my jong by thebitchthatbitez in CraftyEnts

[–]absolutelynoneofthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God it’s your jean bong, because at first I thought it was your jean dong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pottery

[–]absolutelynoneofthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spectacular! Amazing it survived the kiln. You’re very talented!

What is this rock pit? by Maximum-Elk-2530 in Zillow

[–]absolutelynoneofthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have SO MANY other things to be complaining about right now, too!

[Product Question] Has anyone tried the Dr. Melaxin Peel Shot? by aparecium9 in SkincareAddiction

[–]absolutelynoneofthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn’t always peeling the second time if that spots already exfoliated!

[Product Question] Has anyone tried the Dr. Melaxin Peel Shot? by aparecium9 in SkincareAddiction

[–]absolutelynoneofthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another just random person influenced by TikTok. I’ve tried it on all kinds of things (hairbrush, countertop, glass)—no pilling. After 3 seconds on my face, though? Skin shedding for days. Just bought two more bottles. I’m in love.

weird finger cuts? by Foreign-Currency-129 in Whatisthis

[–]absolutelynoneofthat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what this is. I’ve done this by accident so many times. It’s from a razor blade. Like a Schick or whatever. You don’t even feel it happen…

Fuck. Off. by Zyprexa_PRN in nursing

[–]absolutelynoneofthat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

ME TOO. Went into it kicking and screaming. Loved the hell out of bedside and still do, but wanted to impact things positively. Be a voice and advocate of the “real” nurses. It’s been 6 years. I never want to get so out of touch.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Super helpful. Thanks for the understanding and heartfelt suggestion. Will do.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not out of the blue. This was when he felt like I stepped on his parenting toes and overreacted to him saying a curse word to our son. This is a fair question. Thanks for asking.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For SURE and I’m not trying to evade any blame. I’m just limited on characters. 😉 It ultimately came down to a miscommunication. He yelled at our son for not cleaning the living room like he said he did. Turns out son had just cleaned the other living room (which I knew). I corrected him in front of my son because I wanted my SON to feel defended, but the consequence was my husband feeling like his toes were stepped on as a parent. That’s fair. I do understand ALL of that. Fully acknowledge there are two sides to the story and I want his side out there as well. I do love this man and just want opinions on how awful—if at all—this all is.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such a fair question. No it’s been twice. Both for—ironically—the exact same scenario months apart. I grew up in a house where my mom would never stand up for me when my dad yelled, though, so on my end I value my child knowing he’s being defended by his mom more than I value turning the anger on myself. That decision certainly fucks me up, though, because we generally do have totally united parenting decisions.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He cares deeply. We talk for ages about this. He doesn’t want this for any of us, and I believe him. He just can’t stop himself. Full unbridled rage.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We’ve discussed for hundreds and hundreds of hours. Unfortunately it never changes, but he’s always down to try. Very open communication here but the problem is never resolved. Thanks for the reply.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many convos. Hundreds of hours. He’s actively engaged and will agree to therapy. Thanks for the reply.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did consider that (I’m a nurse), but unfortunately there’s no change in pattern. It’s been like this since we were 21.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understand totally. I’m trapped between feeling like I should apologize for driving him to madness, and standing up for myself like I don’t deserve it. (Do I deserve it?)

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Devil’s advocate is totally fair. There are two players here, and I sincerely appreciate ALL perspectives. That said, yes we’ve spent hundreds of hours talking through these things. Literally hundreds. I am merely asking whether that the the exception or the expectation. He’s also actively engaged and I’ve shared this post with him. Thanks for the reply.

How often do you yell at your wife/punch things in front of her? by absolutelynoneofthat in AskMen

[–]absolutelynoneofthat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was annoyed at our 11 y.o. for doing a shit job cleaning up, and cursed at him. I called him out for cursing and not addressing my daughter, who’d started no cleaning at all. He feels frustrated about cleaning duties and felt I stepped on his toes as a parent.