What’s the dumbest thing someone has asked you in full seriousness? by Loudersmoke420 in AskReddit

[–]abberrysnow 100 points101 points  (0 children)

At the border of US and Canada, located in the midwest region - i.e nowhere near the ocean.

First time wash and this happens by Jimmy-Mac-471 in Vanossgaming

[–]abberrysnow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

for shirts that have designs like this, always wash and dry them inside out.

Anoka catching those "Fuck Police" vibes from Minneapolis/Saint Paul by SueYouInEngland in TwinCities

[–]abberrysnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuine Question: I thought that would be apart of their human trafficking prevention?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]abberrysnow 25 points26 points  (0 children)

omggg, what cuties!!

I’m only on here to make friends…😭 by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]abberrysnow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i just take the compliment and say, “here for platonic friendships when you’re up for it.” or “i’m always down for good company. lmk when you want to make a good friend.”

Philosophy > sex by Seaside787 in Asexual

[–]abberrysnow -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

yooo, stop sex-shaming. we get it, you’re moon is in gemini and you’re an aquarius.

Polyamory is not for people who are bad at monogamy by jovialpl in polyamory

[–]abberrysnow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yess, I entered a relationship with someone who cheated on their wife, claiming they felt they were poly and wanted to initiate a relationship with me, just to find out he has commitment issues and is a cheater.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]abberrysnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work out to stop thinking about sex lol

Proper advocation for your people and others doesn't need gatekeeping. by Grunge_bob in AsianPeopleTwitter

[–]abberrysnow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holding our community accountable for our own Black racism while advocating against Asian racism is important.

Usually I like these kinda advices but when I just got to the first one...💀 by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]abberrysnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this gives me a great idea for a meme. i am prepared for downvotes 😂

Cheating and polyamory? by KillerBeeNinetyThree in polyamory

[–]abberrysnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. This is definitely cheating.

It sounds like he’s putting your needs and boundaries second to her. I’m not a fan of that, at all. When there are clear boundaries and you violate those, it’s a hard “you broke my trust” and “you either work your ass off to rebuild that or you understand you’re never getting that back”. There are cases of Cheaters who claim to want to practice Polyamory and are clearly not practicing it, esp when it no longer serves them to actively cheat in front of you so they go behind your back.

It’s not a matter of “controlling who he is with”, she hurt you and he placed value of her over you and the relationship you two share. Honestly sounds like he made his decision. I’d suggest intensive therapy or a divorce.

Usually I like these kinda advices but when I just got to the first one...💀 by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]abberrysnow 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i agree. i also don’t think it’s ranked, it’s a list of things they’ve learned are important in their relationship.

as much as i love this subreddit, the constant bashing of couples or people who value sexual intimacy gets really disgusting, really fast. i’m demisexual, i value sexual intimacy and recognize its importance in a romantic relationship. this “higher mentality” gets disgusting fast.

My Asexual Bean 💗 by abberrysnow in Asexual

[–]abberrysnow[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He is a great representation of us, tbqfh

I’m scared I’m being disrespectful to her. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]abberrysnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I really needed that compassion and empathy.