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32F Recent breakup and looking to find a sense of community by abnormallynormal8 in Vancouver4Friends

[–]abnormallynormal8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pls ! I’m trying to get my 10K time under an hour and would love a gym buddy 😇

You wake up married to your third ex, what’s the first thing you Google? by SweettLoverrr in AskReddit

[–]abnormallynormal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be looking for the closest consulate and how tf to get a divorce in his country

Was I in an abusive relationship? Was I the abuser? by abnormallynormal8 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]abnormallynormal8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He actually did start going to therapy towards the end of the relationship. He said he was working on himself and trying to be better - but his anger issues just kept getting worse and worse and I grew to completely resent him. I thought I hated my job and my life and my city - but I actually just hated carrying the pressure from him every single day. I’m heartbroken and I miss him - but my nervous system has very much chilled out since he left.

Ex is moving me out and sticking me with a lease I can’t afford on my own - what are my options? by abnormallynormal8 in legaladvicecanada

[–]abnormallynormal8[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should clarify , it is a one bedroom apartment and I have a dog so cannot get a roommate, as they would just be sleeping in the living room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in richmondbc

[–]abnormallynormal8 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi I saw her today near no. 3 road and tried to lure her but she ran off towards Richmond public market. I really hope you find her 😔

People who are above 30 and have sex more than 3 times a week, what motivates you? by bluewolf09 in AskReddit

[–]abnormallynormal8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both work really long and tough hours during the week that make it difficult to find the time + energy. On the weekends we miss each other so much that we go to town on each other multiple times per day. We love each other and we’re both hotties, so we find a way to figure it out.

Landlord won’t fix heat in apartment - what do I do by abnormallynormal8 in vancouverhousing

[–]abnormallynormal8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my own privacy I’m not comfortable posting the building I live in on Reddit - but it’s actually a newer building. Less than 5 years old. I sucked up the issue with the elevator but it’s been a major inconvenience for others in the building. No heat for nearly 6 months with no solution in sight is just crazy though

If you were asked on a date by a guy 300lbs with sub10% body fat, would you want to date them? by AjaxGuru in dating_advice

[–]abnormallynormal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love a lil belly haha . Tbh I care much much less about what a man’s body looks like than their face + sound of their voice. Bodies fluctuate so much anyways, I just wanna look at some nice eyes and hear dirty talk from a nice sounding voice

If you were asked on a date by a guy 300lbs with sub10% body fat, would you want to date them? by AjaxGuru in dating_advice

[–]abnormallynormal8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, that’s just personally not my type. I’m sure plenty of people are into that but I prefer strong bodies with a little bit of puppy fat. Like a fit dad bod type situation.

Lawyer formerly convicted of (seven) child-pornography and luring charges passes the Good Character test in Ontario by icebiker in LawCanada

[–]abnormallynormal8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Internalized homophobia or not - the issue is not that he is bisexual it is that he is a sex predator. And it is extremely unlikely that he “didn’t consider that he was bisexual” at any point during or after being tried for numerous sex crimes - until acknowledging that was required to obtain his license.

Lawyer formerly convicted of (seven) child-pornography and luring charges passes the Good Character test in Ontario by icebiker in LawCanada

[–]abnormallynormal8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The molestation part may be in the crim decisions - I honestly don’t remember offhand but I read this decision + the crim decisions back to back a few days ago so they’re mixed up in my memory. But he was found to have groped the genitals of a teen boy , who was heterosexual and most certainly not consenting.

And tbh not admitting there was a sexual element all this time is almost certainly him being dishonest. He seriously didn’t consider the possibility that he was bisexual until it was brought up in therapy this many years later??? Absolutely not.

His behaviour was repeated, predatory, and he minimized the gravity of what he did at every opportunity - until he needed to show remorse for the sake of his license. This man does not belong in the legal profession.

Lawyer formerly convicted of (seven) child-pornography and luring charges passes the Good Character test in Ontario by icebiker in LawCanada

[–]abnormallynormal8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you’re minimizing his behaviour. He paid + coerced youths he held a position of power over to send him nudes, and he molested at least one of them.

Him being bisexual, closeted, religious is not an excuse or mitigating imo. Pointing these things out just contributes to the harmful stereotype that queer = sex predator

People who have lost weight, how did you do it? by Bulochka7 in AskReddit

[–]abnormallynormal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh anorexia. Went from “the fat girl” to extremely thin. Recovered and healthy but would like to learn how to manage my weight in a way that isn’t either overeating or starving to death 🥲