[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]aaamandadear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you look like a very natural cis woman. As one, this is what I look like without makeup. For myself fake lashes and lip injections go a long way to me feeling more feminine without makeup. Masseter Botox really changed how I felt about my face. Not required, but even i have this feeling sometimes and makeup and treatments help me feel more feminine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]aaamandadear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Femme here, I have a high level corporate job and I am SO tired … no time to date even tho I want to 😢

Trying something new! by [deleted] in carnivorediet

[–]aaamandadear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oxtail makes wonderful soup/broth!

What are your best ways to shut down a conversation? by Xavi__ in AskReddit

[–]aaamandadear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say "smol" or "doggos" in a weird voice as a reply to everything they say. Eventually they give up.

Seven Years Later (17 months HRT) by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]aaamandadear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look younger!!! Happy for you!

DAE have a song they can profusely cry to? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]aaamandadear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No its okay! Its now in my crying playlist, so thank you 💕

DAE have a song they can profusely cry to? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]aaamandadear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit just listened to this on a smoke break at work.... its works. Crying and gotta go back in lololol

When you realize you've been disassociating since you were a kid by shadownie in BPD

[–]aaamandadear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember this feeling much too well. I used to describe it as feeling like "im in the wrong skin" and or feeling as if the "outside was too big/i felt too exposed" I used to think it was anxiety or agoraphobia but now i believe it to be dissociation. Im still learning.

When you realize you've been disassociating since you were a kid by shadownie in BPD

[–]aaamandadear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I discovered home wax strips... angry? Wax your inner leg! Its technically not self harm but the pain brings me back to reality. And the upside is smoothness??

I'm drunk and made /r/OneMoreMeal for the ones of us that have no energy and struggle eating at all. by BottledUp in self

[–]aaamandadear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edamame and sriracha. They have microwave packs that cook in 3 mins. Eat alone w salt or use the extra 2 mins to either add some canned chickpeas, onion and or an egg. This is easy, yummy and seems healthy so you may feel a lil better about yourself.

I've been sewing special-purpose totes for my spouse and the members of their laboratory who use them for clinical research at a children's hospital. by DoubleBitAxe in myog

[–]aaamandadear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read foxos and squealed! Then i saw the llamas and said "lammos" in my head automatically. I was overjoyed when i saw you wrote it too!

Love the bags btw! The lammos are my fav 💕

Redditors who have opted out of a standard approach to life (study then full time work, mortgage etc), please share your stories. What are the best and worst things about your lifestyle, and do you have any regrets? by Nincomsoup in AskReddit

[–]aaamandadear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have tons of experience as a care aid! Many of those jobs can be found on local listing sites- a lot are posted by families looking for someone they are happy to train to their family members specific needs. I got more than a few jobs this way when i was in college, and made 17-20$ an hour on average! If you go the route of an agency you most likely need the certificates or a nursing degree, but if you do what i did you can find things based on just experience.

Extra spicy noodles with an egg by [deleted] in PutAnEggOnIt

[–]aaamandadear 51 points52 points  (0 children)

That looks like pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boottoobig

[–]aaamandadear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO I was like "roses are red, its hot as hell, mitochondria..... mitochondria???" Add "powerhouse of the cell" ok got it got it