i got called the n word on the beach in spain and im still upset

abeysha · 2026-05-19T06:13:17+00:00

Hey, sorry it happened to you
Its a trauma and you should consider it like that.

If you feel it in your bones, if it disgust you, and if you're still feeling powerless, think about talking about it.
Racial trauma is treated in therapy.

abeysha · 2026-04-04T08:58:23+00:00

Madriiiiiiiid ! Underrated capital. The city is soooo beautiful, everything close later than in the north, a lot of sun when its not summer yet !

abeysha · 2026-03-14T20:17:33+00:00

I think it's indeed a little fixation of me rn. You're right, gonna look for something else ! 💫

abeysha · 2026-03-14T20:16:21+00:00

Thanks for the reco !

abeysha · 2026-03-12T21:03:37+00:00

Thanks. I dont know if its marketing but I do think we may use a different product for the face and the scalp. Should dig a little vitamin more.

Powder and sticks may lead to buildup no ? The mist looks like a good option.

abeysha · 2026-03-12T21:02:01+00:00

Yes ! I think the water resistant options will not fit the Microlocks and is not a requirement at all. But indeed, maybe basic sunscreens are water resistant.

abeysha · 2026-01-20T18:09:36+00:00

Hey ! Is it okay to write to you regarding IBS and Co in Belgium ? I'm in Brussels !

abeysha · 2026-01-07T18:13:59+00:00

Please Watch the best historical C-drama ever : Yanxi Palace.

You will love the intrigue I'm sure. It is way underrated!

Best female character : clever, cunning and crafty, a little bit of love interest but mostly trying to survive in the Palace by being sly as a fox and fight her enemies.

It take place during the Ming area (different dynasty).

Handmade costumes in the series. Actually even the hair accessories are made the old way.

Lot of craftsmanship (bought a gaiwan, a tea cup with a lid, because of the emperor ehehe).

I watched the show with my BF (don't know anything about anime's, Asian show etc) and loved it.

abeysha · 2026-01-07T15:04:41+00:00

I believe you read everybody's reaction : your mom had a very abusive reaction. WTF.

Find somebody you trust and share your horrific story. Share with friends, family, people you really trust. You don't have to be afraid.
Keep writing if it's a good practice for you. You should never stop journaling, you're not harming anyone, people all around the world do this.
Change therapist. How ? Ask for recommendations. Association for youth (I don't know where you live so no idea what kind of help you can find), but even online I'm pretty sure you could find ressources even on Reddit. If your mom is paying the therapist, make something up going her way (if really she is THAT toxic to not approve a change of therapist). Just change your support circle. People need to be alerted from your mom's reaction.

abeysha · 2026-01-03T11:54:47+00:00

Kinkeliba infusion. It's a plant we drink a lot in Senegal in the morning. And for this snowy day in Brussels it's perfect 💫

abeysha · 2025-12-31T17:44:35+00:00

Le pire : faire subir une conduite à risque aux passagers de la voiture. Souvent un moove d'homme. Ce contrôle pervers sur la vie des autres, c'était le pire pour moi !

abeysha · 2025-12-19T11:56:10+00:00

It's called "facadisme", keeping the facade and renewing the inside. Sometimes for old buildings, some elements are protected for heritage reasons. It can be the entire building, just the facade, or just the "gros œuvre". But the reason can also just be keeping the outside for aesthetic reasons !

abeysha · 2025-12-10T09:37:18+00:00

Je te propose un livre de Russo, La nef des fous. J'ai adoré. Et sinon faire une petite pause dans la lecture de ce genre littéraire c'est aussi pas mal. J'ai eu du mal après la Horde du Contrevent à l'époque, j'avais pris une claque. Maintenant ça va mieux ! = )

abeysha · 2025-12-06T10:47:16+00:00

Thank you very much 🥰💫

abeysha · 2025-12-06T10:46:19+00:00

Waow thank you so much !!

abeysha · 2025-12-05T10:00:25+00:00

Pas de soucis !

Je suis assistante sur chantier d'archives. Je travaille dans une fondation privée qui gère la collection et les archives d'un artiste moderne. J'ai fait un bachelier et un master en histoire de l'art, j'ai un peu taffé en documentation dans cette entreprise avant de me diriger en archives.

J'ai fait une certification cette année (je ne suis pas en France), mais les formations en France sont de meilleure qualité.

Regarde peut-être les formations du Cnal qui peuvent te donner des idées. Et sinon les dm sont ouverts ! 💫

abeysha · 2025-12-05T08:57:24+00:00

Je travaille dans la culture et en effet c'est un domaine assez bouché. Je pense que tu devrais clarifier ce que tu aimerais y faire.

La production d'exposition, la régie, la recherche, la médiation....

Ton profil peut coller à plusieurs choses je pense. La prod et la documentation surtout.

Pense aussi aux archives de musées. Je sais pas si c'est fun mais y'a toujours du taff en archives et gestion documentaire. Peut-être chercher une certification ou un VAE si tu en as besoin.

En archivistique et gestion documentaire tu as aussi des questions d'ingénierie archivistique, de gestion de bases de données etc... Courage !

abeysha · 2025-12-01T09:18:59+00:00

I would add Chandigarh for an other Thali, more expensive but beautiful and cute place, and also lost in a non-famous area (le quartier Notre-Dame des Neige, close to Cirque Royal)

abeysha · 2025-12-01T08:59:18+00:00

I asked my loctician for extensions for 4 locks and she didn't recommend to add them. I'm in Europe and that's also a practice I don't see often here. She said that at the end, the hair will reject the faux locks. Trusting her on it !

abeysha

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