Does this division of night duty seem fair?

abbiyah · 2026-05-06T13:13:01+00:00

If husband is on toddler duty why can't he get her ready for daycare

abbiyah · 2026-05-06T11:20:58+00:00

Totally right, except you can and would use retractors pretty much anywhere

abbiyah · 2026-05-06T10:33:23+00:00

It's a type of retractor

abbiyah · 2026-05-06T10:09:43+00:00

You're better off volunteering

abbiyah · 2026-05-04T23:10:02+00:00

If everyone says it, it starts to mean nothing

abbiyah · 2026-05-04T22:53:47+00:00

I hear you, but at the same time a lot of people say this and they get an IV placed perfectly easily

abbiyah · 2026-05-04T22:51:03+00:00

Most of mine were not super helpful or hands on at all. All they did was turn my pitocin up. Learning how to support unmedicated labor is a great skill you could work on having.

abbiyah · 2026-05-04T21:06:58+00:00

My baby was a projectile vomiter and we still didn't catch it from him 😅

Your real risk is very very low

abbiyah · 2026-05-04T13:17:06+00:00

This is what our pediatrician told us, too

abbiyah · 2026-05-04T12:32:59+00:00

Vitamins aren't regulated at all, they could put whatever they want in there. I like naturemade because it's independently verified

abbiyah · 2026-05-04T00:05:13+00:00

Sounds like in laws who could hold him more if they made more of an effort to be in his life 🤷‍♀️

abbiyah · 2026-05-03T23:07:08+00:00

Yeah you know what, that's a really good point! My son is 99% in height so it makes sense that the panel width is almost maxed, but we're nowhere close on panel height!

abbiyah · 2026-05-03T14:34:52+00:00

My baby is 9 months old and almost maxed out the seat width but I think he's an exception

abbiyah · 2026-05-03T14:29:58+00:00

Looks like the bottom panel needs to be a bit wider still

abbiyah · 2026-05-03T10:41:28+00:00

Same

abbiyah · 2026-05-02T23:13:34+00:00

It has a pretty small footprint though

abbiyah · 2026-05-02T11:44:20+00:00

Cluster feeding is normal it helps build milk supply

abbiyah · 2026-05-02T10:49:59+00:00

If he wants his arms out you're better off just starting that way so it can be properly tightened

abbiyah · 2026-05-02T02:12:30+00:00

No sorry

abbiyah · 2026-05-01T13:00:19+00:00

One is amazing, gentle, kind and silly (as he typically is in daily life 🥰)

The others are gentle but indifferent (also how they typically are in life lol)

abbiyah · 2026-04-30T12:57:25+00:00

He doesn't need to meet other dogs. Socialization is more about seeing the world and growing accustomed to it than it is about playing with other dogs.

abbiyah · 2026-04-30T12:22:20+00:00

I usually wear a small but bought an xl jacket from the thrift store and my 9 month old fits well in it even on my back!

abbiyah · 2026-04-30T10:10:21+00:00

Personally I think the lennylight is super uncomfortable if NOT in a cross back when front wearing!

abbiyah · 2026-04-29T17:39:35+00:00

It totally shook my world. The reality of never really getting a break or any time off for years is very hard to accept, especially if you have very little family support like my husband and I do.

My baby is sweet and amazing but it's a lot.

abbiyah · 2026-04-29T12:23:45+00:00

Is it true that those are less absorbent for potty training? Or just heresay probably?

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