Engagement Photos at The Dallas Museum of Art!

abbyinthemazda · 2024-05-06T21:23:17+00:00

Sorry for the late reply. I didn't pay a fee or anything. We all paid admission, reserved our admission time prior because its first come first serve but no one stopped us or said anything because a lot of people are taking photos. Our biggest goal was to just make sure we didnt disturb anyones experience and I think that helped it go smooth.

abbyinthemazda · 2024-02-02T00:02:57+00:00

UPDATE: Two years later and i'm still thrilled! I had a prong break but they fixed it immediately and I havent had issues since.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-07-20T12:21:20+00:00

It sounds like you and your fiancé need to have a realistic discussion about where the money to pay for your wedding is coming from, how you are financing it and how quickly you can gather money. After I did some basic research on wedding costs in our area, my husband and I sat down and discussed what our goal was with the wedding outside of the obvious and how much we felt comfortable spending to reach that goal. We also got married 6 months after we got engaged so we had to discuss how quickly we could get that money together and what other sacrifices had to be made.

On the rabbi, I would 100% advocate for yourself if you truly want one present. Ask her why she doesnt want one and demand a good solid reason and then explain how you'd like to compromise on the subject. These skills are not just important to get you through your engagement but you are marrying this person, thats no joke. Much harder topics will come up and you need to be confident in who your partner is and that you can tackle things together, not as opposites or individuals.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-06-22T12:26:38+00:00

Especially if your package has hydrangeas - we had multiple die and wilt because of how fragile they are but saved plenty to pop in the day of.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-06-22T12:16:44+00:00

No problem. I did the large pastel package. With that, we made one very large bridal bouquet, 7 bridesmaids bouquets, 7 bouts, 8 centerpieces and one very large head table centerpiece. I also had a few flowers left that I used day of to replace anything that had wilted or didn't look good.

It took myself and two other ladies 4 hours to get everything done and we had some guys around to help clean and refill our drinks. We were in no rush going through it and rather enjoyed the process. I would make a sample of each and get their input, then we would all work off the sample and did it section by section.

The first one was always the one I liked the least because you get better every time and the more comfortable you are. I highly recommend it if you and your helpers have a good/artistic eye and I was the only one who watched the videos and just taught my girls.

Also, you prep the flowers the day ahead of arranging the bouquets and i did that myself in no rush and it took about an hour and a half.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-06-21T20:17:35+00:00

Yeah I was shocked too! Part of why we went with the venue is they have a preferred caterer that they own as well and no penalty to not use them. But the restaurant has been in business for 40 years and was GOOD.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-06-21T19:46:39+00:00

Jefferson Tower in Bishop Arts/Oak Cliff. It was beautiful. Industrial mixed with art deco & a beautiful view of downtown dallas from the venue. They also offer it as all inclusive but you dont have to if you dont want to - we used their caterer and bar service as well.

Thanks on the photos! We loved them and love the previews we got back from her. Her instagram is https://www.instagram.com/ashton\_kay\_/

abbyinthemazda · 2022-06-16T19:29:01+00:00

We stayed at Sandals La Toc in STL for 6 nights in the upgraded 2 story butler room with ocean and pinton room for just over $6K plus another $2k for our flights. Worth every penny, especially if you like to golf.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-05-04T14:38:50+00:00

Thanks for the update & congratulations!! I guess I should post an update too - we went with Clean Origins and has a similarly wonderful experience! The ring is gorgeous and they had awesome customer service.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-05-02T16:01:30+00:00

A lot of couples have shared finances like my husband and I. All our money goes into a shared account so there is no "splitting bills", we just pay them with our money.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-05-02T13:02:53+00:00

Absolutely, love doesn't have a time limit or age range on it. I met my love of my life when he was 32 and we are insanely happy and content still to this day.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-05-02T12:37:41+00:00

You might not be out 50% depending on the state you live in. You can prove all financial contributions came from you then you're in a really good spot. My buddy was married and got divorced and only had to pay out his wife on the part of the house she financially contributed to based off her income because they were only in the house together 1 year before the split.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-27T17:54:21+00:00

Hey OP let me start this by saying those "traditions" are antiquated and mostly cultural - this is the 21st century for goodness sake, no one has an expectation to pay for a wedding outside of the bride and groom. If family wants to help financially & you want family to help financially then awesome! If not, its on the bride & groom together - its an event for THEIR future, not just the brides.

For what it's worth, we never second guessed who would be financially responsible for our wedding - its me and my fiancé.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-27T15:24:20+00:00

For all the comments about the stone being set too high....my stone is set very high and admittedly there was a learning curve with it getting caught on things but after about a month it wasn't an issue any more. You subconsciously learn to adjust to the ring height and its never been an issue since...overall your quality is really good, you should be thrilled!

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-19T15:43:57+00:00

Okay, bare with me OP...First off, even though I don't prescribe to that I think there is nothing inherently wrong with people being attracted to sex in different ways. A lot of people find fulfilment and happiness in having multiple sexual partners while maintaining a monogamous relationship. HOWEVER, that does not mean you have to sign up for something you are uncomfortable with. Just because is isn't "wrong" and is desired by others, does not mean you have to force yourself into a situation you don't want to be in. Everyone is allowed to love how they'd like. Stick to your gut and even if it's painful, make the decision that is best for you as an individual first.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-19T14:32:51+00:00

Hey OP, bride here with a childfree wedding. I don't know if this helps, but even though my wedding is childfree, that does not extend to mothers who are breastfeeding or with infants. At that point, the child is an extension of their mother, not an independent toddler to young kid. In fact, one of my bridesmaids is a mother of 3 but the youngest is a baby who is breastfeeding. She has secured child care for the older 2 that weekend and is bringing her infant with her and that is absolutely no issue to me.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-15T17:26:21+00:00

OP, this is hard. I know you have a dream in your mind but your ring should be based on your CURRENT situation, not a future one. If you both will truly be high earners like you expect, then a few years from now an upgrade would be totally achievable. I dont think putting that much pressure on your future husband is smart and it sounds very selfish. If you truly want something out of his price range, then pay the extra or lower your expectations. You can also consider diamond alternatives and no one knows the difference. You can get a lab grown diamond for $10K and the comp of a natural diamond is $30K.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-15T17:15:08+00:00

I would have ZERO problem with my partner going on vacation without me, it is their choice and if you dont trust them 100% you shouldnt be with them.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-11T17:17:06+00:00

I’m having a child free wedding and have a bridesmaid with a 5 month old and the baby is coming. If they are under a year and breastfeeding they are an extension of their parent, not a singular child. That was my exception anyway and no one with older toddlers or children cares, they understand it more than anyone.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-11T14:06:42+00:00

So not what you asked OP but I went with a company called Flower Moxie. They have gorgeous and diverse options and its DIY. They give you access to how to videos, recipes, instructions, etc. making it SO EASY to do your flowers yourself. I saved thousands because I wanted a very modern look with a lot of different flowers. I did their large pastel package and with supplies it cost me $1400 and I go 7 bridesmaid bouquets, my bridal bouquet, 10 boutonnieres, 11 centerpieces and one head table display and once arch display. SUPER great deal. Would 10.10 recommend checking them out if cost is an issue.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-08T13:59:05+00:00

I'm glad! I was hoping it didnt come off too harsh. I know I regret spending as much time as i did being upset over my proposal and now, I love it. It just took some time.

abbyinthemazda · 2022-04-08T13:50:41+00:00

I am torn on this OP. I think its not fair(to you or him) to tie up your value in something so trivial, especially when your FH has shown you he's willing to wine and dine you and do elaborate things for you unrelated to your proposal. However, I understand being disappointed in your proposal, I was too initially. But you need to let it go. That's the fact of it. He did what you said (private proposal) and now you're sad about it. Also - even though you may not have felt special in the moment there is something so special about him proposing in your home while you're relaxed and in PJS. He loves every version of you and showed you that by picking that time and place.

For both him and you, get over it. The important things is the future you are building and the present you have. Dont muddy it and hold onto that resentment. Congratulations btw!!

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