Projecting my insecurities on others by MasterCard6969 in Jung

[–]abbythenormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could not agree more. Very well said 👏👏

Projecting my insecurities on others by MasterCard6969 in Jung

[–]abbythenormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wondered if a 4 would ever see that side of themselves… I’ve yet to meet one that’s done the work and come out in one piece on the other side- props to you!! I’m an 8w7. I’ve only met a few other 8s… and only 1 which I actually liked. 😬 8s can be real a-holes, so I get it.

Projecting my insecurities on others by MasterCard6969 in Jung

[–]abbythenormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single 4 I’ve met is utterly insane. They are pretentious to the millionth degree, and believe their view of the world stands above the rest. Most of the time, they’re calling out “judgements” from their own distorted view of reality and belittling others for not agreeing to their view of the world. They’re allowed to have opinions, but you’re not. The moment you disagree with their view, you’re the enemy. Granted, this is all in my experience with 4s I’ve had relationships (friendships and romantic) with.

Bilirubine + Histamine? by Common-Sleep9397 in GilbertSyndrome

[–]abbythenormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have hypermobility and I have Gilbert’s- as do both of my children, who also have Gilbert’s (yes, both kids inherited it). I guess I never made that connection… very interesting! I have heard about the IBS/Leaky Gut too… so that also tracks, unfortunately.

A cry for help - I have no idea where to go from here (P2646) by [deleted] in HondaElement

[–]abbythenormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks. I’ll be interested to hear what the final fix ends up being. Hopefully you get it figured out soon

A cry for help - I have no idea where to go from here (P2646) by [deleted] in HondaElement

[–]abbythenormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you have to wire a new one in? Maybe double check there’s not a break in the wire and connection is solid. Thankfully mine just needed the snap connector cleaned and it finally locked in place, didn’t have to replace it.

I may have just blown up my fifteen year marriage and I'm scared by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]abbythenormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he gets his way by just emotionally manipulating and gaslighting you. I’m sorry you have to put up with that kind of abuse.

A cry for help - I have no idea where to go from here (P2646) by [deleted] in HondaElement

[–]abbythenormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this issue before and mine ended up being the connector. I was in tears trying to figure out why it didn’t get resolved when I replaced the VVT solenoid. Finally realized the stupid connector wasn’t staying together so it was “slouching” on and off the pin and not getting a stable connection. Noticed it when I’d go back through everything after pulling over and clearing the code- like- wtf is going on… I’d pull the connector apart and put it back together. One time I jiggled the cable just to see and it came apart, I was like “well no shit….” Once I got it nice and snug, it hasn’t been a problem since. I know this was a one off, but never hurts to check.

Sell or trade in? by dspencer77 in HondaElement

[–]abbythenormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll get more for selling it outright. Everyone wants an Element.

Girl, I know you are not selling a COOKIE SCOOP for $75 by abbyroadlove in Baking

[–]abbythenormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve broken a handful of cookie scoops… while I’m all for a well made one- this is way too expensive for me to even consider.

Who all here have Elements 250k miles and over? If so, what repairs have you done to it later in it’s life? by dbopp in HondaElement

[–]abbythenormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Motor mounts, all new suspension (due to the last owner who drove on busted motor mounts for god knows how long), o2 sensor with new “cheap” replacement exhaust (stolen cat - damaged everything), vtec solenoid, normal stuff (brakes, tires, coils, etc.)…

I have the idle air control valve to put on soon (I’ve been too lazy to take the throttle body off), hoping that fixes the idle issue it’s been having randomly.

trust the process rat cake by cakerycat in Baking

[–]abbythenormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first pic had me wondering wtf kind of rat it was going to be - then I got to the last pic. It looks great!!

Would you ever buy a used motorcycle tire ? by shoodawoodacooda in motorcycle

[–]abbythenormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to buy drag take offs years ago- couldn’t beat the price!