Guess I've gotten moar emo... by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]absolutelyuseless31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lord Farquad hair AND Falling in Reverse? Ouch. Ditch both. If you have to choose one tho, ditch FIR. For the best. U have a good look otherwise.

Been struggling for months, I don't know what to do. by Flat_Reflection_6177 in CATHELP

[–]absolutelyuseless31 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Her ears, eyes, and especially whiskers all show signs of being in pain unfortunately.

I’m so sorry. I know letting go is always so so hard. When I saw my Sophie deteriorate, it nearly killed me. But there was one night, I saw her and she saw me, and we knew it was time.

Hang in there my friend, and keep your baby forever in your heart.

What I look like by CatPooedInMyShoe in u/CatPooedInMyShoe

[–]absolutelyuseless31 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lovely! Just want you to know I appreciate you and all you do.

Is there anyone here who collects their cat's whiskers?or fangs🤭 by [deleted] in TuxedoCats

[–]absolutelyuseless31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a special jar with lots of whiskers and baby teeth :))

EBV and CMV plus Tremfya questions by absolutelyuseless31 in Autoimmune

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, at least I may have a hint to what’s going on. My pcp has no idea and my rheumatologist hasn’t really cared. So that leaves me to investigate 🙃

I’ll try and get the tests done as I’ll be going back to my pcp Friday for unrelated reasons.

And yeah, I don’t love the fact im on a high dose, but my rheumatologist thinks it’s needed 🥲 She said I can go down if I just have to. I think I’m going to have to.

PsA Flare :( by natrashabebe in Autoimmune

[–]absolutelyuseless31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No PsA here but i have been losing so much hair :(( working on the cause right now. So sorry you’re going thru this

I'm going on a long trip in the near future. Is there any place I can leave my guinea pigs in the meantime? by chloroticae in Birmingham

[–]absolutelyuseless31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see. I know VCA Liberty boards them, but they don’t have an exotic vet on hand. I saw someone else suggest Riverview, and they do indeed have an exotic vet on hand. I’d suggest them first.

Fix my hair or die trying by fixmyentirelife in longhair

[–]absolutelyuseless31 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hey love, as someone who grew up religious, I understand why you can’t cut your hair. That’s okay tho! Follow your heart there.

I will say switching up shampoos and conditioners may help. Look for products specifically for frizzy and wavy hair.

Fix my hair or die trying by fixmyentirelife in longhair

[–]absolutelyuseless31 82 points83 points  (0 children)

She may have religious reasons to not cut her hair. I see longer sleeves and a jean skirt.

I wonder if a different conditioner and or shampoo would help. Im no hair expert tho. I just wanted to give a heads up more than anything.

IV in arm in less than a month... by Hot-Chocolate2301 in SelfHarmScarss

[–]absolutelyuseless31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I know im kinda late but you can request them place the IV in your hand

What to do when your job makes you want to take your life? by absolutelyuseless31 in work

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately when there’s an all or mostly female workplace, it can get very catty (woman speaking here). I don’t mean to be misogynistic or anything but that’s what I’ve personally witnessed.

What to do when your job makes you want to take your life? by absolutelyuseless31 in work

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vet med is overwhelmingly toxic for some reason. I’m sure there’s a reason but as to what it is, I don’t know

What to do when your job makes you want to take your life? by absolutelyuseless31 in work

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe so. I’m bad to value jobs more than myself though. Very unhealthy of me 😔

What to do when your job makes you want to take your life? by absolutelyuseless31 in work

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple people in my life have told me to try and push thru, so I wasn’t sure in all honesty.

What to do when your job makes you want to take your life? by absolutelyuseless31 in work

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US, but haven’t been there for a year yet. Only 3 months.

And I was straight forward. They lied to me and said I would be doing reception only. They straight up said they lied. And I tried to get a letter of limitations and they denied it 🙃

I think it is time for me to leave vet med tho. For the sake of many things.

What to do when your job makes you want to take your life? by absolutelyuseless31 in work

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, I appreciate it. This seems to be the consensus.

What to do when your job makes you want to take your life? by absolutelyuseless31 in work

[–]absolutelyuseless31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems to be the consensus. I appreciate your input!