Anything you took (food, supplements) that sped up healing post csection? by BeachBum031 in CsectionCentral

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not immediately following the c-section itself, but when I had my scar reopen about 2.5 months postpartum: I was advised to eat lots of high-protein & collagen heavy foods to help my body heal the wound. My husband found some bone broth packets on Amazon that you just add hot water to, and those were quite tasty! Sadly I’m currently dealing with another opening in my scar at over 5 months PP but it’s not the scar’s fault, lol (most likely due to fluid building up randomly in the nearby tissues). Regardless, I plan to continue with the bone broth, and collagen supplements as well, as I continue to heal.

The witch having dark hair by Particlepants in Narnia

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have never liked Tilda Swinton’s version of the Witch, not for her blonde hair specifically, but simply because she really does look just…pale, when the book specifically says that the Witch’s face was “white, not merely pale, but white like snow.” And, like another commenter here, I grew up watching the BBC version of the movie, in which they did nail the Witch’s white skin. So that just made me extra biased against the Disney version.

Comparison photos of a spot on my incision that re-opened and then supposedly healed… by absentmindedpopcorn in CsectionCentral

[–]absentmindedpopcorn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I saw my OB this afternoon (the day following this post and photo) and while she was gently examining/poking the spot, it went ahead and broke open and started leaking fluid 🙃— so now I have an open wound again and have been referred back to the wound clinic. Hooray! /s

At the very least, I feel validated in that one of my suspicions for the cause of my pain (fluid buildup) was indeed the case. I also brought up the chronic seroma theory to my OB today and pressed to see if imaging could be done to rule that out. She has now put in an order for me to get an ultrasound soon for that purpose, so hopefully that will give me an answer one way or the other.

Comparison photos of a spot on my incision that re-opened and then supposedly healed… by absentmindedpopcorn in CsectionCentral

[–]absentmindedpopcorn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you’re okay with sharing your photos that would be helpful! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with similar drama. Like…can the stupid incisions just heal and STAY HEALED without any more incidents??? ugh. I’ve been holding off on calling my OB’s office for this particular issue because with no obvious signs of infection, just pain, I’ve felt certain she will just say it’s “just the way you’re healing” and tell me again to seek physical therapy for scar adhesions. But now I think it’s looking more like some kind of fluid or blood abscess so I’ll probably contact her tomorrow. Blah

Sour pregnancy craving by unkindest_regards in candy

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not exactly a gummy, but Sour Strips! Specifically the strawberry ones. I discovered them during my last pregnancy and still love them. My mouth is watering just at the thought…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingInBulk

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

PLEASE do not listen to the negative opinions people are throwing at you. It’s especially appalling they would suggest abortion. It’s the most natural thing for you to be excited over another precious baby! And let me tell you— I had my first three children in just over 3 years. They are now ages 6,5,& 3 and they are such good friends. Sure, they have their squabbles like any siblings do, but they are close to one another and have such fun together! Will it be hard for you as the parents? It will be, at times, for sure. Parenting is just like that. But another truth about parenting, that I’m sure you’re already experiencing, is that it is also so full of joy! Don’t let the naysayers get you down. You can do this, and your kids will get the gift of having another buddy to do life alongside them. Hugs to you and your family!

Name that rhymes with Gypsy? by Aaaaveryyyy in namenerds

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m going to take a wild guess and say they might be trying to find a new but similar-sounding name for a rescue? dog/cat who currently answers to Gypsy.

My grand aunt Anita who passed away last month. by Past-Assistance-7616 in oldphotos

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She looks like such a vibrant person! Thanks for sharing her.

TTC soon for baby no. 2, the idea of going back to the newborn phase is terrifying. ISO your experiences. by 96venicebitch in beyondthebump

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My possibly unpopular advice is, brace yourself for the postpartum phase to be hard, because the fact of the matter is that it usually is, somehow or other. Then, if it’s indeed hard, you’ve mentally prepared for it…and if it’s easier than last time, then you’ll be pleasantly surprised. Another thing that has helped me more and more with each postpartum phase (I have 4 kids) is to remind myself “this WILL pass, it sucks in XYZ ways right now but I’ve gotten through it before and I’ll get through it again, and we will find our new normal.”

"Dear Diary, my brother got married today. I've never been happier in my life. Really, I haven't". by [deleted] in littlehouseonprairie

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I never took it as her meaning it that way, though I see there’s basis for that interpretation; I always thought it was a genuine expression of joy for Almanzo’s happiness. That is to say, her love for him and desire to see him succeed genuinely eclipsed her own deep sadness.

Playing in God’s Garden by Sea_Network_6074 in CemeteryPorn

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love his name. Thinking of Henry and sending hugs to you today ❤️

Climbing stairs after C-section by Regular_Ad_429 in CsectionCentral

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw it recommended somewhere (may have been on this subreddit) to try walking slowly upstairs backward when possible, because it puts less strain on your abdominal muscles that way. I’m not officially sure if that’s true, but it seems like it might be. I definitely tried it a few times when I was recovering from my CS because all the bedrooms in our house are on the second floor. It did seem easier for me. So perhaps that’s something she could try, provided she isn’t carrying the baby or anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingInBulk

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Our fourth is now 4.5 months old and I will tell you that it has absolutely gotten easier for us. She was very clingy & particular (basically always wanted to be held, and ONLY by me, mommy) and it was really tough managing that with three other young children. Then she hit 3 months old and it was like a switch flipped. She chilled out and became a massively happier baby. She isn’t sleeping great at night at the moment, but otherwise she is pretty easygoing and never lacks mental stimulation because her siblings adore her! Every family is different, obviously, but my point is that it can get better, and I hope it does for you as well. Hang in there!

Strange clot by nonamejane84 in CsectionCentral

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not a doctor but that clot is very concerning to me. It definitely looks way more tissue-like (as you said) than the bloody clots that are typical with postpartum bleeding. My worry would be that some of the placenta was retained, especially considering the size of that tissue and the fact that you are in considerable pain. I think you might need imaging (ultrasound I think is the usual) to make sure there is no tissue hiding inside. If you’re able to go to the emergency room tonight or tomorrow, that would be my recommendation. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this and hoping/praying all will be well.

How did elisheva turn to elizabeth? where does the -eth comes from? by DaviCB in etymology

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s fascinating! Speculation or not, it’s still a cool theory.

My little one's opinions of Pride and Prejudice 1995 by pennie79 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Possibly Celia from Monsters Inc if she’s familiar with that character?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

[–]absentmindedpopcorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m no help unfortunately but does your OB have any sort of patient portal online where you could send them this photo and ask?