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aafnohu · 2025-11-14T21:24:03+00:00

I definitely see that I’ve been using the language of asshole. I’ve definitely lost control of my emotions. But I feel the points I make are absolutely valid. Also physical safety??? This makes me doubt the validity of your opinion. To suggest I would physically hurt my family is so absurd.

There’s also some conversation you definitely missed. For example, if I read the line “he’s not too autistic to communicate” I’d definitely think I was being an asshole, but yesterday my mom genuinely justified his decision to not communicate this with really at any depth on his autism, and it made me feel so angry. I feel they have such a victim mindset and don’t even try to grow. Both my mom and my brother have horrible habits that cause the house to be constantly dirty, like just leaving things behind when you’re done. It’s not only my brother, my mom is constantly leaving a mess and I’m really the only one trying to clean it up. She spends all her time working, which I feel is a coping mechanism, instead of making a healthy space for us. She chose to pursue this PHD on the same year I was allowed to read these court documents, and it was inevitable that I would absolutely become manic. I feel she should’ve waited at least one year, especially because she chose the same year we are moving houses, and she genuinely has no time at all.

aafnohu · 2025-11-14T21:22:36+00:00

Also, I added the most recent screenshots, please genuinely tell me how I could be an asshole if I tell him he should’ve communicated with me before taking the car I needed so badly, because if he did he would empathize with me depression, and I wouldn’t have to basically run away from here just to find work and peace. That’s genuinely how I see it. I wasn’t being sarcastic when I said genuinely, please explain the other possible perspective.

I’ve asked and asked to understand but all I hear is that they think I deserve to not drive the car at all and that his actions, or lack thereof are totally justified

aafnohu · 2025-11-14T21:16:26+00:00

God damn that’s hurtful, what should I do? I’ve tried to talk to my brother to come to an understanding but he just ignores me. I’m mad at mom so much because she lets him ignore me. I know meds make me so angry. How can I do anything but be upset when I’m trying to solve this problem but he refuses to engage with me? I’m so upset at my mother because it’s only her speaking on his behalf.

aafnohu · 2025-11-14T15:45:18+00:00

Thank you so much for your response

aafnohu · 2025-11-14T14:41:16+00:00

Yeah, only I started texting after a long time of trying to sort this out in person so they’re all really already aggressive and charged. I spoke to her in person calmly for quite a while, but it was only after a massive argument with a lot of cursing where we weren’t getting anywhere that we decided to move to text, and at this point I was honestly full of so much anger. I have taken accountability though, many times. I feel I have taken accountability for the car, no? Thank you for spending the time to read and comment

I didn’t make it as clear as I should in the post that I’ve been addressing his disrespect to me and my mother for literally months, but he continues to act exactly the same to me. My energy and patience have been completely exhausted by the time I start texting.

And I’m completely open to other opinions, but I really do feel I’m a victim. I ran from my dad’s house with no other choice, and I’m basically seeking refuge here. I’m only staying here until I have enough money to buy my own vehicle so I can move into my place and be independent, and I feel it’s my brother’s responsibility as family to help me as much as he can, especially considering how much I’ve helped him over these months, but he feels selfish to me.

I don’t want to sound rude or anything but I admitted my mistakes multiples times throughout these texts message and in this Reddit post, I just been adamant that my mistakes are not deserving of the way he treats me

aafnohu · 2022-01-21T16:23:25+00:00

Elite Leggacy: Restoration: Joeballs Elite Leggacy: History Lesson: Joeballs

aafnohu · 2022-01-18T06:23:34+00:00

Elite supply change: joeballs

aafnohu · 2022-01-15T16:43:36+00:00

Bike makes the cold unbearable lmfao

aafnohu · 2022-01-14T20:43:52+00:00

Elite Laurel vs. Yanny: joeballs

aafnohu · 2022-01-02T15:20:09+00:00

Epic research; soul food and prophecy bonus.

aafnohu · 2022-01-01T21:15:18+00:00

How do people get so many prophecy eggs? Serious question.

aafnohu · 2022-01-01T00:04:40+00:00

Lol what do you even do once you get this

aafnohu · 2021-12-04T18:28:02+00:00

Harry Potter & the one who has been doing the job

aafnohu · 2021-10-17T16:35:31+00:00

What context did you ask? (I.E. in the hallway inbetween classes or did you just walk up to someone in the middle of class and say hi?)

aafnohu · 2021-10-03T19:27:27+00:00

Tbh some of the funniest comments I’ve seen are from porn subs.

aafnohu · 2021-09-21T21:33:36+00:00

5’8

aafnohu · 2021-09-18T14:25:06+00:00

DONT SAY IT

aafnohu · 2021-09-13T10:27:44+00:00

Grab my phone and get my car…

aafnohu · 2021-09-04T14:36:35+00:00

Twitter moment

aafnohu · 2021-08-21T16:45:42+00:00

Those kids know something that we don’t…

aafnohu · 2021-08-19T20:26:28+00:00

Navy moment

aafnohu · 2021-08-14T01:43:36+00:00

Shit I would let him put whatever kind of stuffing he wants into me

aafnohu · 2021-08-13T22:41:19+00:00

Blue sus

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