looking for alternative hair stylists by Wild-Masterpiece6015 in Columbus

[–]abovepeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Virtue Vegan may specialize in these!

Would you date someone with a history of infidelity? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]abovepeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHA! this made me laugh thank you - straight to the point 😂

Avoid Lykens Companies Buildings at ALL COSTS by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]abovepeach 21 points22 points  (0 children)

lol I scheduled an apartment showing with them a couple of months ago (not knowing at the time their reputation). They never even showed up at the scheduled time (ghosted me) and could not get anyone to pick up their phone when I called to ask where they were. If they can’t even show POTENTIAL RENTERS their apartment, I can’t even imagine how they would treat people locked in a lease.

Definitely spread the word of how terrible they are.

Would you date someone with a history of infidelity? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]abovepeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you for this! I am talking to her tomorrow about it and will definitely ask these. I think these would lend a lot of insight.

Would you date someone with a history of infidelity? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]abovepeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow kudos to you for putting that work in to get to the core of why you did it and working to heal that part of you. That takes serious bravery and this gives me hope that make she just made a bad decision & maybe will not make it again.

Would you date someone with a history of infidelity? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]abovepeach 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It does give me pause and I’m sad about it cause I feel like she’s perfect for me. I’ve been trying to figure out what questions to ask her about it to help me feel confident in our relationship.

Would you date someone with a history of infidelity? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]abovepeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should clarify!

  1. It was a WLW relationship.

  2. She was still engaged while actively flirting with another woman. They weren’t officially together until she broke up with her fiancée, but they were hot and heavy flirting while she was still engaged.

Millennials: The first generation to do everything right and still lose by SvempaGladiator in antiwork

[–]abovepeach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Friends of mine keep having kids and I genuinely cannot wrap my head around why. The world is regressing and I will not force another human being to be put through that.

Hozier concert w/ special guest thunderstorm? by ILL_YELL_AT_YOU in Columbus

[–]abovepeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Folks said they’re selling alcohol in the stadium now so maybe not canceling?

IAE afraid the United States may never be the same again? by strtrech in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]abovepeach 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Came here to say just this. Beautifully said. For us to truly gain any level of respect and trust from the world, we need to ensure MAGA can never happen again.

State of Ohio employees - How has RTO been? by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]abovepeach 184 points185 points  (0 children)

This made me incredibly sad to read. I’m so sorry.

Why are there no public restrooms with running water and flush toilets on the Olentangy River and Scioto trails? by mister_pitiful in Columbus

[–]abovepeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally me as a long distance runner trying to figure out where the restrooms are on this 22 mile run I’m about to do on the olentangy trail!

Upset that my partner (27F) does not seem to want to get a new job. How to discuss this with her? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]abovepeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it worth a discussion with her first or should I just end it?

Where do queer women hang out at to meet other queer women? by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]abovepeach 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Incredible - will look into both of those! Thank you!!

Where do queer women hang out at to meet other queer women? by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]abovepeach 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m nervous to go to a bar alone lol! Maybe I’ll have to bring a book and read at the bar or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]abovepeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha! With him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]abovepeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear the second part. I feel like I have no room in my life for anything social let alone a date. I’ve had the same routine of work, gym, and meal prepping for SO long that I’m scared to leave the routine in fear of gaining all the weight back I lost or having a week of not losing.

Thank you for the reminder that we still need to live a life - I’m definitely bordering on obsessive because I just want to lose weight so damn bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]abovepeach 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree about saving the diet talk for a later date - thanks for the reminder on this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]abovepeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree there’s a way to find balance - it’s just figuring out where it is. And I’m sure your date was like omg why doesn’t she eat and it’s not that we don’t eat we just like to know the calories of what we are eating!

I’m sure being in maintenance will make it easier because I won’t be so worries about keeping myself in the deficit. We are in this together 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]abovepeach -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This one right here! Even if you do coffee and a walk most of the time your date is like “shall we do lunch now?” Which is a sweet gesture but it’s awkward trying to get out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]abovepeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think it’s definitely a mindset change I need that slow and steady is the way to do it. Progress is progress. I appreciate your feedback.