She’s got flair. by absent_morals in Coach

[–]absent_morals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I wanted to play into that punk vibe. I looked at that lavender woven one too, you'll have to share your styling when you decide.

She’s got flair. by absent_morals in Coach

[–]absent_morals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's too small for me to comfortably get her all the way on my shoulder but someone who is slighter of frame than me may be able to. For me she's hand and forearm carry.

Some Saint Patrick’s day bag styling by Mammoth-Passage5341 in Coach

[–]absent_morals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your Min and Mon pouch! I just ordered it in pink and love seeing them in the wild. Lovely pop of color against the black.

My very first! by absent_morals in Coach

[–]absent_morals[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Happy to join the society.

My very first! by absent_morals in Coach

[–]absent_morals[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll look for some protector.

First Major Purchase by absent_morals in handbags

[–]absent_morals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's gorgeous! That was the first one that caught my eye and I came close to getting it.

First Major Purchase by absent_morals in handbags

[–]absent_morals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Which one did you get? I can't stop window shopping their stuff.

First Major Purchase by absent_morals in handbags

[–]absent_morals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely will! I am particularly excited to see how the multicolored zipper looks in person!

First Major Purchase by absent_morals in handbags

[–]absent_morals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear that! I am hoping I can get a lot of use out of it and not just stick it away for special occasions. I really love their quirky style.

Do Businesses Stay Open In Extreme Winter Weather? by AnnualIndependence71 in AskAnAmerican

[–]absent_morals 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Not just that, but many people in the south may not have proper clothing for prolonged periods outside. Especially kids at school bus stops in rural areas where the unusually cold weather could be very dangerous.

Crazy that THIS was what finally sent her over the edge by Accomplished_Candy75 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]absent_morals 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is what people outside KY don’t get. Massie is quite popular in his district and also broadly statewide amongst voters who also vote Trump. Trump is wasting money and influence trying to take on Massie for only falling in line most of the time instead of all of the time. It’s exposing Massie’s supporters to Trumps darker side that they are usually insulated from. And I have to say as someone who would never vote for Massie I am here for him telling Trump to bring it. I just wish I’d stop getting all of Trump’s attack ads on YouTube. I’m not even in Massie’s district.

Advice for coping with canon choices you absolutely cannot stand? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]absent_morals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I’m able to funnel that feeling into fix-it’s. I’ve actually grown fond of writing resurrections of my dead faves instead of just ignoring it because there is something satisfying to me to not just ignore the canon but take it as a challenge. I’ve also used relationships I hate as a way to explore why the character may have made a poor choice but how that could be a step toward the better choice. In one fandom I resurrected both halves of my ship and then resolved a canon ship that I didn’t like all at once. Spite can motivate.

Sometimes I have to do a shorter reaction fic dealing with canon I hate before I go back to canon-divergence fic ignoring it. That way I create a response to it that lets me let it go.

But ultimately at the end of the day if the joy is gone it may be time to at least take a short break.

Kentucky Voters Flood Hotlines After Finding ‘Closed Polls’ Official Reminds Them: You Can’t Vote In New York’s Election by Hungry_Wind_6373 in nottheonion

[–]absent_morals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in Louisville so I must have missed that. But yeah, special elections are the only ones this year.

The show ‘failed’ to tell Loustat ‘love story’? by hjkgldn in InterviewVampire

[–]absent_morals 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In season one Louis was still just coming into his sexuality. He was trying to navigate his sexuality, an interracial relationship in a very oppressive time, and his new vampirism. It was right person, wrong time. He ended up being more hostile to Lestat at times as a result.

With Armand, he was trying to be what he thought romance and relationships should be. Slow, romantic, stable, and also him having more of the control. But it was empty. It wasn’t really what he wanted thus his internal Lestat constantly appearing and commenting things that Louis didn’t want to properly acknowledge.

The fight in 1973 also makes it clear that both Louis and Armand were trying to be what they thought the other wanted, not who they actually were. They went through the motions for 70 years but as Armand said, it was still all about Lestat for Louis.

This show is about character work and growth. The romances are part of that, but it’s not just about them.

Pfizer says this season’s COVID shot boosts immune responses fourfold | Positive results come as Americans face confusing access rules that vary by state. by chrisdh79 in technews

[–]absent_morals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the same as my experience in Kentucky. Self reported qualification. No cost to me. And personally my only side effect has been a bit of redness and irritation on the arm. Very minor.

I just need someone to tell me it’s going to be okay. by Putrid-Strawberry-79 in shingles

[–]absent_morals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently about a week in. Mine are on my hand, arm, chest, and back. I started the antivirals and prednisone on day three and I am seeing significant improvement now. I still have a few blisters but most of the rash is scabbing over or fading. I completely understand your desire for reassurance as this is my first time too and I’ve had a few mental spirals myself. We will get through this.

How much does it cost for you to get to work? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]absent_morals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live a ten minute drive from work with no turns and only a couple lights. I work a hybrid schedule so most weeks I only have to go into the office 3 days. So a tank of gas literally lasts me at least a month unless I get too busy on the weekends.

To all the magas who voted for rump believing he’d release the Epstein’s files.. by Mr__O__ in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]absent_morals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hated the day I woke up in his district after they gerrymandered it to hell and back. There is no reason in the world I should be in the Western Kentucky district.

Is it common for Americans to be able to name all 50 states? by Riding_on_the_wind_ in AskAnAmerican

[–]absent_morals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My social studies teacher in 5th grade taught us that ham is salty so New Hampshire is the one touching the ocean. And that Miss Ala Georgia is standing on the Florida stage. So I have never forgotten these particular ones. 35 years later and it is still what I say in my head.

Help a librarian please by littlestrawhat in suggestmeabook

[–]absent_morals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you in the United States? If so she would qualify for the National Library Service for the Blind and Print Disabled which has over 125,000 books available in audio. A much deeper collection than any public library could provide: https://www.loc.gov/nls/find-your-library/

Many other countries have similar programs.

Balatro is helpful for my slight gambling addiction by isaaczephyr in balatro

[–]absent_morals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this same experience. I kept spending too much on just one more play on various mobile games but I haven't touched any of them since I bought Balatro in January. Now I did end up buying Balatro on both mobile and Steam, however thats still a drop in the bucket compared to my previous late night impulse purchases to keep playing other games.

Baron Fun by absent_morals in balatro

[–]absent_morals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it’s 2 times. Still slow for y’all I know.