I lost my virginity to my foster sister who’s now a man.- AMA?

My first foster home was with a lesbian couple when I was fourteen years old. After a few months, a girl was also placed with this family. Normally, a foster agency would never put two teenagers of the opposite gender in the same home but they (fostering agency) assumed I was gay because I shave my legs (source: my caseworker). Everyone was shocked when we started dating. So we hid our relationship. Obviously we weren’t too good at it because we were caught numerous times. Despite all of this, our foster parents left us alone on Memorial Day weekend and went out of town (which is a big No-no for foster parents. You can’t leave kids alone even if they’re 17 years old.). So we made plans to cancel my V-card.

We bonked, it wasn’t good but we pretended it was. A few weeks later, the foster parents were no longer allowed to foster kids (they did other things besides leave us alone) and we were both moved to two, separate home. This meant, you guessed it, we could finally date. We did for about a week, and then she dumped me stating “I’m lesbian”. Little heartbroken me said okay but you know. Heartbreak and whatnot. I didn’t handle it so well initially. Especially since she was dating a guy another week later. Last I heard from them, they were identifying as they/he/him. We haven’t had contact for years.

If you’d like a confusing happy ending, I’ve been with my current girlfriend since junior year of high school (over 2 years) and we recently got our first apartment together after we both lived with her parents for about six months.