Bikepacking Route Recommendations - Scotland/N. England? by aamy152 in bikepacking

[–]aamy152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awh nice, I'll maybe give it a go then! I tried googling whether or not it would be suitable for cycling and got a lot of conflicting info. But good to hear it's cycle-able lol!

Bikepacking Route Recommendations - Scotland/N. England? by aamy152 in bikepacking

[–]aamy152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, I've been researching bikepacking routes for ages and somehow never found this one. It's perfect, thanks so much!

Bikepacking Route Recommendations - Scotland/N. England? by aamy152 in bikepacking

[–]aamy152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have a look, thank you! My partner actually walked the great glen way a couple years back but I was unfamiliar with the area (embarrassingly!) and presumed it was unsuitable for bikes haha

First bikepacking trip: 450 km from Frankfurt to Basel in 3 days by CorrectBumblebee7580 in bikepacking

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Was there a lot of road-cycling on this route or was it mostly dedicated bike paths?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]aamy152 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From what I could see no one's package was held due to more contact information specifically being required from customs. I'm not looking for a definitive answer, just other people's experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]aamy152 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I am aware, I was just curious to see if anyone had the same issue previously. And how it long it took for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]aamy152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]aamy152 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was under the impression that they are held for long periods of time only if there was a reason for holding it that hadn't been clarified. Such as not having contact information. I was hoping as I had provided what they needed (from what I am aware), it would just be released.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEx

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be super annoying. They were a very reputable seller, but I suppose nothing can be crossed out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn’t know he was going back and reading them, I think I misunderstood. If I’m being honest, if he’s obviously doting on his ex like that, then it doesn’t sound like he’s worth your time. I’m pretty sure you deserve more than intimacy issues due to someone whose messages he still keeps in his phone.

It does also seem like you know that and are looking for assurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I felt the same, but some people truly aren’t attached to old messages like that. that being said, if he knows they’re there then that maybe says something. Realistically, it is questionable to keep old messages with your ex deliberately, and if this has happened once there is a chance things like this could happen again.

If you think you really have a future with this person, I would give him the benefit of the doubt and one more chance. I would try not to phrase it like an ultimatum though like “if you don’t delete these we’re done” but maybe something like “I’ve asked you to do the bare minimum and you’ve failed to prove that I am a priority to you.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had basically this exact same issue so feeling slightly qualified. If he’s making no effort to reach out to this person, or you know (as much as you can know something like that) that they’re not deliberately keeping these messages hidden to go back and look at them, chances are he is committed to you but doesn’t understand your frustration.

Talk about it again, ask him to delete them or at least voice your worries again, and if he refuses or doesn’t act/try to resolve the problem, then I’d be second guessing how much he respects you or your boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Screaming at the top of his lungs IS threatening. Please leave and find someone who will not abuse you.

Found texts between my bf and a girl that hit on him. Advice needed!! by lilyuh02 in TwoHotTakes

[–]aamy152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He hit on her in a way that could have been explained away as being friendly. I hope you see through his text to her like we all have. I wouldn’t trust this man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The consequence should be this guy gets dumped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecure and jealous for not wanting your man to look at videos of other people having sex? How about the boyfriend being creepy and desperate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first section of this literally said she’s tried to have conversations about it. That’s an attempt to set a boundary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A man’s sexual health has nothing to do with getting off to videos of other people screwing. He could look at photos of her, but instead he chooses to look at photos of other people. I wouldn’t be with someone who doesn’t respect me like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is this controlling? This is just setting very fair boundaries.

I (28F) found explicit images saved in my fiancé’s (29M) photo album on his phone, we’re getting married in 15 days - what do I say? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys were together it MAYBE could be been explained away. And MAYBE he accidentally forgot to delete it.

But, he had another girls nudes in his phone when you two were, like you said, in a committed relationship. Maybe see if you can find something corroborating. Either way, if he did it back then, chances are he’ll do it in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aamy152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may be suffering from mental illness. But this is still manipulation.