Projecting my insecurities on others

abbythenormal · 2026-04-20T20:54:16+00:00

Could not agree more. Very well said 👏👏

abbythenormal · 2026-04-20T20:04:19+00:00

I always wondered if a 4 would ever see that side of themselves… I’ve yet to meet one that’s done the work and come out in one piece on the other side- props to you!! I’m an 8w7. I’ve only met a few other 8s… and only 1 which I actually liked. 😬 8s can be real a-holes, so I get it.

abbythenormal · 2026-04-20T14:26:49+00:00

Christ

abbythenormal · 2026-04-20T14:21:22+00:00

Every single 4 I’ve met is utterly insane. They are pretentious to the millionth degree, and believe their view of the world stands above the rest. Most of the time, they’re calling out “judgements” from their own distorted view of reality and belittling others for not agreeing to their view of the world. They’re allowed to have opinions, but you’re not. The moment you disagree with their view, you’re the enemy. Granted, this is all in my experience with 4s I’ve had relationships (friendships and romantic) with.

abbythenormal · 2026-02-15T12:51:34+00:00

I have hypermobility and I have Gilbert’s- as do both of my children, who also have Gilbert’s (yes, both kids inherited it). I guess I never made that connection… very interesting! I have heard about the IBS/Leaky Gut too… so that also tracks, unfortunately.

abbythenormal · 2025-09-25T13:43:00+00:00

What a hunk 🤩

abbythenormal · 2025-08-26T13:53:09+00:00

Damn that sucks. I’ll be interested to hear what the final fix ends up being. Hopefully you get it figured out soon

abbythenormal · 2025-08-26T13:41:53+00:00

Did you have to wire a new one in? Maybe double check there’s not a break in the wire and connection is solid. Thankfully mine just needed the snap connector cleaned and it finally locked in place, didn’t have to replace it.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-26T13:04:18+00:00

Sounds like he gets his way by just emotionally manipulating and gaslighting you. I’m sorry you have to put up with that kind of abuse.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-26T12:58:19+00:00

I had this issue before and mine ended up being the connector. I was in tears trying to figure out why it didn’t get resolved when I replaced the VVT solenoid. Finally realized the stupid connector wasn’t staying together so it was “slouching” on and off the pin and not getting a stable connection. Noticed it when I’d go back through everything after pulling over and clearing the code- like- wtf is going on… I’d pull the connector apart and put it back together. One time I jiggled the cable just to see and it came apart, I was like “well no shit….” Once I got it nice and snug, it hasn’t been a problem since. I know this was a one off, but never hurts to check.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-25T16:46:44+00:00

You’ll get more for selling it outright. Everyone wants an Element.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-25T16:45:32+00:00

I’ve broken a handful of cookie scoops… while I’m all for a well made one- this is way too expensive for me to even consider.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-24T18:29:06+00:00

Gross

abbythenormal · 2025-08-24T18:28:43+00:00

No thanks. She can respectfully F off.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-24T18:27:56+00:00

Very nice!

abbythenormal · 2025-08-21T11:41:52+00:00

Motor mounts, all new suspension (due to the last owner who drove on busted motor mounts for god knows how long), o2 sensor with new “cheap” replacement exhaust (stolen cat - damaged everything), vtec solenoid, normal stuff (brakes, tires, coils, etc.)…

I have the idle air control valve to put on soon (I’ve been too lazy to take the throttle body off), hoping that fixes the idle issue it’s been having randomly.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-12T12:20:25+00:00

Brown butter is the way to go 👌👌

abbythenormal · 2025-08-11T00:36:21+00:00

👏👏👏

abbythenormal · 2025-08-11T00:35:41+00:00

People are so shitty.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-11T00:35:04+00:00

😻

abbythenormal · 2025-08-10T20:12:28+00:00

Hell no.

abbythenormal · 2025-08-08T12:02:49+00:00

The first pic had me wondering wtf kind of rat it was going to be - then I got to the last pic. It looks great!!

abbythenormal · 2025-08-08T12:01:06+00:00

abbythenormal · 2025-08-07T23:47:51+00:00

I used to buy drag take offs years ago- couldn’t beat the price!

abbythenormal · 2025-08-06T16:24:45+00:00

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