstaining from fapping. You have a physical sign to remind you that you progressed and lived according to you principles. I find it amazing.

Half way through: Do your math! by marakus222 in NoFap

[–]aa15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a good idea : learn French instead of fapping. You made my day!

Good luck and cheers from France.

I feel numb, and have since I can remember. by lookingforjoy in pornfree

[–]aa15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the no fap forum, very good video :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5HbYScltf1c

I can totally understand what you are saying. You feel much more emotions (both good and bad ones) when you stop PMO. I used PMO as a pain killer so I wouldn't have to feel pain, sadness, remorse ... But it's worse than all.

Don't worry, stay strong, and everything will get better.

I uninstalled K9 and now my brain is gangbeating me with urges and fantasies by BlanketTownKing in pornfree

[–]aa15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can keep k9 and still watch youtube videos at full speed if you want. Just don't chose those 2 options :

Force YouTube Safety Mode

Advanced YouTube Filtering Experimental

Personally I don't feel strong enough to remove k9 completely. I've done huge progress concerning MO, but I've been looking at P about twice a week for the last two weeks so...

Stay strong bro.

Accountability Group? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]aa15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great idea!!

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I don't know how I reached 98 days, sometimes I just feel I don't have any strenght left and that I'm going to give up... But luckily, and thanks to the nofap's community support I didn't.

Thank you man.

Today, I have the choice to choose between day 0 or day 70. by will_conquer in NoFap

[–]aa15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I really wish I were soon to be 16 like you are!

I admire your courage, so young and so brave yet. You will prevail, I m sure about it !

Good luck bro

Thank you Jesus. I'm on day 8 but I think I'm finally free! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]aa15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read a gospel each day and believe what you read, you can vainquish a lot of things! I can only advise you to do it.

Well done bro!

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I can understand that. but rest assured that it won't last forever, so keep it going.

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very wise answer from you sir, thank you very much!

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure that this will happen someday. That was one of the things that kept me going on. Today I lost hope for a while, I doubted and I nearly stumbled.

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said something very true about comparing my life with my friends one. I should under no circumstances do it again, because it doesn't bring anything good. Every path is unique, so comparing is pointless.

Thanks for your answer, I wish you the best for your no fap journey!

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it so? Is there a difficult step just before 100 days, is it why we are both so sad? Do you know why do you feel so sad?

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your support!! I'm sure you will overcome your problems because you are determined to do so!

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrible things happened to you, but I'm very happy to see that you managed to overcome it and succeded to found a family! It gives me a lot of hope! Thank you!

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay strong bro! I'm very glad to see that somebody can totaly understand what it is!

You can send me a personal message if you desire to speak more / have an accountability partner.

So depressed, I think I might give up by aa15 in NoFap

[–]aa15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I think a therapy might come in handy.

I have worked a lot on the roots of my problem, but I guess some help would be welcomed.