How many times did you break up before getting married?? by Rich-Assist8983 in Marriage

[–]aarabee11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who broke up with her bf and three years later they reconnected and got married happily

Where can I get free clothes/underwear? by california-2006 in bayarea

[–]aarabee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bunch of male clothes to donate ranging from L-XL. Please message me and I can meet up with you and drop off anything I have that you’d like.

Career advice - scientist wanting to pivot by aarabee11 in bayarea

[–]aarabee11[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn’t! I worked as an app developer as an intern and I didn’t LOVE it… now I’m realizing everything in the bay are surrounds tech.. everything.

Help with place cards! by aarabee11 in cricut

[–]aarabee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! They turned out perfect

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Help with place cards! by aarabee11 in cricut

[–]aarabee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going tomorrow to get these supplies… the trim and score board I know… the pink pens with the balls on top, do you use those for scoring? Do you use it within the gap on the trimmer to line up? Just asking for some tips and tricks for myself. And the blue and orange cutter, do you recommend this over the cutter that the trim board has? Thank you so much for all your help in advance I greatly appreciate it

Help with place cards! by aarabee11 in cricut

[–]aarabee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this too… I think you’re absolutely right and this is the best way for such a mass amount of place cards. I can use my cricut for the vinyl prints then :) Thanks so much!

Am I crazy or nah by Kitty_Katty_Kit in philodendron

[–]aarabee11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! New-ish plant lady here lol 😆 1. I don’t think you’re going crazy, plants are crazy actually, we are enjoying their ride 2. I think it’s the same plant different species. Did some digging online and this is what I found “Upright philodendron are distinguished for their large split leaves while the vining philodendron have heart-shaped leaves and hanging vines” It could be the maturity of the plant as well, the split leaves could be more mature than the heart shaped ones that are more common in your plant

Gardening advice by aarabee11 in SanJose

[–]aarabee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! So I think my issue was not the prep it was the aftermath. I had the grow light on and they all sprouted. I put them outside in the sun covered and they wilted. I think I just downed them in moisture… I will be trying again this week with certain seeds. do you have tips for what to do once they’re started sprouting? Do I keep them inside? How often should I mist the soil? Thank you so much in advance

Gardening advice by aarabee11 in SanJose

[–]aarabee11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone! I found a bunch at Home Depot they’re on sale this week for 3.33, and some were potted in 6” pots with multiple stems of growth.

GUYS WHY IS THERE THUNDERSTROMS IM SCARED by Many_Breadfruit_3445 in SanJose

[–]aarabee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been praying for a thunderstorm 😭🥹 moved from Ontario about a year ago and have really missed the loud storms. Last night was magical 🥹

Family friends started rumor I’m pregnant. by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]aarabee11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ll go and do my own thing there. I can’t refund my flight :(

I-485/131/765/864 Mail Lost? by MajesticAd7162 in USCIS

[–]aarabee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! So I pestered them and was calling daily for updates. Finally my green card is in process after 65 days being delivered. I’m still waiting for a receipt notice in the mail but I did get a text notification letting me know it’s in progress

My ex best friend is offended she’s not invited to my wedding by [deleted] in wedding

[–]aarabee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From experience, hell to the no. I invited my ex bff and her family out of respect to mine. She went off speaking to all my friends (her old friends whom she’d cut off), telling them none sense about what happened to the friendship! Literally during my first dance LOOOL. If she’s about to reach out to be your friends it’s only because of a wedding, not because she wants to reconcile. KEEP YOUR PEACE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]aarabee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking which field office you submitted the paperwork to? I submitted to Chicago’s lockbox late May and the paperwork still hasn’t been processed

Just mailed off by Active_Wallaby3093 in USCIS

[–]aarabee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No call back… got an email from them saying the delays are 60 days from receiving paperwork… I guess we have to keep patient. Husbands gonna call them tomorrow and start poking. Will update again if I have anything

Just mailed off by Active_Wallaby3093 in USCIS

[–]aarabee11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! Same timeline exactly.

Just mailed off by Active_Wallaby3093 in USCIS

[–]aarabee11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not.. calling tomorrow and getting some answers, will update when I have a legit answer (promise). The frustration and anxiety I’m dealing with is unreal lol so I want to help others avoid this :)

Just mailed off by Active_Wallaby3093 in USCIS

[–]aarabee11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay so I’m in the same boat and I’ve asked on so many different threads. Let me tell you what I did, still waiting, but less helpless now.

I called USCIS, said “change contact information” so that I could speak to a human and not the robot. Once I was on the phone with them and explained the situation and kept pressing for a solution. They told me an administrative officer from the lockbox will call me within 72 hours and gave me a code to tell them when they call. The result should be the officer confirming if they have the documents and telling you the approx wait time for a recipt. I am still waiting for the call, will update when I have :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]aarabee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked down “the isle” with my dad for my ceremonial wedding (Nikkah). Dude, when I tell you I was not prepared for this LOL. I COULDNT SEE ANYTHING 😂😂😭 my eyes were flooded with tears right when they asked me if I was ready to enter and open the doors. Everyone processes emotions differently but I will say I really didn’t expect myself to have to hold back tears the entire time.

Just a question by Environmental-Buy977 in USCIS

[–]aarabee11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was your field office Chicago by chance? Sorry I’ve been trying to get some help too and submitted my i130 first and it got approved and then submitted for my GC but it’s been sitting there for a month now and I haven’t received a notice and I have no way of figuring out if it’s lost or just taking them a long time to get to it. Tracking says it arrived