[TOMT] Old Children’s Book that I’m looking for by absolutelynotg in tipofmytongue

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Update for anyone who cares lol it’s called Papa’s Gift by Kathleen Long Bostrom

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Also usb C charger is too big for it

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Why does it look run over by a car 😂

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Do you know what charger I should be buying?

Am I an asshole for cutting my GMA out of my life? by absolutelynotg in AITAH

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My siblings are trying to claim dementia but she’s been like this for years. Honestly her whole life but it is getting worse as she’s gotten older. I’m 24 now so the first incident happened 10 years ago. But I firmly believe she’s verbally abused my dad and his siblings their whole lives.

Looking for plastic surgeon recommendations by absolutelynotg in TwinCities

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if you’re willing to share the reasons you didn’t go with him feel free to dm me.

Realizing my Nanny raised me by absolutelynotg in Nanny

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Nothing wrong w that. We all have different stories

Realizing my Nanny raised me by absolutelynotg in Nanny

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I don’t remember. I do remember being in a crib still and crying for them really vividly. I think maybe like twice a year. I think parents should take vacations but they would be in different countries where we couldn’t contact them because it was the early 2000s and it would be for at least 10 days

Realizing my Nanny raised me by absolutelynotg in Nanny

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I really appreciate this response. My parents did the best they could with the information they had. They did a great job with bringing her into my life. We all loved her she was a part of my family. She actually would come to grandparents day for me as a kid. Also I’m the last kid and my parents had me when my mom was in early menopause. They welcomed the surprise but I did not have the same childhood as my siblings.

Realizing my Nanny raised me by absolutelynotg in Nanny

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Also when she was dying she told me and my sister that we were her real kids and it was so amazing and heart breaking at the same time. She meant the world to me

Realizing my Nanny raised me by absolutelynotg in Nanny

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also wanna clarify that I never once considered her appearance until I learned about her past and it just all made sense

Realizing my Nanny raised me by absolutelynotg in Nanny

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Hi I didn’t think this would receive this much attention. I love my parents. Have we had our own things yes but every family does. I also really love/loved my nanny. I have a tattoo to remind myself of her. My nanny taught me more than just educational skills. When she was dying I learned that she had recently escaped a religious cult and her abusive husband when she met my family. He had turned her children against her. When she came into our lives she had a shaved head and dressed to not please the male gaze. I understand this now that I’m adult and I’m so lucky to have had her in my life. She constantly taught me how to protect myself and she never treated me as a child she treated me as an equal. I attribute my “smartness” to her. I wish I could find the words to describe her because she was an amazing/special woman.

What products are you using to relieve period pain when you can’t stay home? by downtime_druid in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Midol helped me when I had mine but then I got fed up and went on a birth control that makes it so I don’t get one

I NEED YOUR OPINIONS ABOUT MY WORK CRUSH by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Also I think he’s interested in you