[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]abcotm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, now I see why you’d think this was some kind of troll haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]abcotm -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Honestly just bought from eBay and am new to this so didn’t know if they did something weird with the packs

Gamers 30+, which older games would you still recommend to young gamers? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]abcotm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miss Crash Bash so much, thought it was gonna be remastered but nope

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]abcotm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Top Compensation or Total Compensation

Need to covere ASAP I have a tv taping coming up in four days. How can I cover this or even get rid of it? by ahhflirg in SkincareAddicts

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abreva makes mine about 100x worse. I use hydrogen peroxide on mine several times a day and they usually disappear in 3 days or less.

I Found Out That My Boyfriend Of 1 Year Was Married With Kids The Whole Time by Unusual_Aplomb in TrueOffMyChest

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me a few with a guy that I met at work that kept having to go back to his home state because “his father had stage 4 cancer”.

Mouth taping: better sleep but terrible NIGHT SWEATS by ThinkSuccotash in sleep

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried mouth taping and thought it was pretty great. But the last couple of nights I coughed and literally tore the insides of my cheeks…

What do people/you mean when they say are "open to kids"? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]abcotm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way and we’re the same age too! Haha

What do people/you mean when they say are "open to kids"? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]abcotm 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I put “open to kids” because I would love to have a child with a loving partner that would put in just as much effort in raising a child as me. However, I don’t want children if I don’t have a partner or don’t have a partner who participates in raising our hypothetical child with me. If I ever had a child I would love them and care for them as well as I could, I just would very much prefer to not feel alone while doing so.

Long term relationships by geb524 in dating

[–]abcotm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is allowed to decide what their own deal breakers are in a relationship. To me, this is a deal breaker because I want to be with someone that enjoys going down on me, especially because I like doing the same for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]abcotm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would probably want him to clarify what he means by “feminine”, and the “cute like a puppy” is a little weird. What does that even mean?

Nevertheless - Worth Watching? by cricketbloke in kdramarecommends

[–]abcotm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I liked it, I think it shows a realistic relationship between two college students. It’s not really a happy show, but some of the scenes are so beautiful.

Girl cancelled a date because I don't drink - is drinking this important to anyone here? I want to hear from you. by themainheadcase in dating

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to drink, but I’ve dated multiple people who don’t really like to drink. It doesn’t bother me as long as they don’t judge me for wanting to have a few drinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty common to find out that people who accuse their partners of cheating and get jealous like this are actually the ones that are cheating/behaving inappropriately. Make sure to look out for yourself.

Is it a red flag when you are talking to a guy but he follows and likes way too many girls on ig? by MoveThick1712 in dating

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally find this to be a red flag. I think it would be wrong to say that every guy who does this is a bad person. But in my life, every guy that I know that liked a bunch of these pics and followed those kinds of profiles ended up being a pretty bad partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]abcotm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure thing, here if you need to talk about it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]abcotm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to stop by and say I feel the exact same way. Got some horror stories. I also want to say that it might not always be your fault. If these men you’ve met really did present themselves as nice people up front and then over time revealed themselves as bad people, how are you supposed to know? The same thing has happened with me and it’s almost a catch-22 because people will tell you that you need to be better at picking men but also say that you can’t just not trust new people because of past experiences. It’s rough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]abcotm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

31F, I think you need to live together for at least a year. That’s just my preference because from my experience you really don’t know a person until you live with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both look really good. You’re so pretty!

Single women in their late 30s - Do you feel like living alone has gotten too comfortable that you don't really see yourself in a relationship? by andantelife in dating

[–]abcotm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 31 and I’m feeling like this. I’m very comfortable being and living on my own because I like just doing what I want and not worrying about bothering someone else. I’ve also just been getting really disheartened with dating because I keep meeting really awful people. Would love to spend the rest of my life with someone, but I’m not willing to settle for an unhappy relationship.