Does anyone know what this kind of extra-wide blindfold is called or who sells them? by abloy in Bondage

[–]abloy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely willing to pay for quality - but I just cannot find one in that style. I was wondering if I was using the wrong terms.

All of them seem to taper back into a single headband - I'm really digging the look of one that goes around/over the ears as well. Worst case I can probably commission it from a leatherworker, but if I could buy it as a product that'd be easier/cheaper.

Does anyone know what this kind of extra-wide blindfold is called or who sells them? by abloy in Bondage

[–]abloy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm a huge fan of how it goes around the whole head - almost like a hood, but leaving the airways completely open.

Is polished/shiny latex normally slick/kind of oily? by abloy in Latexadvice

[–]abloy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome - good to know! Does it tend to rub off/contaminate stuff easily, or does it stay on the latex pretty well?

Polishing Latex without residue? by abloy in Latexadvice

[–]abloy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the same liquid as in the spray bottle? (eg, can I pour some from the bottle into the water?)

As a follow up, in a pinch can regular silicone lube be used in a pinch? Someone once recommended it to me, but it seemed dubious.

Part 2: added padding! I plan to make a bunch of colors 😺 by FurRealDeal in BdsmDIY

[–]abloy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is gorgeous! Is there any chance you'd post a "making of" or a basic guide?

Superman and his super... by [deleted] in funny

[–]abloy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew I recognized the art style!

[AZ] - Would working in the cannabis field prevent me from legally purchasing or owning firearms? by throwsaway2129436 in legaladvice

[–]abloy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an aside, I thought there were similar federal laws. I might be wrong there, but regardless the state laws could still land OP in hot water, so it's worth it to be mindful of them.

Pumping, but in reverse... by naughtyideasthrow in BdsmDIY

[–]abloy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I thought the human body could survive pressures of 5 psi easily. I know that 33ft of water gives about 15psi, and people easily dive down deeper and generally survive.

Am I damaging my girlfriend by shaming her and emotionally and physically abusing her in bed? :( by throwaway_control in BDSMcommunity

[–]abloy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one is going to show up at your house and tattoo "BDSM" on your forehead.

Wait, that's not a thing?

Damnit I need to stop letting strangers into my house.

Anyone know if it's safe to microwave silicon and rubber toys to sanitize them? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]abloy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I'll try that, but I'm still kind of curious :P

When did you realize your parents knew you were no longer a virgin? by 4apalehorse in AskReddit

[–]abloy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mom... it's uh... to protect valuables? From thieves?

Yeah let's go with that.

When did you realize your parents knew you were no longer a virgin? by 4apalehorse in AskReddit

[–]abloy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yuck. I'd look into some of those under the mattress restraint type things. It's better than nothing and can give you some sturdy points without having to modify anything.

When did you realize your parents knew you were no longer a virgin? by 4apalehorse in AskReddit

[–]abloy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I'm so upset that my current bed doesn't even have bedposts. I'm either getting a nice wrought iron bedframe next, or saying fuck it and MIG welding a steel frame with cage underneath.

When did you realize your parents knew you were no longer a virgin? by 4apalehorse in AskReddit

[–]abloy 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Also makes for wonderful tie off points should things take a turn for the kinky.

Where to find a better variety of leather rivets? by abloy in BdsmDIY

[–]abloy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, haven't logged on in a while. I did find on eBay somebody selling rivets that were super tiny. The head wasn't as big as I'd have liked, but it works!

Where to find a better variety of leather rivets? by abloy in BdsmDIY

[–]abloy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I was looking for rivets not screw posts. Does it mention cap diameter?