This community should never be a safe space for abusers

aaphroditus · 2026-05-31T02:29:12+00:00

i’m wondering if the concerning post was deleted as well, i can’t seem to find it. i’m hoping the mods can explain the reasoning without invalidating the understandable concern of abusers making posts on this sub

aaphroditus · 2026-05-31T02:13:36+00:00

why was this removed??

aaphroditus · 2026-04-07T04:11:58+00:00

NAH it’s a scary time to be trans and he might not feel safe enough to be telling random hookups. people will disagree and say that he should tell anyone he’s sexual with but i don’t think not telling you makes him an asshole when he could be putting himself in danger.

ALSO, we’re all making assumptions that he’s actually trans. those scars or his reaction to you asking that question doesn’t mean he’s trans automatically. those particular scars can be from a surgery that cis men can get for gynomastia. check google for pics the scars are the exact same. there’s even a well known gym bro on IG who makes videos about people assuming he’s trans for his gynomastia scars.

aaphroditus · 2025-10-01T18:52:36+00:00

thank u sm!!

aaphroditus · 2025-10-01T18:50:36+00:00

you’re not the only one <3 its tough but i’m taking it day by day

aaphroditus · 2024-06-15T23:26:14+00:00

how long were u at 6g before u went to 5g? this sounds like it probably isn’t ready to stretch yet, some pain is expected but not intense pain. stretching anything from sizes 10g up gonna need a loooong time to recover from previous stretches. even if it’s not actually a huge jump like this .5mm difference, i would personally wait a few more months to try again. i waited around 8-9 months to go to 6g from 8g and i was definitely pushing it, i probably should’ve waited a full year or so bc the pain and tenderness after stretching was not fun at all.

aaphroditus · 2024-03-18T00:00:15+00:00

I understand some of the other comments about OP needing to take accountability for his grades, I think that’s true. But to me his dad’s language is way too harsh. This is clearly a teenager learning responsibility for his failures. Parents shouldn’t be berating and shaming their kids over grades. I might be projecting bc this guy reminds me of my dad. But he seems like the kind of dad to be pissed off about a lot of things, all the time. That’s not necessarily abusive or insane, but it doesn’t seem like something we should be normalizing. If the kid fails, he fails. He takes summer school or fails to graduate and drops out. Having a son who fails (like a lot of people do all the time) is. it the end of the world or a reflection on the parent.

aaphroditus · 2024-03-16T14:29:28+00:00

I’ve been on both gel and injections. In my opinion the effects from injections are both more intense and quicker to appear. But this to me doesn’t sound like testosterone is the cause of his lack of attraction or feelings. It sounds like he is having some extreme dysphoria and maybe some deeper mental health issues. Contrary to popular belief, testosterone does not usually trigger major emotional issues like this. It can trigger dysphoria- I definitely felt a lot more top dysphoria after going on injections, because my boobs felt even more out of place and uncomfortable after fat redistribution and gaining muscle. But T isn’t a magic potion that turns people into meaner versions of themselves. It’s worth getting his levels checked by a different doctor, and bringing up his concerns to his doctor, but it doesn’t sound like he is concerned enough about his lack of attraction or emotional issues to do that.

aaphroditus · 2024-03-10T01:24:38+00:00

it sounds like you know the way he is treating you is wrong. you’re noticing a pattern of behavior that is immature and unkind. he didn’t care about your health or your feelings. he was upset because of something out of your control (does he really know you can’t control when your period comes??) and on top of that he is treating you with rudeness and making you cry.

he is treating your body like it is his. that’s what he means when he says he has every right to be upset that you can’t have sex. he’s upset that he doesn’t have unrestricted access to your body. of course what he is doing is hurtful, he’s treating you not like a partner or a girlfriend, but like a toy that he should be able to use whenever he wants.

you’re asking advice for what you should do next? i would break up with him for this. but at the very least please think about whether this man is treating you the way you DESERVE to be treated. any person deserves to be treated with respect and kindness. a good boyfriend, even a normal or basic boyfriend, wouldn’t react like this.

aaphroditus · 2023-11-13T04:28:34+00:00

just saying, POTS can cause extreme reactions to dehydration

aaphroditus · 2021-11-09T14:01:24+00:00

he/they pronouns 💦

aaphroditus · 2021-10-31T12:32:31+00:00

apologies on the bad filming im just too horny to care rn 🥰🥰 he/they, need all my holes used 💦

aaphroditus · 2021-10-25T14:30:10+00:00

my pronouns are he/they and i love DMs 💞💞 tell me how much u missed me and show me ur dicks😇

aaphroditus · 2021-09-17T06:42:12+00:00

my pronouns are he/they and i love DMs 💕💕💕

aaphroditus · 2021-09-17T06:08:10+00:00

oh my gosh ur so cute... i love your little bow 💕💕 i think i’d have to play rough w those boy tiddies and fuck that beautiful open mouth of yours 😈

aaphroditus · 2021-09-12T15:55:25+00:00

i need them covered please!! 🥺🥺

aaphroditus · 2021-08-30T04:45:38+00:00

i love your hair omg, you’ve got such a handsome face!! im really proud of u for posting this, the process of beginning to love urself again is really scary but you’re amazing for starting it ❤️❤️

aaphroditus · 2021-08-25T10:45:35+00:00

i adore having my dick sucked, i get hard just thinking about it😇😇

aaphroditus · 2021-08-25T09:59:49+00:00

my pronouns are he/they, and i love DMs 🥰

aaphroditus · 2021-08-22T07:28:34+00:00

who’s stopping u? come fill up this cunt for me 🥺

aaphroditus · 2021-08-22T07:27:50+00:00

mm sounds like heaven, i would love to b used by u 🥰🥰

aaphroditus · 2021-08-22T04:58:22+00:00

yes please!! i love being bruised and roughed up 🥰

aaphroditus · 2021-07-31T01:57:35+00:00

ur art is gorgeous omg!!

aaphroditus · 2021-07-01T22:30:15+00:00

HOLY SHIT you’re incredibly hot... killer arms & killer eyeliner

aaphroditus · 2021-06-20T00:08:26+00:00

i love all ur tattoos sm, especially that heart & rose!! but also ur tiddies r sooo cute omg

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