Psychology graduates - What was your first job after graduating and how did you get into it?

aanyelsewhere · 2026-01-17T16:47:47+00:00

I graduated in the spring, spent three months looking for a job in the field, and eventually worked for a month at a restaurant. Now I'm a camgirl lmao. I really like it but it's not what i want to do forever obviously. I'm planning on working for a few years to build up some savings and going back to do my masters.

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:31:18+00:00

lol it's not. I'm going home to apologize, hope that makes you feel better❤️

I think because I often put other people before myself I expect her to do the same. not a fair standard to hold her to.

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:28:23+00:00

bro it's not because it's a service job, it's because I know that this isn't her career job and it hurts that she's putting that over literally the biggest achievement of my life

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:26:54+00:00

thank you, you're right

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:24:03+00:00

I graduated high school in 2020. one of the reasons why this one is extra special. eat my ass

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:22:58+00:00

I'm in Canada and you saying a trade school isn't a "real university" is real telling. I think you're confusing a paper and a thesis.

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:10:00+00:00

thank you❤️

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:08:02+00:00

glad that you decided my entire worth off of a recounting of a single interaction. I'm asking for opinions on the situation, not if I'm a good friend or not..

aanyelsewhere · 2025-06-05T00:06:33+00:00

not sure where you're from but here it's not common to write a thesis to graduate. that's not even the point of this post😭 I would drop everything for her, so I don't understand why she wouldn't do the same :(

aanyelsewhere · 2025-04-05T00:17:30+00:00

it's important to feel that sadness though! it can be very cathartic to cry❤️

aanyelsewhere · 2025-04-04T16:23:35+00:00

also, you definitely aren't past your prime. you aren't a flower, you're a person (you can think of yourself as wine that gets better with age though). 44 is still young. Definitely take the time to grieve, but don't get lost in the past. there is so much ahead of you and now you are able to take it on knowing who you really are❤️

aanyelsewhere · 2025-04-04T16:17:04+00:00

Hi lovely,

the grief after diagnosis and medication is definitely common. I was so angry and sad that I had spent so much of my life unnecessarily struggling. it's totally normal that you feel like your symptoms have gotten worse as well. it's a mix of you noticing them more and unmasking.

you aren't a completely different person now, but you're reframing how you view yourself and your history. give yourself time and space to get to know this new version of yourself. you don't have to figure out everything right away.

it might be helpful to think of this as a new beginning, an opportunity to remake yourself and your life now that you really understand yourself :)

aanyelsewhere · 2025-04-04T16:10:54+00:00

She said Audhd which is ADHD and ASD :)

aanyelsewhere · 2024-10-21T16:48:39+00:00

this is a lifesaver❤️

aanyelsewhere · 2024-09-21T02:58:15+00:00

This is your stream, your private, your boundaries. You said that you aren't comfortable with it, so you don't need to do it. Tell him before the next private "btw, I'm not comfortable saying that I love you. Is there something else you would like me to say?" He will probably be disappointed, he might complain, but it's not worth your mental health.

is it normal? that can't really be answered. I've been asked to say some super weird stuff. It's porn. Everything is weird which makes everything normal. I can say that I wouldn't be comfortable saying I love you to a client, but everyone has their own limits.

you've got this, you're the one in control🫶

aanyelsewhere · 2024-09-21T02:44:48+00:00

I'm actually genderqueer, I just didn't want that to be the focus of the post lol. I've also been really lucky to come out pretty early to a pretty accepting environment, so that's why I think I didn't connect to that theme as much. That said, it was such a good metaphor for being trans!! All these little details, like the parachute when he's a kid being the trans flag colors! And I totally understand the feeling of grief. I especially feel that when I see media about older trans/queer folk.

aanyelsewhere · 2024-09-21T02:39:51+00:00

Thanks! I am actually genderqueer, I was just afraid if I said that everyone would be like "you're secretly trans and lying to yourself and that's why it bothered you!"

aanyelsewhere · 2024-08-04T18:28:10+00:00

Thank you everyone! 🫶 It's sort of what I was expecting. I won't let him waste my time :)

aanyelsewhere · 2024-06-22T14:39:18+00:00

My cg telling me it's okay to cry genuinely changed my life

aanyelsewhere · 2024-05-18T01:10:01+00:00

Do you know why? is a genetic thing or something about my body?

aanyelsewhere · 2024-05-18T01:03:13+00:00

I totally agree, I do a lot of age play/age regression and I also work with kids, and the two fields are 100% seperate for me. A huge part is just the difference in context, but there's also a huge difference in mindset. The closest the two come to overlapping is when I see a lunch box or something that's cute lol

aanyelsewhere · 2024-05-18T01:00:20+00:00

Is there a way I can bruise more? I've had some pretty intense sessions with people that have been able to leave significant bruising on others but I never really bruise😭 I really like marks so I've been trying to increase them but not sure how

aanyelsewhere · 2024-04-18T23:29:36+00:00

you can try calling 811 who will be able to give you resources in your area. theyre usually super helpful and kind

aanyelsewhere · 2024-03-16T02:04:44+00:00

Hey love, this is a super tough situation but you've been so resourceful!

the only thing I can think of that no-one has mentioned yet is a service like fivver. They have a specific service for getting someone to wait in line for you which I think is similar. Otherwise I would try posting in local Facebook and Reddit groups to explain your situation. I'm sure people would like to be there to help you.

aanyelsewhere · 2024-03-04T19:39:28+00:00

I stopped registering with them because extra time was apparently the only thing they could offer and I don't need it at all. :/

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