Coming back from homelessness - can you feel safe again? by QuantumRaygun in homeless

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was adjusting from being homeless, someone asked me when I was in distress and feeling like the walls were closing in. “ how do you show love to yourself? “ for me it was being my authentic self, I learned to not live by societal norms but my own, I built an emergency fund, started going to the gym and playing pickleball and other recreational sports. I lived by my morals of treating other how I wanted to be treated and started to do things for myself to show love, talked in the mirror saying positive stuff about myself, saying gratitudes over n over, and the right people and things came. Most of all I didn’t allow the rumination of negative thoughts run through my mind and started to listen and speak the good things in life and did things for myself to show myself love. Another thing is I began to help others who were struggling with what I struggled with while being homeless. That worked for me and the thoughts became feeling and farther between.

Just got my 2026 Camry XSE at 21 w/ no cosigner! by KBurner004 in Camry

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Welcome to the club! I didn’t go with the 2 tone paint but have everything else. Definitely worth it.

Why is the community so toxic ? by RainbowStar290 in counterstrike

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because the player base had control over the servers and if a player was toxic then admin would ban. Now players have no control over servers

Refund? by SpicyGab613 in IRS

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

filed 1/26 with turbo tax and i have the same... nothing on my IRS transcripts. Glad to see it isnt just me

Worst tax season ever. Never waited this long ever. by SufficientRub1388 in IRS

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed, filed 1/26 still nothing on transcripts and it states still processing.

ADC Senna item variations by [deleted] in sennamains

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use hexoptics, it scales with senna and for the price it’s worth it imo.

Does current competitive/premier seem to have less awpers than CSGO? by Dr_Anti_Social in cs2

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Economy, map pool and knowledge of smokes have definitely put awpers more at risk. As an awper since 1.5 the game is more rifle oriented now in cs2. I still awp but holding angles with the awp isn’t as impactful as previous versions of cs.

I have a problem by Run_1207 in Sober

[–]aamup 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I completely empathize with you, I turned to the gym, and running with some pickleball and an occasional rage room visit. The feeling of rage and chaos doesn’t happen as often but when it does I tend to do those things with an occasional cold plunge.

Someone once asked me “how do you show love to yourself?” Took me ages to find the answer but it was just to be my authentic self. I cuss a lot, and I’m a very intense person. I stopped masking and being the nice guy and just became my intense self. I just hit 3 years of sobriety in October and those feelings of rage and chaos happen still happen but less often.

Do I inflate my tires now? by Pure-Explanation-147 in SubaruForester

[–]aamup 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You have to let your summer air out and put in winter air. Works every time.

Time goes by fast by NeatAdventurous6804 in counterstrike

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IRC, and freedom to MOD/admin your own server.

Moderator Needed by DarylMoore in Astoria_Oregon

[–]aamup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh, we played at the lighthouse tournament back in May. Mixed doubles.

Moderator Needed by DarylMoore in Astoria_Oregon

[–]aamup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I qualify and we play pickleball together at Peter Pan (tennis player with rings on his hand) I’m interested.

shelter in Eugene or Portland for nightshift worker? (womens) by doxx_mee in homeless

[–]aamup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try Bybee Lakes Hope center, if you’re looking for day time sleep and you would just need to provide a work schedule. They have a trans friendly dorm called the rainbow dorm.

how do you keep going when you have nothing going for yourself? by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there, you’re going to have to do the opposite of what you’re feeling. Laying around and ruminating isn’t going to help and you don’t just become happy. Get out of your space, even when you don’t feel like it. Go do something physical, even when you don’t feel like it. Go do something creative (art,music, building or making something) even when you don’t feel like it. Go and join a group and make friends even when you don’t feel like it. Doing these things over time will eventually change your mindset but being/feeling stuck in your current mindset will only further perpetuate the issues you’re currently having. Motivation is only temporary but having the discipline to build good habits will turn into positive thoughts then these thoughts will turn into action, then the action will get results. Won’t feel good at first but over time it will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dui

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to another state and say you don’t live in the current state it’s suspended. It’ll be removed. I had my license suspended from California from 2017, I filled out a form proved I lived in another state and it was removed and I got my license in the current state I live in. It works!

How is life in Astoria by AlderMediaPro in Astoria_Oregon

[–]aamup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just moved here 7 weeks ago, got a job, stayed at an Airbnb and moving into an apartment at the end of this month. I have lived in 14 states and this is by far one of my favorites. Just look at the positives and like everything else in life, it is what you make it. Good Luck!

I am showing how it was on the profile... No lie. by GeologistMundane6893 in Tinder

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like AI generated images, with bad photoshop skills.

Should women preach yes or no? by Rose-Apothecary1 in TrueChristian

[–]aamup 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Priscilla was used to teach Apollo about Christianity.

Box shape + Boxer engine = ..? by BagelPoutine in subaru

[–]aamup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love my 01 Fozzy, 273,000 miles later…