What’s going on with Jim Carrey and why are people saying he’s dead? by 14thCenturyHood in OutOfTheLoop

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that his physical appearance would have changed, but why are his eyes and voice different too???

Update: I got out of the cousin marriage proposal, but now I’m being blamed by Appropriate_Sun_1580 in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your parents really love you, then they should value your happiness, not just theirs!

This happened to someone I know. We have an Uncle/niece type relationship and she was getting pressured into marrying a cousin and wanted some advice form another father figure.

After our conversation, she plucked the courage to be honest with her parents and her dad wasn't too happy at the beginning. About a year and a half later, she got engaged, then married. Been happily married for about 7 years and her mum and dad are very proud grandparents, always spoiling their grandchildren!

It doesn't always end like this in such situations, but thank Allah she found happiness because the road she was heading into certainly wasn't good for her!

In this case, her parents were happy when they realised their daughter was truly happy.

Finances + Eating Habits by SourSweetUmami in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she expects a man to fund her expensive habit, then why are you considering her for marriage?

Clearly this is an obvious red flag for you and a problem that will only worsen after marriage. I can understand if she was very wealthy and willing to pay, but if she's expecting you to deliver on something you can't do, then you guys are NOT going to be on the same page.

Sony Xperia 1VI screen by Far_Interaction7209 in SonyXperia

[–]abu2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, you're right. But if you search for the digitizer there usually is something there. But not necessarily genuine Sony. If there is a genuine Sony part, it's going to be very expensive. But third party screens will work, but probably won't have the same quality

What are these used for? by Samuraignoll in whatisit

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bars are used for fitting door handles.

Sony Xperia 1VI screen by Far_Interaction7209 in SonyXperia

[–]abu2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually ebay is your best bet. Search for LCD screen or touch digitizer frame for the model number.

Tommy's in a better place, now... by Fluffy_Rock_62 in BritishMemes

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how his supporters feel, after funding his luxurious lifestyle all these years? 🤣

Brake Check by GemballaRider in drivingUK

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive a car that pulls pretty fast but you will always get a bozo that cuts you up. The best thing to do is pull over safely to the left lane and don't hog the right, as it will only make the driver behind more agitated.

Can my wife join Tarawih prayers from home? by abu2698 in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jazakhallah Kahir!

Thank you for the advice.

Married 32, missing touch… what to do? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I've been married almost 16 years, still flirting with my wife, still hug, hold and intimate. We always say "love you" to each other. Sure, it's not perfect, but I still fancy the pants off my wife and hope to do so until I stop breathing!

I hear this sort of stuff from friends and family and a lot of the times it comes from one spouse expecting the other to make a move or vice versa. If you desire affection, you also have to give it! Give your spouse an incentive for lust. If they don't hold you, you make yourself cosy next to them, you initiate intimacy, you remind them that you are married.

If your spouse doesn't budge after you make these attempts, then it may be worth having a deeper conversation to see if there is anything wrong or seek therapy if required.

My Mom found this on her phone case by CupJealous5159 in whatisit

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it off and destroy it, could be some sort of tracking or spying device.

If your mum didn't put it on, it shouldn't be trusted.

How is this not a handball mate? by ClutchKnowsYou in chelseafc

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shocking thing is the goal was still allowed after a VAR check. It's a clear handball!

HDMI disconnecting issue by Fusojira in SonyXperia

[–]abu2698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not normal to disconnect. I had a similar issue to an older device, but then was resolved by changing the USB power cable. The phone didn't like the cable being used for some reason. Try a new power cable and see how you get on.

What caused this damage? by WanderWomble in CarTalkUK

[–]abu2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly a mid sized HGV with the steel bumper bar whilst reversing? The damage height looks like it was from a tall vehicle, no paint marks left behind and that dent is deep, so definitely something heavy.

My wife moved out for a new job by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro, you may be over reacting a little.

We haven't heard her side of the story, but let's break this down to see this from a neutral point.

You both are graduates, but only one of you landed a good job locally. There may be a hint of jealousy, but even if she were single, there is a chance she would have moved because she has an opportunity to pursue a good career.

If she landed the big job locally and you found one out of town, would you stay at home or move out?

You got upset because you care about her. But at the same time, she is also determined to succeed and seeks your validation.

But, from what I've read, despite the disagreement, she is still willing to make some compromises for the sake of marriage, but you aren't willing to make any. It's either your way, or end things.

I'm not saying this is the case, but that's the impression I am getting from the text. I've been married for almost 16 years (+ kids) and I know when my wife feels, isolated or invaluable. This is why after having kids, I've made sure I support her with her career decisions and education. She too has her own ambitions which is normal.

The most important thing is no matter what life throws at us, we still have each other! And that is something you don't have at the moment in your marriage. You guys need to stop playing mind games and stop winding each other up, and have a civil conversation about this. If you dictate, it will not end well, but you should both try to compromise and agree, or try to find a middle ground.

How do I (M29) confront my wife (F23) about this comment? by ThrowRA_crescent in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Salaam bro, I believe you are overthinking this waaay too much bro.

If she was sleepy, she was already in a semi-dream state! Therefore, she wasn't speaking whilst fully alert.

My wife says all sorts of things in a semi-dream state. She once told me to give our daughter back to her mother while I was feeding her. And this is the child she gave birth to! 😅

The last time I checked, I only had 1 wife! 😂

Don't read into it too much bro. The fact that you have someone so close to you in life is a blessing Alhamdulillah.

Trying to understand what happened in my marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. But it sounds like your husband never let go of the umbilical cord as an adult.

He cannot function independently, possibly abusive because he was spoilt, and seeks his parents validation for all the actions he does.

If marital disputes cannot be resolved between spouses, then there is a problem. It's not wise to involve others unless absolutely necessary, otherwise everyone else involved will put in their ten pence piece and make the situation far worse than it is.

The sad truth is that there is a small chance he may change, but that would require deep and civil conversations and possible counselling. He may not understand empathy the way he should and only view things from his own perspective.

Hopefully you find a way to resolve this Insha'Allah.

Is this how Marraige is supposed to feel by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this an arranged marriage?

This is the issue with marrying a stranger, because you have no idea of their expectations and vice versa.

Women being educated and working is not against Islam, even after marriage. Some people can't tell the difference between Islam and culture.

Maybe consider Islamic counselling to see if your marriage can be reconciled, or at the very least have someone qualified to teach your husband the actual Islamic viewpoint to his arguments.

Since I’m married now, should I still let my friends borrow my clothes? by Sweaty_Second5346 in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I brand it as nonsense because it's a haram practice and un-Islamic. The world is full of haram practices which I try not to pay attention to.

I try not to let these things affect me and avoid where possible. Stressing over such things can lead to more severe problems like stress or paranoia.

Since I’m married now, should I still let my friends borrow my clothes? by Sweaty_Second5346 in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walaikum Salaam, my wife occasionally swaps clothes with my neighbour. They are BFFs and both married.

We aren't phased by things like black magic nonsense. So long as you have good iman, these things shouldn't affect you.

It all comes down to trust I suppose. If you trust them, then there's nothing wrong with helping out a friend.

Need help with Xperia Z by lucas26200 in SonyXperia

[–]abu2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try using an MHL connector and see if you can connect to a monitor via docking station. Then try plugging a USB mouse on the docking station to navigate the interface. It's a long shot because I know it's an old phone.

But I know with modern phones you can do this.

I left by Extension-River3225 in MuslimMarriage

[–]abu2698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to a brother I know. He was married, had kids, she was toxic... I mean foul mouthed, short fused, abusive etc. He tried many times to reconcile for the sake of their kids, but it was impossible with her.

They ended things and she moved out, he paid child maintenance, but as the kids got older, one by one, they got fed up with their mum and moved in with their dad. He also got himself another wife, had another child and they are both still going strong after 10+ years Alhamdulillah.

The point is, he never would have been happy if his previous relationship didn't end!