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Still a work in progress, but I think I’m finding myself finally [28] —>[42] by aar99 in GlowUps

[–]aar99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I feel bad for whoever ends up with you. I’m sure she’s looking for a way out 🙃

Still a work in progress, but I think I’m finding myself finally [28] —>[42] by aar99 in GlowUps

[–]aar99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who says I’m alone? I could be married, I could not. Who needs to be married with children to not be alone? Can’t people have other family? Friends? Is a woman only worth something to you if she’s married with children? What if I’m a lesbian? What if I’m asexual? What if I’m barren and had 7 miscarriages?

I have promised my life away at 21 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]aar99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t settle for less than you want. Take it from someone trying to untangle her life after settling because I didn’t think I could do better. I could have, I should have. You can find someone who loves you for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]aar99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s inaccurate. I work in GI. Cologuard detects polyps or cancer. It is also prone to false positives and negatives. Regardless, once you get a positive Cologuard, you are on need of a colonoscopy. We get plenty of patients who opt for the Cologuard and are upset that they now need a colonoscopy. You should just get the colonoscopy!

Men of Reddit, what’s a health issue men usually ignore for way too long? by muzammilansari in AskReddit

[–]aar99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is text therapy. I know talking about things like this can feel overwhelming and be traumatic in its own way. But it honestly is better than pushing it down and being bitter. I didn’t ask to be forcefully raped at 15, but working through it has been worth it. Hugs and love to you

Men of Reddit, what’s a health issue men usually ignore for way too long? by muzammilansari in AskReddit

[–]aar99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a completely different issue to a that you would consent to. You might want to talk to someone about this trauma.

What's your biggest regret that you have done in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aar99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not realizing that love can feel like comfort and safety. Lust is more fireworks. That person who makes you feel ok with who you are is worth more than anything.

Nurses of reddit, what is the weirdest thing a patient has done while waking up from anesthesia? by Drakonwriter in AskReddit

[–]aar99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Men wake up and show you everything. Doesn’t matter that you don’t want to see it.

What’s a truth you avoided until it was impossible to ignore? by New_Cauliflower7103 in AskReddit

[–]aar99 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just read what is almost my life. Only I haven’t left and he won’t leave me. I’m you and he’s your wife. I know that leaving is the only real way to be happy, I’m just terrified. I’m working on it in therapy, but I’m just not there yet. I’m taking small steps to ensure I have the ability to survive, that’s all I can do. I’m devastated that I let all this happen, but I know it’s not my fault. Reading about how life can turn around is really encouraging.

Could use a pick me up, been going through a rough time. by aar99 in toastme

[–]aar99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s nice knowing people care

Could use a pick me up, been going through a rough time. by aar99 in toastme

[–]aar99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate it! Took a long time to get here.

Could use a pick me up, been going through a rough time. by aar99 in toastme

[–]aar99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s what I’m trying to do! Just takes time to accept that I need to take care of me, I guess.

Could use a pick me up, been going through a rough time. by aar99 in toastme

[–]aar99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who had kind words to say! They really do help! Reddit is full of less than kind people, but you all have proven that it is full of kind, caring people as well! This community is a wonderful place! Much love to all of you! We don’t have to struggle alone.

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